Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.

And we get it… Sometimes it can be hard to decide what to do on a first date (especially if she’s a real catch!)

But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.

Because today we’re sharing with you the 63 best things to do on a first date that are almost guaranteed to make her beg you for another one.

So if you follow these first date tips, and be sure to make the date fun, you’ll be one step closer to figuring out how to get a girlfriend!
I recommend reading through all of these 38 things to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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38 Best Things To Do On A First Date

I’m going to stop right here and say this: Where you take her doesn’t matter (but it helps!) It’s what you do with her and how you engage with her that will keep her hooked.

Some dates are better than others for this… It all depends on your personalities.

But really, no matter what you do or where you take her, as long as you make it a fun time, you’ll be light years ahead of most guys (that means actually doing things instead of sitting in a movie for two hours.)

Here are 38 best things on what to do on a first date : 

1. Outdoor Adventures

Just go outside and walk around! Adventures will pop up everywhere if you’re spontaneous and say, “Let’s go in here” a bunch.

2. Get up insanely early and be the first customers at your favorite breakfast joint.

If you’re not a morning person, maybe skip this one. It also works as a second date the morning after your first date.

3. Go to a used bookstore

See who can find the strangest, the best, and the worst books in the store.

4. Go gift shopping

It’s never too early to get your Christmas shopping finished.

5. Visit a tourist hot spot in your town that neither of you has been to before

Being a tourist in your home town can be surprisingly interesting and fun! Check your local Historical Society.

6. Attend a local film or music festival.

This date could last hours so be sure to be ready for that.

7. Meet up for a drink

A quick drink is plenty of time to figure out if you want to go on another date!

8. Visit a new restaurant

Going to a restaurant completely blind is always an interesting experience.

9. Go Ice Skating

It’s sweet, romantic, and it gives you an excuse to hold her hand.

10. Explore a New Coffee Shop

Every nook and cranny. Hipsters leave all kinds of stuff lying around.

11. Walk a Dog Together

There’s a reason long walks on the beach are a thing. Walking with someone sparks great conversations. A dog just makes it more unpredictable.

12. Go to a Brewery

Nothing like a little liquid courage to loosen up the conversation. Just be sure you’re not drunk every time you hang out with her.

13. Head to the Zoo

If you go on a lot of first dates, a zoo pass is a smart investment that will save you money in the long run.

14. Visit a Flea Market

Flea Markets are great for people watching and finding things you’d never buy. In other words, they’re a blast.

15. Tour a Botanical Garden

They’re peaceful and give you plenty of quiet time to get to know each other.

16. Catch Some Views

Find some vantage points to snap some pics of a gorgeous view or two.

17. Hit Up a Karaoke Bar

One way to really get to know each other is by singing with all your heart. If you’re not afraid to sing in front of strangers (or her), she’ll be impressed.

18. Sample Some Fro-Yo or Ice Cream

This shouldn’t be a stand-alone date! Do it at the end of everything else you’ve planned.

19. Take a Ferry Ride

Nobody really uses Ferries anymore, which is why they’re the perfect, surprisingly enjoyable date!

20. Sample Treats at a Food Festival

Or just go to Costco. Either way, walking around and eating free samples is a cheap date that can turn hilarious when one of you tries something you don’t like.

21. Go for a Leisurely Bike Ride

A bike ride is a relaxing way to get some exercise and get to know her.

22. Go to the Beach

Show off those abs you’ve been working on

23. Get Lost in a Cornfield Maze

Only available in Autumn, cornfield mazes are often built on farms where you can buy pumpkins to make jack-o-lanterns!

24. Go to a Carnival

A fun, but expensive date where you can impress her with your knowledge on beating carnival games.

25. Go Rock Climbing

A local climbing gym is the perfect first date if you both enjoy getting physical.

26. Feed the Ducks

Feed ducks cracked corn, bird seed, oats, or rice, but definitely NOT BREAD. It can kill them.

27. Race Go-Karts

Get her heart rate pumping for a fun and exhilarating time she’ll always associate with you.

28. Go Horseback Riding

A little on the pricey side, but if she’s never ridden a horse, why not be the first person to do it with her?

29. Attend Trivia Night at a Local Bar

You’ll almost definitely lose to one of the regular patrons, but it’s still a fun time. Plus there’s alcohol!

30. Make Like Tourists in a New Neighborhood

Go to the rich part of town.

31. Take a Nature Walk

To me, there’s nothing more relaxing. Make sure it’s a more popular trail or park though, otherwise she might get uncomfortable if you’re too far from other people.

32. Thrift Store Fashion Show

You can find some great outfits at the thrift store, both serious and absolutely ridiculous.

33. Restaurant Hop

Even though it’s illegal, bar hopping on a bicycle is a blast (I wouldn’t know though.)

34. Take an Art Class

Paint a pretty picture that you can show off to other girls if this one doesn’t work out.

35. Take Dancing Lessons

Seriously, you should learn to dance. It’s fantastic exercise and feels amazing. Alcohol will help get you started.

36. Pack a Picnic

Picnics are ideal for uninterrupted time alone to get to know each other.

37. Take a Wine-Tasting Tour

Girls love wine, and a wine-tasting tour is the perfect place to find a lot of it for a decent price.

38. Find a Pottery Class

This is a win-win! You’ll make a piece of pottery you can use and a memory of your first date!

25 Things to Do/Talk About on A First Date

This is the hard part. Figuring out things to talk about on a first date can be nerve-racking, but if you stay busy (by walking around or looking at things other than each other), the conversation will come naturally.

And even if you’re just sitting across from each other at a table and there isn’t much going on around you, if you keep some of these things to talk about on a first date in mind, you’ll be just fine.

Here are 25 things to do/talk about on a first date: 

39. Talk about your childhoods.

Save the severe childhood trauma for after you’ve been dating a bit. Letting too much out at once is a big red flag.

40. Talk about your families.

You can learn a lot about why a girl is the way she is if you know a little bit about her family.

41. Talk about places you’ve lived or traveled.

We become more worldly and wise with travel and some of our defining moments come from far-away places.

42. Talk about date horror stories

Everyone has at least and they’re fun to recount (plus it’ll make her realize she’s on a good date!)

43. Talk about animals.

Most girls like animals so if you don’t like them, consider acting like one.

44. Talk about work grievances.

Work is a pain sometimes and it always helps to vent about it.

45. Talk about your friends.

You can pick your friends. You can pick your nose. You can pick your friends’ noses too, but I don’t recommend it.

46. Talk about the last concert/movie/play/party they made it to.

Talk about any and all experiences you’ve had. And be sure to remember the best stories so you always have one to tell.

47. Talk about dating experiences.

EVERY girl has been on a terrible date or seven. Hearing about them is a good self-esteem booster because at least you’re not that nuts.

48. Talk about passions.

This is an important one. Find something to be passionate about and work at it every day.

49. Talk about her hometown.

And more importantly, why she got out.

50. Talk about where she wants to travel.

Maybe you can take her there one day.

51. Talk about what she loves to do.

We all love something. What does she love?

52. Talk about her career.

Don’t spend too much time on this one, but definitely show an interest in what she does for a living.

53. Talk about her motivations.

What keeps her getting out of bed every morning?

54. Talk about her friends.

For some people, their friends are their family. And even if that’s not the case, the types of people she hangs around will tell you more about her.

55. Talk about where she went to school.

Did she draw that “cool S” everyone drew?

56. Talk about her favorite food/cooking.

Also, learn to cook. Girls like a guy who can cook.

57. Talk about her hidden talent.

It could be a naughty one…

58. Talk about her favorite music.

Music is one of humanity’s greatest cultural creations. Share some great tracks with each other.

59. Talk about what she finds sexy in a guy.

The word ‘sexy’ has an automatic sexual connotation to it. This is a safe question to get her mind on the naughty stuff.

60. Talk about adventure.

Adventure is the spice of life. Think of everything as an adventure and life gets more interesting.

61. Talk about kinks

If the conversation heads in this direction (don’t force it to go there), by all means go for it. You’re definitely getting a kiss.

62. Talk about books.

Read more books!

63. Talk about what she’s up to later on or tomorrow.

She can crash at your place if she’s not busy. Or you can schedule something for tomorrow.

Things To Do Before You Kiss on the First Date: 11 Steps

Unless you’re both giving off obvious sexual tension, your safest bet is to wait until the end of the date to kiss her.

Why?

Because if you read the signs incorrectly and move in for a kiss, the date is officially over once your kiss is rejected. And that’s awkward.

So follow these steps to ensure you have a successful and memorable kiss on the first date.

Here are 11 things to do before you kiss on the first date: 

Step #1: Watch the signs.

As the night progresses, keep an eye out for signs she wants you to kiss her.

Step #2: Check your breath.

Lick the back of your hand (in private!) If it stinks, your breath stinks. I always carry gum while on a date. Pop a piece in before you make your move.

Step #3: Linger at the end of the date.

At the end of a date, keep the conversation moving and mainly focus on how much fun you had with her and how great you think she is (once you’re ready to make your move, stop talking and go to step 4)

(Note) The next 7 steps should take no more than 10 seconds to complete.

Step #4: Make eye contact.

People who can’t maintain eye contact are viewed as distrustful. Keep those eyes locked!

Step #5: Get physically close.

Slowly move a little closer to her

Step #6: Smile.

Smile often. You’re more handsome that way.

Step #7: Shoot a glance at your date’s lips.

If she catches you and wants you to kiss her, she’ll get quiet all of a sudden.

Step #8: Ask your date if you can kiss her.

If you think you’re reading the signs correctly, don’t ask, just slowly move in. But asking in a sweet way works too.

Step #9: Break the touch barrier.

This needs to happen throughout the date to build sexual tension. It lets her know you’re into her. But as you move in for a kiss, move your hand to her cheek or the lower portion of her back.

Step #10: Enjoy the Kiss!

Move in and let those lips lock! Don’t forget to come up for air!

Step #11: (The Bad Ending)

If she rejects your kiss… It happens and it sucks. You did your best and it’s going to hurt for a bit but the most important thing you can do for yourself is learn from this date by figuring out where you went wrong (maybe you didn’t do anything wrong and she just wasn’t that into you. That’s okay too.) and maybe your next date will be more successful.

More Tips On How To Get The Girl

Getting the girl requires more than a successful first date!

1. If you can’t figure out how to approach a girl, we’ve got you covered.
2. How to talk to girls gets easier with practice and the knowledge of how to do it.
3. No girl wants to kiss a guy who doesn’t know what he’s doing. Learn how to kiss a girl!

How to Decide What To Do On A First Date: 5 Steps

Deciding what to do on a first date can sometimes be the hardest part. Especially with so many options!

Follow these steps to help ease the anxiety.

Here are 5 steps on how to decide what to do on a first date:

Step #1: Relax!

Where you go isn’t as important as how you handle the date! Make it fun. Don’t forget it.

Step #2: Figure out What She Likes over Text

It’s usually the case that you text a girl before you go on a date with her. Use some of our questions to ask a girl over text to get to know her before you even ask her out on a date.

Step #3: Watch the Weather

If you’re like me and don’t check the weather often, you’ve probably had your plans for a date ruined by a thunderstorm and didn’t have a backup plan. Which brings me to my next point…

Step #4: Have a Backup Plan (Or three)

Anything can happen between the time you plan a date and the actual day it happens. Have some backup plans in case your first option doesn’t pan out.

Step #5: Once you Decide, Get Pumped

You should always bring your best self to a date, so it’s important to actually be excited about it. That excitement will give you the confidence to ask her out…

And she’ll notice your enthusiasm once the big day comes.

In Conclusion

Well there it is. Figuring out what to do on a first date should be no problem now.

And I know I keep saying this… But as long as you are fun to be around, where you are doesn’t matter.

Now get out there and plan some dates!

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You’ve got her number, you want to have a chat, but you just don’t have the right text conversation starters. Or, you didn’t, until now. 

One of the main tricks to how to get a girlfriend is simply figuring out how to text a girl in a way that makes her want to text back.

There’s a lot of advantages to texting over flirting in person. You don’t have to worry about looking nervous, you have time to think up the right comment, and you can get a lot more personal without feeling embarrassed.

For all that, you have to know how to start a text conversation with a girl and what to text a girl after you’ve got the conversation going to get all these advantages.

So, start where you need to start: use these conversation starters to make her eager to chat all day and all night, and maybe meet up in person for that big first date.

I recommend reading through all of these 68 text conversation starters to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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25 Best Text Conversation Starters

Below you’ll find some of our best conversation starters. If you’re going for a real banger upfront to get things started, this is where you’ll find it.

Here are 25 best text conversation starters: 

1. What is something that is popular now that annoys you?

Sometimes those wacky, passing fads aren’t for everyone.

2. What was the last time you worked incredibly hard?

Push yourself daily if you want to always have an answer for this.

3. What were you really into when you were a kid?

I liked gems and minerals. I also collected keychains for some reason… Kids are weird.

4. What is a controversial opinion you have?

This can spark an extremely interesting conversation so long as you have an open mind.

5. What is the most annoying habit someone can have?

Bonding over dislikes is a surprisingly powerful way to get to know someone. However, if she never talks about anything positive… That’s a red flag.

6. What do you bring with you everywhere you go?

Girls get purses so I’ve started carrying my new backpack with me everywhere. It’s ridiculously convenient and I highly recommend it.

7. Where is the worst place you have been stuck for a long time?

Airports, the side of the road, and inside an elevator with a bunch of wet dogs are all perfect examples.

8. What is something that really annoys you but doesn’t bother most people?

We all have pet peeves.

9. What is your guilty pleasure?

What do you like that most people love to hate?

10. What trends did you follow when you were younger?

We were all a little confused in middle school.

11. What is the silliest fear you have?

Maybe you can help her overcome it!

12. What smell brings back great memories?

Smell and memory are two very powerful combinations. It’s been 10 years and Love Spell from Victoria’s Secret still takes me back to my first love in high school.

13. What are you best at?

Everyone has that one thing they’re awesome at.

14. What’s the best show currently on TV?

Impractical Jokers? Game of Thrones? Pawn Stars? Everybody has a favorite.

15. What cartoons did you watch as a child?

Childhood memories are fun to talk about because they bring you back to a time when life was much simpler.

16. What do you do to get rid of stress?

How she deals with stress will tell you about how she’ll deal with you when you stress her out.

17. What is something you are obsessed with?

Hopefully not you.

18. Where is the most beautiful place you have been?

You should travel more. 

19. What weird talent do you have?

Everyone is a little weird. That weirdness is what makes us different!

20. What’s your favorite genre of movie?

A classic.

21. What is the most useful app on your phone?

Furthermore, how many apps do you have on your phone that you haven’t opened in the past 6 months?

22. What is the worst restaurant you have ever eaten at?

Hopefully not the one you wanted to take her to.

23. Would you eat at a restaurant that was really dirty if the food was amazing?

Dirty restaurants have the best food… But your stomach will probably hate you for it.

24. Do you prefer traveling alone or with a group?

Try solo traveling sometime. It’s hard to travel with people afterwards.

25. Do you prefer to go off the beaten path when you travel?

Or does she prefer sticking to an itinerary?

6 Good Morning Text Conversation Starters For Her

Nothing keeps you in a girl’s mind like starting a great conversation with a good morning text for her. Try a few of these to start a tradition that makes you her favorite part of getting up.

Here are 6 good morning conversation starters for her: 

26. You just popped into my head and I thought I’d say Hi

This is so casual and cute. I use it all the time.

27. Hey, good morning! I just looked out the window and saw what a beautiful day it was – it made me think of you.

Sweet, a bit flirty, and a great message to wake up to.

28. Rise and shine sunshine! Ready to make the world a better place? You have a way of doing that

Empower her and let her know how you feel all at once.

29. The whole world is ours, so let’s rock it. Good morning!

Tell her you’re a team and you can accomplish anything…together!

30. Good morning, do you have time to meet me for coffee?

Perhaps the simplest way to get a date right at the start of the day.

31. Good morning, how’s my favorite lady?

Cute, a little romantic, but not too committed.

6 Good Night Text Conversation Starters for Her

If you and the girl you’re texting are more night owls than early risers, try some text conversation starters designed to be a good night text for her to send her sweet dreams of texting with you.

Here are 6 good night conversation starters for her: 

32. Always end the day with a positive thought and grateful heart. Good Night!

Good advice, and a great way to inspire her.

33. I know that you are busy, but I wanted to tell you to have a good night.

A subtle way to make her think of you without being a bother.

34. I just wanted to wish you a restful night’s sleep after your long day at work. How was work, by the way?

Give her the opening to unburden herself to you.

35. A good night has maybe a movie, some pizza and a couple beers; but do you know what will make it a great night?

Lead her into asking, and then invite her over for that great night.

36. Call me if you can’t sleep and we can talk all night if you want

An invitation you’ll be happy for her to take up.

37. Do you know my favorite reason to lose sleep?

An interesting topic she may spend the whole night chatting about.

7 Flirty Text Conversation Starters for Her

Texts are great partly because it’s so much easier to flirt for some guys. All you need are the right flirty texts for her, and you don’t have to stress about how to flirt with a girl over text or in person.

All it takes is a few flirty conversation starters. It’s just that easy.

Here are 7 flirty text conversation starters for her: 

38. I can’t even remember the last time we spoke. We need to change that.

A little coy if you were chatting recently, or a great invitation if it really has been ages.

39. I was going to wait another day or two to text you, but I can’t wait that long to talk to you.

It’s honest, makes her feel special, and starts a great conversation.

40. Stop sending me mixed signals and start sending me memes.

She’ll chuckle and know you like her, and you’ll get some new memes. A win-win.

41. My dog wanted you to know that he misses you.

A cute way to get her attention. Send pictures of the dog.

42. I suck at starting conversations. You want to try?

Put the conversation pressure on her, and get a smile while you do it.

43. You look so good right now. I can’t actually see you, but I assume you look good, because you always do

Sweet, silly, and a great compliment. An unbeatable flirty option for your conversation starters.

44. They say that a picture is worth a thousand words. They were wrong. Whenever I see your pictures, I just think “Wow”

At least chuckle worthy, and sure to make her feel special.

8 Love Text Conversation Starter Messages for Her

When you’re getting serious with a girl, flirting isn’t enough when it comes to conversation starters. You need something stronger. That’s where love messages for her come in. Send these to show just how important she is to you.

Here are 8 love text conversation starter messages for her:

48. You’re Attractive, Gorgeous, Sexy, Intelligent, Smart, Charming, Sophisticated, Fit, Kind, and Generous. In fact, you’re becoming more like me everyday!

Flirty, silly, and full of compliments for her.

49. Your smile is literally the cutest thing I’ve ever seen in my life.

Put that perfect smile on her face with this one.

50. My six word love story: “I can’t imagine life without you.”

Nothing says love like this text.

51. You’re my paradise and I’d happily get stranded on you for a lifetime.

Poetry and romance in a single text.

52. The only time I stupidly smile at my phone is when I get text messages from you.

This one has the benefit of likely being honest.

53. I love all those things you don’t do: you never tried to change me, you never minded my quirky moods, you never laughed when I attempted to be serious, and you never turned away when I needed you most.

A twist on a text classic: tell her all the ways she has proven she’s the best girl out there.

54. You are my happy ending.

She’s like a fairy tale princess, after all.

55. For once I don’t have to try to be happy because when I’m with you it just happens.

Make her happy by telling her how happy she makes you.

6 Text Conversation Starters to Ask a Girl Out Over Text

To take your text relationship to the next level, you’ll need conversation starters that show you how to ask a girl out over text.

Use these to open the door to that relationship you’ve both been circling around.

Here are 6 conversation starters to ask a girl out over text:

56. What’s your favorite restaurant or fast food place?

Get the answer and ask her to meet there.

57. Hey, I know these great places where they have (something you know she likes) Let’s go tomorrow!

The perfect transition to a date. Ask her to meet somewhere you know she can’t resist.

58. You are bored? Well, if you play your cards right, I could take you to a great place to have (something she likes) this afternoon.

Flirty and silly, but with a great opportunity to meet up for something she likes to do.

59. Hands tired . . . fingers aching . . . all this texting is giving me RSI. Let’s carry this conversation on in person—after work good for you?

Get a giggle and a date from her in one text.

60. You’re ridiculously busy. I’m ridiculously busy. Let’s multi- task and do a study date. Just promise not to distract me

Start with books and move on to more fun activities.

61. You’ve never had Indian food? Well then, we have to get you some.

Start a potential relationship showing her you’ll open up new worlds for her.

7 Text Conversation Starters After She Didn’t text back

The scariest idea when sending conversation starter is the panic you know you’ll feel if she didn’t text back.

There’s no need to panic, though, just throw out one of these texts to restart the conversation.

Here are 7 conversation starters after she didn’t text back: 

62. Wow! You’re playing hard to get already? Aren’t we moving a little too fast lady? We haven’t even dated yet!

Acknowledge the missed text in a fun way.

63. I have to tell you a little secret: even my grandmother types a text message faster than YOU do.

Another one to make her smile at her failure to respond.

64. You seem to be busy right now, so I’ll leave you alone so you can do your thing!

A sweeter way to remind her you’re still waiting for a response.

65. Have you googled me yet?

She may just do it now.

66. Hey, I passed by that pizza place you were telling me about and thought of you. How are you? Up for a slice of pepperoni soon?

Turn the radio silence around and turn it into a date.

67. Oh so you fainted from excitement of getting a text from me? Totally understandable. Text me when you wake up.

A great way to move on from a good night text that she didn’t respond to.

68. I bet you’re having an awesome day.My day can beat up your day.

Now she’s curious.

More Ways On How To Talk To Girls

There’s plenty more to learn about how to communicate with girls beyond sending some text conversation starters. Become a conversation expert with these topics:

1. Use compliments for girls to make her feel special when she talks to you.
2. Find some things to talk about with a girl to keep the conversation fresh in person and in text.
3. Make the feelings reciprocal with your excellent conversation by working on things to say to a girl you like to keep her interested.
4. Avoid messing up a potentially good thing by learning how to tell if a girl likes you over text.

How to Use Text Conversation Starters: 5 Steps

Now you have your conversation starters all lined up, it’s time to actually do some texting. Just follow these 5 steps to ensure a successful conversation.

Here are 5 steps to use text conversation starters:

Step 1: Get Her Number

You have to start with the obvious. You need her number. If she’s handing that out to you, you already know she wants to hear from you, which means you’re on the right track.

Step 2: Use What You Know About Her and Trust Your Instincts

Choosing the right text conversation starter all comes down to building on what you know and trusting yourself. If she’s sporty, choose something in that category. If not, avoid it.

Work with what she has told you about herself and then make a call. You’ll find you’re usually right.

Step 4: Choose the Right Time

Texting her right before a big test is a great way to waste the perfect text. Choose a time when she’s likely to be available and eager for some text-based distraction.

Step 5: Text Away

To get the conversation going, you’ve got to press “Send.” Don’t put it off. You’ve done the hard work choosing the conversation starter. Now use it.

Step 6: Keep Extra Conversation Starters Close at Hand

You may or may not need more conversation starters, but it’s always good to have them ready. If she doesn’t respond right away or if the conversation lags, pick out another one and try your luck again.

In Conclusion

To harness the power of the text for your potential relationships, you first need to figure out how to text a girl by working with top-notch conversation starters.

With the conversation starters listed above, you’ll always know what to text a girl and how to start a text conversation with a girl.

Once you’re texting away, the path to how to get a girlfriend will start to open up. So start texting, and get that little closer to your goal.

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Whether she’s your long-term girlfriend or a crush you’re trying to woo, sending a good night text for her is always a solid move. If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, it’s all about the little things. Sending her a message at bedtime is just one of those sweet little details that can really help a romance to blossom.

Of course, if you plan on sending her nighttime tidings, you need to know both how to text a girl and what to text a girl. After all, sending the right text at the right time can really make her feel special. Read on to learn how to send the perfect text that will make you the hero of her dreams.

I recommend reading through all of these 62 text messages to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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11 Best Good Night Texts For Her

This list is the cream of the crop. These are the texts that are going to send her to dreamland with a smile on her face. They’re heartfelt, kind, and genuine, but they’re not too over the top.

These texts don’t necessarily need a response. She may not be up for a long conversation when she’s getting ready to sleep. These are the texts that you can send and rest easy, knowing you made her night just a little bit better.

Here are 11 of the best good night text for her:

1. I know that it’s tough for you to fall asleep without me. Let it be the biggest nuisance in your life.

This text is confident yet playful, and it lets her know that you want the best for her.

2. I miss our conversations until the morning, the night is empty without you. Sweet dreams.

Let her know how much those special moments mean to you.

3. My hectic day is over. I want you to know that I was thinking about you and now I will imagine you in my arms. Sweet dreams, I love you.

This is a sweet text because it shows her that even after a long day, she’s still on your mind.

4. Let me wish you a good night. I hope that soon I will fall asleep together with you so I can tell you these words personally.

Texts are sweet, but there’s nothing like a real, person-to-person connection.

5. I miss you with every passing second. I miss the way everything feels alright with you. I miss you.

Use this text when you’re longing for her on those lonely nights when she’s not around.

6. My dreams are incomplete without you in them.

You can’t control your dreams, but you can try! Let her know how much you love when she makes a guest appearance.

7. At the end of the day, all I wish to see is your smile, and that makes my day. Hope you had a great one! Good night.

If her smile lights up your life, tell her about it.

8. When I come home exhausted from work, I just close my eyes and imagine you. Your beautiful bright eyes makes all my tiredness go away. Good night.

This text gives her a great compliment while letting her know how much you care.

9. Want to know my perfect date idea? It’s not some fancy restaurant; it’s just you and I cuddling at night and watching a movie together. That is the only thing I want to do at the end of my day. Good night.

Sometimes the simple things in life are the best.

10. Even after spending the entire day with you, I just can’t seem to get enough of you.

This is the perfect text after hanging out with her and going your separate ways at the end of the night.

11. My daily routine after coming home from work is to jump in the shower, brush my teeth, and think about you before sleeping. It’s just perfect!

You know someone’s special when they make it into your nighttime rituals!

8 Good Night Texts, That Are Also Great Good Morning Texts For Her

These handy texts work equally well at night or in the morning. If you forgot to text her last night, sending a good morning text for her is a great way to remind her that you care.

A simple good morning text can really help her to start the day off on the right foot. Sometimes a morning sets the mood for the rest of the day. These texts are super romantic, so use them wisely!

Here are 8 good night text for her that also make great good morning texts:

12. You mean the world to me and I can’t wait to see you again.

Simple yet sweet, this text is a reminder of how much you value her.

13. Every day before sleeping I think of ways to make you smile the next day. Your smile makes my days and nights perfect.

End the night on a positive note with this happy, uplifting text.

14. I’ve got you and only you in my heart.

Let her know that she’s the only one.

15. Every day you give me more reasons to fall in love with you.

Bonus points if you name some of those reasons.

16. It’s cold here, I wish we could be together to warm up…

Obviously this text is for those chilly nights alone.

17. You are such a big part of my life. I just know that you will be in mine for many more years to come.

Let her know that you see her in your future.

18. It’s amazing to think about how love works in our lives. It really makes the impossible possible!

Let her know that she’s magical.

19. I want you to know that whatever life throws our way, I will always stay in love with you.

Assure her that your feelings are true and unchanging.

7 Good Night Text Conversation Starters

Sometimes a conversation with the girl you care for is the best way to end the day. These text conversation starters are perfect for when you’re lying in bed, bored, trying to think of something to say to her.

Knowing how to start a text conversation with a girl is an incredibly valuable skill. These days, you can really get to know someone through text, and a good conversation can make her see you in a new light. Use these good night text for her to kick off the conversation, and then see where it goes. The possibilities are endless!

Here are 7 of the best good night text conversation starters:

20. Which three things would you bring to a deserted island?

It’s a classic, lighthearted question that helps you learn about each others’ favorite things.

21. If you had x-ray vision glasses, would you use them to see under the clothes?

This question is silly but it can lead in to other scandalous conversations.

22. If you could have dinner with anybody, dead or alive, who would it be?

This is another classic question that can make for some interesting discussions.

23. If aliens arrived at Earth and they chose you to visit their home planet, would you go with them?

Chatting about the mysteries of space is a fun way to end the day.

24. Which movie title would describe your life? Why?

This question can lead to hilarious or deep conversations. Get creative with it!

25. Is there any funny story about you that you haven’t told anyone?

A little laughter is always welcome.

26. What is the sweetest thing I ever did for you?

Nothing like reminiscing about fond memories to send her to snoozeville smiling.

11 Good Night Texts to ask a girl out over text

So you’re ready to make the big move. She gave you her number, so she’s probably interested in you. If you want to take the relationship to the next level, you have to ask her out on a date.

Once you know how to ask a girl out over text, life becomes so much easier. After all, asking her out face-to-face can be seriously intimidating! Use a good night text for her from this list to sound smooth and confident when you make plans with her.

Here are 11 of the best good night texts to ask a girl out:

27. How about we meet this Sunday at [coffee shop] and get to know each other in person a little bit?

This is a great text if you’re chatting with someone new in your life.

28. Why don’t we hang out for a bit?

Direct and to the point. Lots of girls like that.

29. How about we meet later this week for a quick drink?

Beverages are the social lubricant of the dating world.

30. I have an interesting idea about what we could do later this week.

This one should pique her interest. Just make sure you actually have an interesting idea ready!

31. Ok, let’s pretend for a sec that you’re a guy and I’m a hot girl like you. How would you ask me out?

What better way to know how to ask a girl out than by asking her how to ask you out?

32. Honestly? I like you. You’re a lot of fun to be around and you’re pretty hot too, so let’s go somewhere together already!

This text is bold and direct without sounding too arrogant. Plus it never hurts to throw a compliment in there.

33. Let’s chill, what’s your schedule like next week?

This text shows her that you’re a considerate guy.

34. I am going to x this Friday. Would you care to join me?

Find a cool event in your area and invite her to it. It’s that simple.

35. I’d like to take you out.

It doesn’t get more direct than that.

36. Will you marry me? If not, can I just take you out for dinner?

It’s a classic sales trick. Ask for something huge first, that way your second request seems more reasonable in comparison!

37. Your mutual favorite DJ or band is playing this weekend and I have an extra ticket, wanna be my date?

Make sure you have those tickets! It would be a shame if the show sold out after she said yes.

7 Flirty Good Night Texts For Her

These flirty texts for her are sure to give her sweet dreams. If you want to be the last thing on her mind before she slips into slumber, you need to learn how to flirt with a girl over text.

These romantic texts are sappy, but that’s not a bad thing! Sometimes girls like a little cheesy romance. Of course, you don’t want to come on too strong, so you may want to use these flirty texts sparingly.

Here are 7 of the best flirty good night text for her:

38. Hold your phone tightly because this text message is a hug in disguise. Good night.

This is a cute one that’s sure to make her feel special.

39. Hey. I know it’s late, but I can’t stop thinking of you. I hope that you have an amazing night with dreams filled with me. Good night.

Just make sure it’s not too late or you might disturb her slumber.

40. I bet you are beautiful when you are sleeping.

This text is ideal when you haven’t slept together yet, but you know it’s on the horizon.

41. Are you going to think about me before you fall asleep tonight? I hope so…

If she wasn’t already, she is now!

42. This text message is an official invitation for you to join me in my dreams.

Official invitations are much more meaningful than those boring unofficial ones.

43. My bed is so comfy tonight. I wish you were here so I could hold you. Now that would be even comfier.

A cozy text that’s sure to make her feel happy inside.

44. All snuggled up in bed with my cat. There’s still plenty of room for you though. Just sayin!

Dogs are acceptable as well. Who can resist a cute pet?

11 Good Night Love Texts For Her

When your heart is full of love, sometimes you just need to let it out! These love messages for her show her how much she really means to you.

These are the texts you send when things are going really well in the relationship, and you want her to understand just how much you care for her. These are powerful texts, so use them wisely. Once you send one, there’s no going back!

Here are 11 of the best good night love texts for her:

45. I can’t promise to dream of you every night, as it’s really difficult to sleep with you always on my mind.

This clever text has classic misdirection at the start, with a twist at the end. Perfection!

46. I cannot imagine a world without you.

If she means the world to you, this is the text for you.

47. As you go to sleep tonight, forget counting sheep. Count the ways I love you.

You can get her started with some specific ways.

48. Goodnight to the most wonderful person I’ve ever known. Wishing you a very good night. Sweet dreams!

This is just super sweet and honest. Sometimes the simple texts are the best ones.

49. I wish I could fall asleep in your arms.

Simple, straightforward, and oh-so-sweet.

50. I am so happy to be with you. I wish I didn’t have to sleep so we could keep talking.

This is the perfect way to end a great conversation when it’s time to drift into dreamland.

51. I’d give anything to be able to fall asleep next to you right now.

This is a great text for when you usually sleep together, but one of you is away.

52. Each night I miss you more and more.

This is the perfect text when she’s traveling for multiple days.

53. Sleep well tonight because tomorrow will be another love-filled day for us. Good night!

Encourage her to look forward to the next day’s adventures.

54. You are everything to me. You are my strength when my own strength fails.

Let her know she’s your rock.

55. Good night, sleep tight. I will be dreaming of you with all my might.

You’re a poet and you didn’t even realize so.

7 Good Night Texts After She Didn’t text back

So she didn’t text back. Don’t stress! She might just be asleep already, or she might have not have her phone nearby. Now you have a chance to send a silly text to ease the tension.

Make sure you only send these texts when it’s appropriate. If it’s 2am and she hasn’t responded…there’s probably a reason — she’s snoozing! Use these texts to reignite an ongoing conversation when the time is right. Remember that sometimes less is more when it comes to texting. You don’t want her to view you as a stage 10 clinger, after all!

Here are 7 of the best good night text for her after she didn’t text back:

56. My beard has grown three inches since the last text.

This text is lighthearted and playful. If you don’t have a beard, you can use your mustache (or your normal hair, I guess).

57. Okay I’ll answer for you. Yes, you’re going out tonight. Glad we had this convo :)

If she’s on the fence about going out, you may need to take charge of the situation.

58. Your response time is longer than Ross and Rachel’s entire relationship. 10 seasons.

This is a silly one, and that’s good because you don’t want to sound angry if she doesn’t text back.

59. Hey I just met you, and this is crazy but you have my number and text me maybe.

You know you love some Carly.

60. You text someone, then throw your phone halfway across the world?

If she texted you first and then didn’t respond to your response, this is the text for you.

61. You have 1 minute to text back or else I am going to think you’re fantasizing about me.

An ultimatum may not go over well if she’s not in the mood. Use this one with caution!

62. I hope you’re writing me the 9th Harry Potter novel.

This is another goofy way to remind her that you’re on the other end waiting.

More Ways On How To Talk To Girls

The classic good night text is just a small piece of the bigger picture. Learning how to talk to girls is the key to getting a girlfriend, so check out these other helpful guides so you can connect with her.

1. These compliments for girls are sure to put a smile on her face.
2. Conversation running dry? Use these things to talk about with a girl to keep the momentum going.
3. If you’ve got a crush, use these things to say to a girl you like.
4. If you’re wondering if she’s feeling you, learn how to tell if a girl likes you over text.
5. Once you know how to make a girl laugh, anything is possible.

How to Use Good Night Texts: 5 Steps

These texts are just half of the equation. Knowing how to use them is the key. Follow these steps to make every good night text for her a win.

Here are 5 steps to use good night texts:

1. Be Considerate

Don’t blow up her phone at 3 in the morning! These goodnight texts aren’t meant to wake her up — they’re for sending her to dreamland with a smile. If you’re not sure what type of sleep schedule she has, you may want to play it safe.

2. Don’t Worry if She Doesn’t Respond

When she’s getting ready to drift off into la-la land, she may not be up for a conversation. If she doesn’t answer, that doesn’t mean she didn’t like the text. She may just be tired, charging her phone, or simply not up to chat.

3. Make Each Text Count

If you send multiple goodnight texts every single night, they’re going to lose their charm. Goodnight texts should be special. They should be a surprise that lets her know that she was on your mind.

4. Don’t Forget the Classics

Sure, these goodnight texts are amazing. At the same time, sometimes she just wants a simple “Goodnight” or “I love you.” Mix up the classic goodnight texts with these more elaborate ones.

5. Make Up Your Own

These texts are perfect starting points, but you may want to make up some unique ones that are relevant to your relationship. For example, you could bring up a special moment that the two of you shared earlier in the day.

In Conclusion

Nighttime exudes romance. When the moon and your heart are full, knowing what to text a girl and how to text a girl can create true magic. Whether the relationship is established or just blossoming, a simple text can go a long way in strengthening your bond.

There’s no magic formula that will unlock the secret to how to get a girlfriend. However, if you treat her sweet and do nice little things like sending a good night text for her, you can drastically improve your chances! It may take some time and effort to win her over, but anything is possible. Sometimes all it takes is a genuine text at the right time for her to open her heart.

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Gentlemen, today we’re showing you exactly what girls find attractive and the 5 biggest turn ons for women.

You’re probably here because you’ve got your eye on a girl and you’re wondering: What do girls find irresistibly attractive? What can you do, today? Should you buy new clothes? Should you hit the gym? Should you just stop trying?

Hoooold on there!

You haven’t even gotten started yet. Women may seem cryptic, but with a couple of strategic moves and slight adjustments to your lifestyle, you can get any woman vying for your attention.

So sit back, relax.

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The 5 Biggest Turn Ons for Women

Here are 5 things all girls find attractive:

5. You Escape The Trends

Pull out your pens and pencils boys and girls, cause we got a new concept for ya.

Everything, from style to politics, from entertainment to music, follows a cyclical trend. Including you. To some degree, everybody is influenced by stuff of the past. While also being shaped by what’s happening right now, with what we want to happen in the future.

Now, keep it together. Everything is fine.

This is normal and without any external influences, you miss out some fun things like social skills, things in common with other people, or a personality.

Heeere’s what we’re getting at.

Escaping the trend is ultimately about doing your own thing, and the reason why it’s such a biggest turn ons for women, is because so many guys get caught up in a certain wave, lose track of themselves, and get boxed in to a certain personality.

For women, it can end up feeling like they’re talking to the same type of guy over… and over and over.

All we’re sayin’? If you keep your eye on what matters, women tend to keep an eye on you.

4. Being Process-Focused

It probably doesn’t come as big news that girls like guys who set goals. The ambition, the drive, the singular focus…

It’s intoxicating. For you and whoever’s watching. We know we are!

Except the only thing is, and there’s just one small detail, is that the fun part, visualizing your goal, actually only lasts for a minute… that’s it!

And what’s left, is everything you now have to do to reach that goal. It’s the stuff in between you and the finish line that really matters. It’s the motivation without the displicline to follow through that causes guys to just say “eh”… and settle.

Aaaaand bringing it all back. Girls see a lot of plans. They even see a lot of passion behind ideas. But what they don’t see, are guys who are oriented on the process and comfortable with the work of making things happen.

3. Have Some Skin In The Game

Having some skin in the game means you’ve got something to gain, and something to lose in what you do. It means you’re playing for real. It means you don’t go after the glory without also taking responsibility.

And the reason why it’s what girls find attractive, is because they don’t encounter it all that often. A lot of guys out there, aren’t willing to start something new if it means they stand to lose something. For some reason, they expect gains without the possibility of loss. Almost like they don’t play by the same rules as everyone else.

Well, women catch on to that quick.

If you think about it, “no skin in the game” comes with a lot stuff women don’t want: It’s greed, cowardice and entitlement all rolled up into one big fatty.

Want to turn a woman on? Put your neck out there for what you believe in. She’ll notice.

2. Layered Flirtation

Most of you guys know that flirting can be a lot easier in theory, than in practice. That’s because successful flirtation is mostly situational.

The more you dig in to flirting and the psychology behind it, the more you see how many variables there are to keep track of. However, there is one method of flirtation that is a constant. And the reason why it works so well, is because she does the flirting for you.

Real quick, some girls, sometimes, do want you to come on strong. That’s called superficial flirtation. If she’s making it clear that’s what she wants, have some fun with it. Keep it surface level and follow her lead.

As long as she’s game, go for it. But what we’re talking about here is layered flirtation, and it’s actually pretty simple: Instead of just firing off easy compliments that any random could say, allude to what you’re thinking through your conversation. Instead of complimenting her overtly, flatter her with questions or assumptions that lead her to see how you see her.

An example might be a question on a smart decision she made at work, or trying to understand something she’s good at.

Make sense? It’s all about subtext.

It’ll take some time to practice, but we promise that once you get used to this kind of flirtation, you’ll see just how effective it is.

1. Sacrifice Your Shield

Vulnerability is kind of a sensitive subject to some guys. By definition, vulnerability is associated with defenselessness. But if that’s true, then it’s also got to associated with being on the offense. After all, you gotta sacrifice your shield to gain a little maneuverability.

Here’s what we mean: Ever notice that some guys are just really stiff? They have trouble loosening up. Trouble smiling, trouble laughing, stuff like that.

Now, they’ve got their reasons. But if you’ve ever watched as a guy like that slowly let his guard down, you probably saw a complete shift in how people, especially girls, interacted with him. It’s because instead of defending, he’s engaging. It’s all girls want.

Ok, not all.

It’s a big part of what girls find attractive and a biggest turn ons for women. It won’t solve every problem, but it’s a good start.

So get out there and give it a shot.

In Conclusion

Those were 5 of the biggest turn ons for women.

If you liked this one, check out some of our other videos right here.

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Tavour – Is it the best beer subscription for you?

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Since you’re on this page, you either love subscription services, (which Tavour (very technically) isn’t) or you love beer. Maybe you love both!

Whatever your situation, this quick rundown of Tavour, the beer of the month club… that’s less of a beer club, and more of a beer subscription box.

Will give you all the information you’ll need to decide whether it is worth a download (PS: it’s free to get started, so of course it is!)

Contents

What is it?

Recent Boxes

Review

Pros vs Cons

Coupon or Promo Code

How to Join

What is Tavour?

Here at Mantelligence, we love our beer of the month clubs… But like we keep saying, Tavour isn’t one of those. It’s a free service you sign up for that showcases interesting and delicious beers you normally can’t find in your area.

In essence:

Tavour discovers beer so you don’t have to spend 10 minutes in a frigid beer cooler trying to decide which six pack you want to buy. And that’s only if you’re lucky enough to have a store near you with a large beer selection.

YOU decide whether or not you want a shipment. How?

You’re able to sign up online, but you’ll have to download the Android or IOS app to actually use the service.

But once you do, you’ll be shown 2 new beers a day (next to currently featured beers) with a bit of backstory of the beer along with some tasting notes, the cost, and other important information. Ignore the beer if it’s not your style, or choose to buy it and select how many cans or bottles you want.

A month after your first purchase, they ship all the beer you selected to your door. It’s so simple, I wish I would have thought of it.

And because all beers are different, they ship beers in all shapes and sizes from 12 oz. cans to 750mL bottles. And depending on the beer, you might spend MORE on a 12 oz. can than you would for a 750 mL bottle. But only if you want to.

Want to get this box for yourself or as a gift for someone?

Click here to join or gift

Recent Tavour Boxes/Items

Below are some of the beers that they recommended to me personally. Now I’m thirsty…

Image	Product Name	Best Feature	Price
	Mischief by The Bruery, Placentia, CA	A nice and bubbly Belgian Strong Pale Ale with a solid 8.5% ABV.	$10 for 2x16oz cans
	Scytale 427 by Great Basin Brewing Co.	A seasonal Imperial Stout aged for exactly 427 days.	$19.99 for 1x22oz. bottle
	KUIU Verde 2.0 IPA by Anchorage Brewing Co., Anchorage, AK	A tactical-branded Hazy IPA with plenty of hops at a reasonable price.	$7.99 for 1x16oz. can
	The Jacket by Matchless Brewing, WA	A dark and heavy porter. Matchless beers are constantly requested by members, and for good reason.	$6.99 for 1x16oz. can
	Champing Brut by Brewery Vivant, MI	A 7.0% IPA with Meyer Lemon, Champagne Mango, and Navel Orange notes.	$6.99 for 1x16oz. can

Tavour Review

You guys know we love to review beer clubs… which is why we were excited to review Tavour.

Tavour is one of those rare services that you don’t think you’ll actually buy anything from until you take a look at the selection.

I’ve only been fiddling around with the app for a week, but I’ve already found some beers that sound so good, I’ve added them to my list of beers to try (I live near an international food market with an enormous beer selection, so it isn’t NECESSARY for me. Plus I’m cheap.)

But that’s the thing… You may not have that luxury, which is why they might be a good fit for someone like you.

In any case, take a look below at the pros and cons of this beer subscription and decide for yourself if it’s a service that’s convenient and has value for you.

Pros vs Cons of Tavour

This list of pros and cons will give you a better idea of what to expect from them.

And really… The cons might not be cons for you at all.

It all depends on what you’re looking for in a beer subscription service (which isn’t a subscription service, remember?) Don’t forget to download the app and check it out for yourself!

Pros

• It is free to start.
• Flat rate shipping no matter how many beers you buy.
• A seriously extensive collection of beers from all over the world.
• If you’re near Tukwila, WA, you can stop by the warehouse and pick up your beer to save on shipping.
• Orders cancelled within 3 days are free of charge. After 3 days you pay a 50% restocking fee.
• You can order beer by replying to email offers. The Tavour team reads every email they receive.
• Their referral program can net you $10 per referral (you get it about a week after your referral makes his/her first purchase. He/she gets $10 once their first box ships.)
• Sold out beers have a waitlist so you’re guaranteed to get the beer you want to try. After all, patience is a virtue.
• It hands down ones of our favorite beer gifts

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Cons

• They don’t ship until a month after your first purchase, which may be inconvenient for some. (It’s so you can see as many beers as possible before your crate ships. Then you get to enjoy them all at once!)
• There are limits on how many cans/bottles of each beer you can buy.
• Shipments require an adult signature, necessary but irritating (21+ because it’s beer, duh.)
• Shipping costs are rather steep at $14.95 (but if you buy a ton of beer, it’s well worth it.)
• Some Google Play and App Store reviews claim they don’t ship to certain areas. If you’re in one of those areas, see here.

Tavour Coupon or Promo Code

No coupon currently available.

How to Join the Tavour: # of Steps

You don’t need much to get started with it. Just a phone and a love for beer. The following steps are mostly only required for your first purchase. You can save your payment information with Tavour.

Here are 5 easy steps to join Tavour:

Step #1: Download the App

Again, you can sign up on the website, but download the Android or IOS app to get started. You only need your name and an email address to start.

Step #2: Browse the Featured Beers

Scroll to the left, scroll to the right. Find the beer that will make your night.

Step #3: Hit “Get it” and Select your Amount

Once you find a beer you’d like to try, decide how many you want!

Step #4: Enter Your Details

Shipping first, then your credit card info.

Step #5: Reopen the App Tomorrow for New Beers!

Remember: You have a month after your first purchase before your beer ships, so be sure to come back every day (Monday-Friday) for 2 new beers per day.

More Great Beer Subscriptions:

Can’t get enough beer? Check out these beer subscription services for all your craft beer needs.

1. Can’t get enough hops? The IPA Beer of the Month Club is right up your alley.
2. If you NEED to try the rarest beers out there, the Rare Beer Club might be your best bet.
3. The Craft Beer Club is all craft beer, all the time.
4. Check out our list of the 9 Best Beer of the Month Clubs (PS: Tavour DID make the list)

In Conclusion

Seriously, what are you waiting for? Just download Tavour and see if you like it! You’re bound to find at least one beer you’ve never seen before and if you buy it…

You’ll probably like it!

Want to get this box for yourself or as a gift for someone?

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Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 7 things guys do that girls like (that you can do today).

Here at Mantelligence, we think it’s all about getting the easy wins where you can. Some things take time, but when you’re trying to get a girl to like you, time is of the essence.

When it’s love on the line, sometimes you need things that are gonna work today. That’s why here, now, we’re showing you how you can get those quick wins, and get a girl by making small changes… that’ll have a big impact.

Now, lets get started.

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7 Things Guys Do That Girls Like

7. Fridge Optimization

Let’s start simple.

At some point, you’re going to have a girl over to your place, and when she’s there, you’re gonna want to make her feel comfortable. You’ll offer her something to drink, only to realize that unless she wants pickle juice or ketchup… You’ve got nothing to give her.

It’s time to move past the dorm-room approach to grocery shopping and stock your fridge like a grown up. You don’t have to go crazy, but always having a few essentials on deck shows her that you can take care of yourself and since you have food at home, you’ll automatically start saving money and eating healthier.

Not bad right? What’s good for you is also one of the easiest-to-accomplish things guys do that girls like.

6. Try… Just a Little

Men have a… complicated relationship with their appearance. Most guys want to look good, but don’t want to look like they care too much.

Well, we’re gonna lay it all out there: there’s nothing wrong with caring about your look, and there’s no shame in putting some effort into it!

Making sure you smell nice and look good shows self respect and lets you express your personality. And one of the most important aspects of your appearance is your crumb catcher, your soup strainer, your man makeup… your beard.

Whether you keep it stubbly, sculpt it like Tony Stark, or let it flow in the breeze, a well kept beard results in a much more kissable face and shows you respect yourself.

5. Share the Spotlight

If you’ve been with Mantelligence for a while you know how important it is to have confidence.

So what’d you do?

You went out and picked ya up a batch-a-the-old confidence. You just went and you picked it right up. Then you got some more, and some more, and now…
You’ve got confidence-levels so sky high, so untamed… that you’re teetering on the brink of spilling into complete arrogance.

It’s a real risk. Look, confidence is and will always be cool. But all arrogance does, is make you seem desperate for confidence.

So how do you balance out this little pickle you got yourself in?

First, don’t be the nice guy… And second, you’ve got to share the confidence with others. Specifically, share it with your girl. Hand her the keys from time to time and let her feel the confidence that you feel.

Remember… her interests, worries, victories, and struggles are just as important as yours. And by showing real interest in her life and shining the spotlight on her… You show her you’re confident enough to realize the world doesn’t revolve around you, which is one of the biggest things guys do that girls like.

4. Know Your Strengths… and Weaknesses

The key to success, in life and in romance, is knowing yourself. That means finding your strengths and using them, but it also means recognizing your weaknesses and dealing with them.

So, what does that look like?

Let’s say your girl is better at parallel parking than you (yes, it happens). You could cling to your pride and insist on driving downtown, spend 15 minutes trying to park, and arrive at the restaurant irritated and embarrassed. Or, you could be big enough to let her take the wheel and get on with having a great night.

There’s no greater turn-on for women than watching a man do what he does best, but there’s no greater turn-off than a guy insisting he’s good at something he’s not.

3. Give Character Compliments

Look, telling a girl she’s pretty/beautiful/hot/sexy doesn’t show a ton of originality, and doesn’t really set you apart from any other guy off the street.

I mean, OK, a girl wants to hear she’s pretty, but you’ve got to keep in mind, just about every guy who ever flirted with her told her she looked good within the first five minutes.

So what do you do?

Use this one-two punch to get girls to chase you: First of all, assume a girl thinks you think she’s pretty. Let it remain unspoken. If she doesn’t know, she’ll figure it out.

Second, if you’re going to rely on direct compliments, do it with what’s called character compliments.

Tell her how much you appreciate her optimism, how you admire her compassion, or how you’re inspired by her intelligence. Things like that. Character compliments show her you think of her as more than a pretty face and are much more meaningful, probably genuine, and memorable form of flattery.

2. Get Real

If you’ve ever been in a relationship longer than a week… You know that the beginning stages can be a little awkward. Not in a bad way, but in a way that holds things back while you and your new girl figure each other out.

From the first date to even the first few months, most of our time is spent peeling back the layers of the other person. Because the truth is, most people are not as put-together, clean, or outgoing, as they say they are in the beginning.

It’s sort of an unspoken rule: Relationships are a process of walking back from the expectations you set upfront.

It’s natural! And we think, the sooner you can rip off the bandaid and get real, the sooner she’ll realize that you’re not like the other guys.

Not in a relationship? Want to know how to get any woman you want? Check out this vid.

1. Strategize

You know in the movies when the loveable goofball with no plans or ambition ends up with an amazing girl? It turns out… that only works in Hollywood.

Real women want a guy who thinks ahead and who thinks things through. She wants to see that you’re working on yourself and taking steps to achieve your goals. That doesn’t mean you can’t occasionally spend a weekend on the couch, but a man who knows what he wants and goes out and gets it beats a couch potato ten times out of ten.

So strategize about your future and she’ll be daydreaming about being a part of it.

Oh and PS: Doing this is also one of the easiest ways to make ANY girl fall in love with you.

In Conclusion

Those are 7 things guys do that girls like.

If you liked this video, why don’t you check out these other ones, here?

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Asking a girl out is a lot less stressful when you can spot the signs a girl likes you.

Being rejected sucks. A lot of guys fear it so much it paralyzes them from asking girls out at all. But if there’s one thing you need to know about how to get a girlfriend… it’s that it’s not gonna happen on its own.

If that sounds like you, you need to learn how to tell if a girl likes you.

If you can learn to read the signs she likes you, you can take the fear of rejection totally out of the picture. By using the signs that a girl likes you to guide you on your search you can be more confident that she’ll say yes and that you’ll have a great time with her.

I recommend reading through all of these 30 signs a girl likes you to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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13 Biggest Signs A Girl Likes You

Sometimes the signs a woman likes you are things she does intentionally, and other times they’re subconscious. Whether she means to or not, she’s sending you pretty clear hints about how she feels about you and what her answer would be if you asked her out.

Save yourself some stress and find a good match faster by learning how to tell if someone likes you.

Here are the 13 of the biggest signs a girl likes you:

Sign #1. She doesn’t hesitate saying yes when you ask her to hang out.

A girl who genuinely likes you isn’t going to hesitate when you ask to hang out.

For example:

When you ask her to get a bite to eat with you, she’ll usually smile and say sure or absolutely.

And if she does have something planned…

…she’ll try to reschedule:

“Oh I can’t. I’m so sorry…but I’d love to try something another time!”

“I have plans tomorrow…but I’m free on Saturday!”

A woman who likes you will genuinely want to spend her time around you.

Sign #2. She’s told her friends about you.

I’ll let you in on a little secret:

Women love talking with their girlfriends about the guy they have a crush on.

How do you know if she’s told her friends about you?

Usually, girls will unintentionally tell you:

If, while the two of you are hanging out, she says something like, “I was telling my roommate the other day about how you had never seen Jurassic Park. She couldn’t believe it either!” then you can be pretty sure she’s interested in more than friendship.

Sign #3. She does specific things when you’re in a group setting

When you’re first getting to know each other, it’s likely you’ll hang out in a group setting.

If a girl is interested in you (and aside from common in-person flirting signs) she will:

• Frequently look at you (you can tell this if you two make a lot of eye contact)
• Make it a point to sit close enough to you that the two of you can talk

Either of these are great signs a girl likes you.

Sign #4. She initiates physical touch when you’re in public.

Here, there are two different scenarios to consider:

When you first see her:

What does your friend do when you first see each other?

Awkward wave? High five? Side hug?

If a girl likes you, she’ll likely do something that breaks the intimate “touch barrier.” The most common way she’ll do it is through a sincere hug. A sincere hug is more than the standard “greeting” hug, and may even be closer to a bear hug.

This means she feels comfortable around you and has no problem breaking the “touch barrier.”

When you’re hanging out:

Pay attention to the number of times she touches you.

If it’s more than 5 times while you’re together (specifically on the knee, shoulder, or arm), then she’s further breaking that “touch barrier.”

Physical contact is important in any relationship, and it’s a great sign if she’s already breaking the touch barrier down.

Sign #5. Conversations between the two of you seems effortless.

Both your conversations and your time together seem effortless.

A two hour date suddenly turns into an eight hour date, and neither of you seem to notice where the time went.

If this is happening to you…

…she definitely likes you.

Don’t think twice about it.

Sign #6. You’re starting to see her “dorky” side.

A woman who is comfortable with and sincerely likes you will start to reveal things she doesn’t share with the rest of the world.

Many times, this can come in the form of an embarrassing quirk she has…

…or watching her nerd-out about her favorite book or TV series.

The two of you are comfortable together, and neither of you has to be someone that you’re not.

Sign #7. She has openly told you some personal things about her life.

Think about the conversations you two have.

If this girl really likes you, your conversations won’t always remain surface level. In fact, these conversations can turn personal very quickly.

You don’t just know what her favorite movie is…

…you also know what some of her biggest goals and dreams are.

If she isn’t afraid to reveal the more personal stuff to you, it means she trusts you. With women, trust is not something freely or easily given.

Sign #8. She’s mentioned an event in the future she wants to go to with you.

This should be a dead giveaway of her interest.

When a woman includes you in her plans for the future, it means she wants you there…in her future.

This could include her saying anything from, “We should see that movie when it comes out,” to “There’s this wedding coming up and I’d love for you to go with me.”

While these are two extremes, any time a girl includes you her plans for the future is a good sign.

Sign #9. She wants you to meet her roommates/friends.

Most women won’t date a guy who hasn’t been given the stamp of approval by her closest friends.

So, if she’s saying things like, “You totally have to meet my roommates. They’d love you!” or “My roommates have been dying to meet you,” it tells you two things:

1. She’s told her friends about you (sign #2)
2. She want her friends’ opinion of you

If she’s including her friends in the process, she thinking about keeping you around for a while.

Sign #10. She’s fully present when she’s with you.

Is your girl constantly checking her Facebook, sending texts, or making calls when she’s with you?

If a girl really likes you, she’ll be fully present when you’re together, especially one-on-one.

Now:

She may check her Instagram a few times or send an occasional text, but for the most part, she’s really engaged with what you two are doing or talking about.

If she’s more focused on you than her phone, it’s a great sign.

Sign #11. She’s wants to hang out one-on-one.

It’s usually during one-on-one time that relationships move to the next level. There are countless things that may happen here that likely wouldn’t happen when you’re hanging with a group:

• More personal conversations
• More intimate flirting
• A kiss

So, if you’ve been consistently hanging out with a girl for 5-6 weeks, and she still doesn’t want to hang out with just you when you ask, she may only want to be friends.

Sign #12. She mirrors your behaviors.

There’s an old phrase about why people copy each other: imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Meaning… we want to be like the people that we like!

This holds true in romance too. When a girl likes you, she will subconsciously imitate, or mirror, your behavior and body language.

Does she lean in when you lean in? Does she relax when you relax? Swirl the ice in her glass after you do?

Whether she realizes it or not, she mirrors your behavior so that you will have a positive impression of her…

She does it because she’s into you!

Sign #13. She Asks You a Lot of Questions

If you’ve already read our post on personal questions to ask a girl you know the importance that asking questions has.

By asking questions she is communicating her interest in you and her desire to get to know you on a deeper level. 

Be sure to answer her questions thoughtfully. You’ll encourage her to keep going and show her that she’s someone you’d like to open up to.

Signs a Girl Likes You Over Text

Technology plays a significant role in today’s intimate relationships.

According to Pew Research, 41% of young adults in serious relationships report feeling closer to their partner because of technology.

So, if you’ve been texting with a girl you have a crush on… it’s important to learn how to tell if a girl likes you over text. Some of the signs a girl likes you are the same in person as they are in text, but because texting is a totally different means of communication…

There are several clues you can use to tell how she’s feeling about you.

Here are 10 signs a girl likes you over text:

Sign #14. The two of you text at least every other day.

It’s a really good sign if you’re in fairly consistent contact with the girl you like.

There are two things to note with this:

1. If a girl likes you, she’s going to respond to your texts quickly
2. The more you talk, the more likely it is that she likes you

Sign #15. And on that note…she isn’t sending you one word responses when you initiate texting her.

When you text her, she doesn’t respond with something like “hey.” or “fine.”

Look out for the one word responses with a period after them. If you’re getting those from a girl, you might want to take a step back.

Girls who are interested in a guy will try to keep a texting conversation going.

Sign #16. In fact…she even initiates texting you pretty often.

This is a definite sign she likes you.

If the lady you like is consistently initiating text conversations…

…it means you’re on her mind and she wants to be in contact with you.

Sign #17. She posts pictures on social media showing that the two of you have been hanging out.

If you see pictures of yourself on any of her social channels, it’s one of the great signs a girl likes you.

If she in any way broadcasts to the world that she’s been hanging out with you, she probably wants it to be known that she’s “talking” to someone.

Now:

Don’t quickly go and follow all of her social channels. Just keep an eye where you’re already connected.

Sign #18. She posts things on your Facebook wall or tags you in things she thinks you’ll like.

This one is huge.

When we have feelings for someone everything reminds us of them.

Think about it:

You watch a movie and think, “Oh, (girl you’re crushin’ on) would love that.”

You see a new restaurant and think, “Oh, I should totally tell (girl you’re crushin’ on) about that place. She loves Asian food.”

You see a hilarious YouTube video and think, “(Girl you’re crushin’ on) would die laughing at this. I’ve got to show her.”

It’s the same for women. If she’s posting things on your social media channels, it means you’re definitely on her mind.

Sign #19. When you talk on the phone, the two of you have no problem talking for a while.

Every time you call, she seems excited to talk.

Just like with in-person sign number 5 above, conversations on the phone feel effortless.

If your phone calls extend past 5-10 minutes (semi-consistently), it’s a great sign.

Sign #20. She texts you frequent updates.

When a girl likes you she wants you to have a bigger part of her life. One way she communicates this is by sending you updates about what she’s doing.

Take this as a sign that she’s thinking about you and wishing you were together.

Sign #21. She spells her words in a cute way.

We all have unique ways of speaking that don’t always come across via text. If she takes the time to make her messages match her personality…

You can bet its because she thinks you’re worth the effort.

Sign #22. She teases you

It may seem paradoxical, but teasing is a great set up for flirting. By teasing you she’s showing her sense of humor and giving you the perfect opportunity to come up with a flirty response.

Sign #23. She sends you photos.

It’s nice to get a text message, but it’s awesome to get a pic.

When she sends you pictures she’s giving you behind the scenes access to her life. Even when the pics are totally innocent, by showing you what she’s doing or where she is, she’s welcoming you deeper into her life.

Signs A Girl Likes You And Wants You to Chase Her

When you’re doing it right, dating is a fun and exciting experience.

That energy comes from meeting someone you have chemistry with…from putting yourself out there, and from flirting with someone you connect with. The beginning of a relationship is a game of testing for feelings and boundaries.

When a girl wants to let you know that the game is on, she’ll send some pretty intentional signs she wants you to chase her.

Now, you might be thinking that you don’t want to play games. That’s understandable, mind games in dating mostly just leave us confused and alone. But this kind of game is different… it’s a game of building passion and intensity, and one you’re really going to want to try.

Here are 7 signs a girl likes you and wants you to chase her:

Sign #24. Deeper and longer eye contact.

It’s just polite to make eye contact when speaking with someone…

But if she holds your gaze, if she looks into your eyes with intensity, if there’s passion behind her stare…

That’s not just her being polite. That’s her communicating her desire without words.

Sign #25. Proximity and lingering.

Does she always end up in whatever car you’re riding in?

Does she sit near you, if not next to you, when she has the chance?

Does she wait to see what you’re doing or where you’re going before she makes up her mind?

Keeping close proximity to you and lingering to be able to spend more time with you is her way of saying “I like you. I want to be near you. I’ll make it as easy for you as possible.”

Sign #26. She “casually” keeps touching you.

A girl who likes you will find all kinds of excuses to touch you.

She’ll fix your collar. She’ll get an eyelash off your cheek. She’ll fix your hair. She’ll grab your hand when she’s surprised.

By innocently breaking the touch barrier like this she is inviting you to do the same thing.

She wants to let you know that it’s time to come in a little bit closer.

Sign #27. She drops hints that she’ll be free at certain times.

Most of the time when a girl wants you to chase her she’s not going to try too hard to get away.

She might even let you know exactly where and when to find her.

If she makes a point of mentioning that she’s got no plans this weekend, or that she wanted to see that movie but had no one to go with, or jokes about sitting around bored in the evenings… she’s telling you exactly how to ask her out!

It doesn’t get much easier than this, gentleman.

Sign #28. She talks about you two being a couple.

When she jokes about the two of you dating she’s dropping hints that she’s got the idea in her mind, and she’s encouraging you to make it happen.

She might say things like:

• We’re together all the time, we might as well be dating!
• We get along so well. Imagine us as a couple, we’d never fight!

Or she might get a little vulnerable and say something like

• I feel so good when I’m with you… and I don’t want that to stop.

These are very good signs that she’s thinking about dating you… and that she likes the idea.

Just be sure to look out for the friend zone trap. It will sound like something encouraging, but it actually isn’t. Does this sound familiar?

• I wish I could find a guy that’s nice like you. Why are all men jerks?

This sounds positive… but isn’t. She is saying that you’re nice, but she’s also making it clear that she doesn’t see you as a dating option. If you were an option she wouldn’t wish for a guy like you… you’re right there.

Sign #29. Laughs at all your jokes, even the stupid ones.

Nothing builds confidence like getting some laughs at your jokes. It just feels good.

If she’s laughing at all your attempts at jokes its because she wants you to feel good about yourself.

She wants you to feel good around her to encourage you to find more time together.

Sign #30. Asks about your other female friends or whether you have a girlfriend.

When she asks about your female friends and relationships she’s wondering what obstacles stand between the two of you. The moment she shows jealousy over the other women in your life you know that she has feelings for you.

More Tips on How To Get a Girlfriend

Learning the signs a girl likes you is just one way to make dating more fun and take the stress out of finding a girl. Check out these resources for help as you learn how to get a girlfriend.

1. Talking to a girl you like is much easier when you know how to flirt with a girl.
2. Figure out how to put your best foot forward as you master the art of how to get a girl to like you.
3. Learn how to compliment a girl in the most meaningful ways.

How To See The Signs A Girl Likes You: 3 Steps

It won’t do you any good if she’s sending the signs a girl likes you and you’re totally missing them. So, now that you know how to tell if a girl likes you, lets end with a little advice on how to pick up on the signs she’s sending.

Here are 3 steps to see the signs a girl likes you:

Step 1: Be Likeable

I know, it seems pretty simple, but a lot of guys overlook this very basic step. Girls probably won’t be making eyes at you from across the room if you’re making a scene or being obnoxious.

If you want women to take an interest, act in a way that makes them think that being with you would be fun. Laugh with your friends. Dance, if that’s your thing. Put out a vibe of approachability and positivity.

Be likeable and she’ll feel much more comfortable making her attraction known.

Step 2: Keep a Clear Head

It’s no secret that a little bit of liquid confidence make talking to girls easier, but drinking too much can seriously cloud your judgement.

If you keep a clear mind you’ll be much more able to pick up on and act on the signs that she’s into you.

Not only that…with all your reasoning intact, you can stop yourself from saying something embarrassing or doing something you’d regret.

So next time you’re on the town just be sure to keep your wits about you.

Step 3: Be Observant

Alright, so you’ve been putting out good vibes and your vision isn’t blurring…

Now it’s time to take in the scenery.

Pay attention to the behavior of the girl of you’ve been hanging out with and see what kind of signs she’s giving off. Look at your surroundings and take note of any girls who seem to also notice you.

Remember as many of the signs a girl likes you as you can, and then use your judgement and what you’ve observed to read the situation.

You can always take a leap of faith, but by looking for the signs a girl likes you before you ask her out you’re way more likely to get the answer you hoped for.

In Conclusion

You may be thinking that there are a lot signs to remember, but don’t let the number of signs someone likes you freak you out…

There are so many signs that a girl likes you that if you remember even a few from this list you’re bound to pick up on how she’s feeling about you!

And now that you know so many of the signs a woman likes you and you’ve been following along as we discuss how to get a girlfriend…

You can use the signs she likes you to avoid the fear of rejection. Now that you know how to tell if a girl likes you dating can actually be fun.

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What do girls like?

Every guy in the world has asked this question (and many of them still don’t know!)

Well good news for you… You’ve come to the right place to find out!

We’ve taught you how to get a girl to like you as well as how to get a girlfriend but today we’re sharing with you a sip from the holy grail of meeting girls…

In this article we’ll tell you about what do girls like to talk about, what they like in a guy, what they like to hear, and in general…

What they like.

I recommend reading through all of these 7 best things to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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7 Best Things That Girls Like

There are a few absolutes when it comes to what do girls like. What does that mean?

It means that most girls like a lot of the same things. Take a look.

Here are 7 things girls like:

1. They Like to Be Chased

Have you ever been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks or more when she suddenly seems less interested?

She may not be interested, but she also might be throwing out signs she wants you to chase her.

They can be hard to miss, so here are a few to look out for:

Sign #1: She Makes and Effort to Talk to You

Whether she says hi to you in the halls at school, or she always texts you first, if she puts in the effort to let you know she exists…

… She REALLY wants you to chase her.

Sign #2: You Have Meaningful Conversations

If the two of you haven’t made it clear you’re interested in each other and talking to her is easier than riding a bike, there’s a good chance she’s actually interested and you’re just not realizing it.

Sign #3: She Lingers

If she hangs around when you’re not able to give her your full attention (talking to a teacher or friend), take the hint. She wants to spend more time with you.

2. Social Media

Whether it’s Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook, or Vine (RIP), girls love taking pictures and videos and posting them on the internet.

And you should too! Let me explain…

It’s no secret that getting those likes has a psychological effect on our brains. And when we get a lot, it feels good.

And who gets the most likes out of anyone on the internet? Attractive girls.

Which means that knowing how to flirt with a girl over facebook won’t hurt your chances (at the very least, it’s let her know you exist.)

Sending her some funny pics or videos on Snapchat is also an easy way to get her to think about you and find you hilarious (just don’t send an excessive amount unless she reciprocates.)

And of course, if you’re feeling confident, drop her a DM and start a conversation if you don’t have her number.

3. Guys Who Look Good

Rule #1: Be attractive. Rule #2: Don’t be unattractive.

And yes, I understand…

You’re only as good as your genes, which for some guys, aren’t the greatest. (But that doesn’t mean you still can’t look good!)

Because with a little bit of work, you can instantly have a more attractive face. Here are a few tips to get you started:

Tip #1: Grow Your Face Fur

I prefer the 5 o’ clock shadow because, well… It’s sexy.

And I know a guy who has a cleft palate and grew a mustache, which does a decent job of hiding it.

If all else fails, a full beard will cover any imperfections, but if you can’t grow one, no worries!

Try another option, like…

Tip #2: Moisturize and Cleanse

The cool thing about cleansers like Tiege Hanley’s Face Wash is that if you use them properly, they help get rid of acne and black heads.

Plus, using a moisturizer (all over your body) ensures that when a girl is ready to get up close and personal with you…

She has a smooth and sexy man to cling to.

Tip #3: Make Yourself Look Smarter

Use glasses! Even if you don’t need them, they cover your face (which can hide unsightly blemishes.)

And besides, they make you look like a guy who knows what he’s talking about.

4. Being Flirty

People like to be noticed, especially girls (why do you think they put so much effort into looking good?)

And knowing how to flirt with a girl is a surefire way to make sure she feels like someone is noticing.

Why?

Because when you flirt with a girl, you’re giving her all of your attention. You’re working to make her smile, laugh, and generally have a good time.

And if you’re good at it, you’ll succeed in that endeavor… And she’ll find you irresistible for it.

It just takes practice (and following that blue link.)

5. Feeling Special

Girls like to be spoiled, but I know…

You don’t want to feel like you’re constantly pampering her and getting nothing in return.

And that’s why you should (occasionally) do something nice for her (no need to overdo it. Then it becomes expected and you don’t have that kind of money.)

Is she having a bad day? Let her know you’re thinking about her and ask if there’s any way you can help.

It’s non-invasive, doesn’t come on too strong, and is a small gesture that REALLY goes a long way.

Because if you want to get the girl and keep her, you have to put in a little bit of effort.

6. Style, Style, Style

Here’s a scenario:

“Guy A” is wearing Camo shorts, a baggy T-Shirt, and flip flops. “Guy B” is wearing a fitted button down shirt, some pressed khakis, and clean white shoes.

Who would a girl rather be seen in public with?

You HAVE to know how to dress yourself, guys.

And one way to get there is by following these style rules every man should know.

7. The Self-Improvement Machine

While French fries are delicious, no girl is interested in a couch potato (especially a crusty one found between the cushions.)

So get off your butt and at the very least, take a walk.

Because if you’re not working to be a better man, you’ll only stay right where you are. You might even backtrack!

Something I read on the internet is that you should have three hobbies:

1 to make you money

1 to keep you in shape

1 to keep you creative

Mine are: Writing dating advice for guys, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, and making music. I’m not great at all three but every day I get a little better, and that’s why I keep doing them.

So get a hobby or three. Girls like it and it’ll help you build confidence (which girls also like!)

What Do Girls Like To Talk About

Girls are just like guys in that they’ll talk about anything if they’re comfortable with you.

Of course, thinking of things to talk about with a girl doesn’t always come easy.

So…

If you’re just getting to know her, she doesn’t want to talk about love yet (but you can ask her if she’s ever been in love.)

In the getting-to-know-you stage, girls like to talk about their passions and hobbies, the happier moments of their past, crazy adventures they’ve had, and their hopes and dreams for the future.

Talking about those things is literally how you get to know her.

As time goes on and you become more comfortable with each other, the topics get a little deeper.

Girls who are super into you will want to talk about their sexual kinks, what love means to them, what they need for a relationship to work, the emotional scars of their past, and a future with you in it. (They may not like talking about the scars, but if a girl tells you them, she REALLY trusts you.)

Those are just a few things to talk about with a girl. Follow that link for even more useful information.

What Do Girls Like To Hear

Remember 5 from above? Girls like feeling special, and while you can make her feel that way with your actions…

… Your words are just as powerful (possibly even more powerful.)

Don Miguel Ruiz said in his book, The Four Agreements, “Be impeccable with your word.”

What does that mean?

It means you need to choose your words wisely and use them (in his words) for truth and love, not gossip or for hurting others.

So when you’re trying to think of sweet things to say to a girl, they better come from the heart…

… Because if they don’t, she’ll see right through you.

If you like the way her hair looks, tell her.

If you’re proud of her for working out every day of the week, lift her spirits and tell her you see a change (even if you actually don’t.)

If you disagree with something she says or does, tell her. It shows her you have values and you’re not afraid to stand up for them.

Girls like honesty (but a white lie won’t hurt if it makes her feel good.)

And of course, if you need more compliments for girls, just follow the link.

More Tips on How To Get The Girl

Here are some other helpful resources that’ll help you get the girl:

1. Do you know how to tell if a girl likes you? Don’t miss out on the hints!
2. Eventually you’re going to have to approach her. Learn how to approach a girl and get her number.
3. Girls like a guy who is something special. We can teach you how to impress a girl to keep her wanting more.
4. Looking for a more serious relationship? Know what women want in a man.
5. Of course, none of those will help if you don’t know how to ask a girl out.

How to Know What Do Girls Like: 4 Steps

Here are 4 steps to know how to find out what girls like:

Step 1: Read More Dating Advice

The more you read and learn, the more adept you’ll become at figuring out what works. It’s how I improved my social skills.

Step 2: Ask Your Friends

Have any friends that are girls? Get the information straight from the source!

Step 3: Experiment

Be sure to use the techniques and advice you’ve learned on actual girls.

Step 4: Have Fun

Figuring out what girls like is half the fun. So try new things and make sure you’re both having a good time.

In Conclusion

So now that you know the answer to the question, “what do girls like?”, it’s time to use what you’ve learned in everyday life.

Now get out there and use it.

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When thinking about building a strong relationship with your significant other or simply how to get a girlfriend, love tends to be one of the main ingredients if it is going to last. And you ask yourself, “Does she love me?”

However, Love can be a complicated thing for many.

One of the main reasons behind it being complicated is it can be extremely difficult to understand the signs of how the other feels when in love.

In addition to worrying about how to tell a girl you love her, it’s human nature to wonder if she even feels the same way about you.

When it comes to love, women can be remarkably secretive, and it takes them time to admit how they feel. But if you thoroughly examine their behavior, they do leave some signs that reveal how they feel.

So, instead of wondering “Does she love me?”, learn how to read the signs that might indicate if she does.

Also, it is interesting to note that ladies tend to expect their men to identify such signs of love and approach them with a proposal.

I recommend reading through all of these 14 signs to find your absolute favorites and answer your question, “Does she love me?”… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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14 Biggest Signs To Tell If She Loves You

Many men are scared of talking to women about their feelings or are afraid to open up about love because they are not confident of the response they will receive.

It is time to get rid of that fear and clear any doubt you might have, does she love me or not, by looking for these signs.

Here are 14 of the biggest signs that a girl loves you:

Sign#1 She Worries About You.

When a woman loves you she’s concerned about your safety and well being. She will be worried when you get hurt or when you have problems. She would also want to be there for you when you need her the most.

Sign #2 She Shows Signs of Jealousy.

Pay attention to her attitude.

If it is noticeable that her attitude is affected when you are around other women, she just might be jealous. If there is one clue which indicates that she is afraid of losing you and that you are important to her, this is it.

Beware of too much jealousy. That is not good, but a dose of jealousy is a sign that a girl loves you.

Sign #3 She Shows Interest in Your Personal Life.

You can tell if a girl loves you if she prioritizes the things that matter to you. She will remember important events such as your birthday.

She will make it her duty to remember the important events in your life and know your hobbies and interests.

Sign #4 She Always Makes Time for You.

In a world where so much is battling for our attention, if she always seem to have time for you it is clear how she feels. Don’t take for granted that she’s always free to talk or to spend time with you.

Everyone has plans and things to do so if she always has time for you it is because she makes the time. Don’t take that lightly.

Sign #5 She Hates Being Away From You for Long Periods

If you haven’t communicated with her for an extended period and she seems frustrated or irritated that says a lot.

It says that she really missed you and it’s hard to move on with everyday life without you being a part of it.

This is a strong sign that she loves you.

Sign #6 She Takes Caring to New Levels

A girl that loves you won’t have boundaries about how much she cares about you. She will be extremely concerned about all aspects of your life and well being.

Much like a mother’s love, she will be happy when you’re happy and sad when you are.

Sign #7 She’s Your Cheerleader

It’s clear she loves you if she is there supporting your plans and ideas on how you’re going to achieve your goals and encourage you when you come up short.

When a woman loves you she’ll be in your corner believing in you to succeed at whatever you try.

Sign #8 She Always Speaks Highly of You.

If she honors you with her words it shows that she cares about your feelings. She will speak politely to you and also publicly protect your reputation because she cares and loves who you are.

She will not slander or say mean things about you even when she is angry.

Sign #9 She Goes out of Her Way to Make You Smile

If she calls for an impromptu date, shows up to your work with lunch or coffee or randomly calls or texts to see how your day is going, she’s putting in extra effort to let you know that she loves you and is thinking about you.

She might surprise you with tickets to your favorite show, prepares your favorite meal or simply take care of something you wanted to get done.

She’s displaying her love for you.

Sign #10 She Remembers Small Details About You

A woman that is deeply interested in you will remember the little details about you that you sometimes might not even remember.

This shows that you hold a very important place in her life and she loves you.

She might remember everything from your favorite clothes brand, color, music and food.

Sign #11 She Tries to Impress You

When a girl keeps trying to impress you, take note.

By doing this she wants you to be pleased with having her around and to ensure you see what you will be missing out on if you don’t go after her on another level.

It shows that she loves you and tries to impress you by being the best version of herself whenever she’s in your presence.

Sign #12 You’re Her Best Friend.

Among her friend and family, she decides to choose you as the person she comes to when she needs to talk.

She shares everything with you and she is comfortable enough to be her true self. This says a lot about the feelings she has for you. She loves you and wants you to play an important role in her life.

Sign #13 She Celebrates Your Victories (no matter how small)

Did you get an A in class? Triple your bench-press score at the gym? She will be as excited as you are about your victories. She might even make a fuss over them and tell you how awesome you are.

Sign #14 She Says the Magic Words

If you’re looking for the ultimate sign that a woman loves you, look no further than this.

When she says the three magic words “I love you”.

It doesn’t get any clearer than this. She is wearing her heart on her sleeve and does so boldly knowing that you have the power to reject or embrace her.

When a woman does this she has been in love with you for awhile and can’t bear to keep her emotions concealed any longer.

Many women tend to just give hints so if you’re fortunate enough to have a woman come out and tell you that she loves you, cherish her because she’s rare.

More Steps On How To Get The Girl

If you want more ways on how to get the girl, or you’re wondering how to tell a girl you love her, check out these other helpful articles:

1. You’ll learn some cute ways to say i love you 
2. We’ll show you how to identify signs a girl likes you 
3. Also, help you to identify the signs she wants you to chase her 

How to Tell If She Loves You: 3 Steps

With all the possible signs that a girl might show that may indicate her love for you…

Here are 3 ways to tell if she loves you:

1. Constant Communication.

By doing this you will have a good idea how she feels based on her feedback.

2. Be Observant.

Pay attention to everything; her body language, tone and choice of words to be able to tell if she loves you.

3. Take a Step Back and Evaluate the Relationship.

This is where you try to look at things from her point of view. Try to see how she fits you into her life, introduces you to her family and friends etc. This step helps you to see if she is preparing and planning to have you in her life for the long term.

In Conclusion

So, even while you’re caught up on how to tell a girl you love her, it’s okay to wonder does she love me.

In a world where love is viewed as complicated because it might be difficult to know if your significant other feels the same way you can put your mind at ease and stop asking yourself “Does she love me?” by looking for signs that indicates her love for you.

It takes time, patience and a bit of observation so if you’re curious about how to get a girlfriend or how to make your relationship last, this is definitely a great start.

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A double date can be great, but only if you use some great double date ideas to really make it work.

There’s so much potential in a double date, but there’s also always the chance it could all go wrong. It is always tough to make sure four people all have a good time, and the wrong date idea leaves a lot of room for someone to get bored, or refuse to participate, or demand to do something else.

In other words, a double date can easily become a double disaster double quick.

At the same time, when you use the right date ideas, double dates can be incredibly enjoyable. You can have more fun with four people than two. It opens up all kinds of conversations and activities. You also have some of the pressure removed from your part in the date.

Making a double date work isn’t difficult. It just takes one great idea and the rest takes care of itself. Use some of our date ideas to make sure all four people have a date to remember.

I recommend reading through all of these 50 double date ideas to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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13 Best Double Date Ideas

Nervous about a big double date? It doesn’t have to be complicated. Just pick one of our best date ideas and let the date take care of itself.

The best date ideas can start with the simplest concept. From there, you can just let the night (or afternoon) evolve naturally.

Here are 13 best double date ideas: 

1. Have an at-home cooking session

Let everyone pitch in and see what delicious meal you end up with.

2. Picnic at the beach

A nice mix of romance, relaxation, and great fun.

3. Fly through the sky in a trapeze class

A little scary, a little thrilling, and the chance to live out one of the most interesting careers ever for a day.

4. Team up for trivia night

You and your date versus the other pair: who knows more useless trivia? Add drinking game rules for extra fun.

5. Road trip to a concert

Is there a concert all four of you want to go to but it’s miles away? Make the trip part of the date!

6. Go to a cabaret show.

Enjoy a bit of classic entertainment over some great drinks.

7. Play shuffleboard.

Get a taste of your golden years all together.

8. Try a Korean BBQ restaurant.

A little exotic, incredibly delicious, and fun for everyone.

9. Wine tasting

Try some great wine, debate the best offerings, then buy a bottle and enjoy the rest of your evening together.

10. Treasure hunt at a flea market

There’s a lot of adventure to be had among everyone’s old possessions.

11. Drive around in a quadricycle

It’s a little crazy, a little awkward, and tons of fun.

12. Attend A “Wine & Paint” Night

Engage your artistic side while having a nice glass of wine.

13. Peruse A Bookstore Together

Add some extra fun by letting everyone choose a book for someone else.

12 Double Date Night Ideas

Your standard date night ideas don’t always work when planning for four instead of two. Get some fresh options out of this list for your double date night.

Here are 12 double date night ideas: 

14. Host A Dinner Party

The classic double date evening event.

15. Host A Game Night

With the right game, the night can be full of fun for hours.

16. Outdoor Cinema Picnics

Take the dinner and movie option in a new and fresh direction.

17. Rock climbing

Get a little more physical and adventurous.

18. Chocolate shop tasting

Let everyone get their fill, then buy the best options to take home.

19. Try out a self-defense or martial arts class.

An athletic, practical, and very fun way to spend a few hours.

20. Go to the opera

Put on your fanciest outfits and see what it was like to double-date a century ago.

21. Ghost tour

Give everyone a chance to have a scare, and get extra close to your date.

22. Go to the theater

See an amateur production at a small theater or go big-time to the best theater in town.

 23. Try a new cuisine

Find an option no one has tried, get four different dishes, share, and then review.

24. Casino night

If you don’t mind losing a little cash for some fun, a night being a high roller can be exhilarating.

25. Take time to tango

Learn the most romantic dance together.

12 Cheap Double Date Ideas

Many of the above ideas may sound really wonderful…except you don’t have the cash to pay for them.

Thankfully, not all double dates are expensive, some of the best date ideas are actually cheap date ideas. Pick from the list below to set up a great evening for everyone, even when you’re all a little short this month.

Here are 12 cheap double date ideas: 

26. Ride a city bus for the whole route

Get some seats together and take a new kind of tour.

27. Volunteer at a soup kitchen or nursing home

One of the best double date if you want to give back while saving money and still enjoying yourself.

28. Take a walk through a botanical garden.

Beautiful, serene, and cheap.

29. Constructing and burying a time capsule

You can think about your life, the world around you, and what you all want the world to know about you.

30. Game Night Circa 1990.

Dig out the old Nintendo or Atari and play the games of your childhood (or before you were born!).

31. Cook Together

Not all cooking double dates have to be expensive. Look for cheap ingredients and a good recipe, and you can make a delicious meal for four together.

32. Hike

It’s healthy, it’s beautiful, it’s great for conversation, and it’s free.

33. Happy Hour

Get your drinks in on a discount, then head out using another of our date night ideas.

34. Open Houses

If any or all of you are looking at buying a home (or just like imagining buying one), take advantage of some free open houses.

35. Sledding

A fun way to enjoy the winter and act like kids again.

36. Sight See Your City

Even if you’ve lived your whole life in the same city, there’s always something new to see.

37. Go to a real- live movie store, pick out a movie together then pop homemade popcorn at home

Once the most boring of activities, this is one of those double dates that now have the charm of a former era.

13 At Home Double Date Ideas

Many of the best double dates don’t require you to get out and take in the town. Sometimes, the best date ideas are also at home date ideas. 

At home, everyone feels comfortable, everyone can relax, and you can still have a great time.

Here are 13 at home double date ideas:

38. Cook a candlelight dinner

Make the night romantic and intimate without the bother of a fancy restaurant.

39. Order take out from your favorite restaurant

Mix it up with everyone getting a single dish from their favorite restaurant, then sharing everything.

40. Dance to your old records

Pick out the best or the cheesiest and make it an at-home dance party.

41. Do some stargazing

If you live out in the country, this is one of those double dates you really need to pull off sooner rather than later.

42. Fondue Night

Gooey, delicious fun for everyone.

43. Video Game Marathon

If you’re all gamers or just gamer-curious, it can be a joy for everyone.

44. Poker Night

Play for stakes that don’t break the bank, so that everyone has something to win and lose.

45. Go through your old yearbooks

Let everyone bring their old yearbooks and consider their old selves for a night.

46. A Book club for 4.

A great, recurring double date option. Pick a book a month, read it, and get together to discuss.

47. Play charades

One of the classic double dates for the home.

48. Yoga

Whether you’re a yoga master or you’ve never tried it, this can be fun, adventurous, and relaxing for everyone.

49. Take online relationship tests

See how compatible a test things you are.

50. Stay up all night talking

Don’t sweat the plans. Get together, get some food, and just enjoy each other’s company.

More Great Date Ideas

Not every date should be or will be a double date, which means you need date ideas that cover you for every other date you’ll have.

Not to worry, we’ve got you covered there as well. Just try out some of these date ideas:

1. First dates are crucial, so you need to pick from the best first date ideas out there.
2. Whether the first date was a smash or fell flat, make sure you use the right second date ideas to build an even better impression.
3. Make a special night really special with some spectacular anniversary date ideas.

How To Pick A Great Double Date Idea: 7 Steps

Double dates can almost seem too simple to work. In a single sentence, you can state a great date idea, but things can always go wrong.

To make sure the double date ideas you use lead to great double dates, follow all of these steps so you make the right idea choices and follow through with them fully.

Here are 7 steps to pick a great double date idea:

Step 1: Consider What You Know About Everyone

Before you even consider the double date ideas listed above, take a moment to think about what you know about everyone who’s going to participate in this date.

Instead of needing to just please yourself and one other person, there are four people with very different tastes involved.

Try to think about what you all have in common, as well as what activities someone might really dislike.

For instance, if someone hates gaming, don’t do a game night. If someone can’t stand staying in, avoid at-home dates. However, if everyone is really active, then you can lean into the hiking, rock climbing, and other similar date options.

Step 2: Get Your Schedules Organized

Like Step 1, scheduling a double date is trickier because there are more people involved. People have different work, school, and social commitments. Finding the right time can be tough.

In addition, the timing can change the kinds of double date ideas you can work with.

If one person can only do a daytime date, then you can’t really stargaze or do a ghost tour. If it has to be a late-night date, you’ll want to focus on drinking, dancing, night walks, and other great nocturnal options.

Step 3: Remember to Put Your Date First

You want everyone to have a good time, but first and foremost, you want your date to have a good time.

So, be sure to put extra thought into what your date would like to do. At the same time, make sure you think of ways to get some time alone with your date, since you want to enjoy a few intimate moments getting closer even if you’re mostly being social.

Those moments can be as small and simple as walking a little ahead or behind during a stroll in a zoo or botanical garden. Or they can involve asking her to stay a little longer after your wine and cheese party to sample a special bottle you saved for just the two of you.

Step 4: Find the Date Idea That Hits the Sweet Spot

Once you have a good picture of the demands your double date has to meet, you can start using the lists above and narrowing in on the best idea.

Start by cutting out the ideas that won’t work at all because of timing, personal taste, or a lack of special time for you and your date. Then work from the remaining options to find a double date idea that everyone will find fun and that will feel like something new to everyone involved.

That sweet spot of comfortable, new, exciting, but not too out there is crucial. For instance, if everyone is already a big gamer, a gaming night might be a little mundane. It might be better to try the 1990s game night or else get out and try something a little more unique, like an outdoor cinema picnic.

Step 5: Consider Some Easy-to-Organize Backups

Some of the above ideas are really easy to put together without a lot of planning or preparation. Pick a few of those that you think everyone can enjoy.

You’ll want them as backups if everything doesn’t quite go as planned.

Step 6: Read the Crowd and Make the Right Changes

Here you are, the double date has started…how is everybody doing? Are they engaged and having fun? Are they a big bored? Are they really bored or just uncomfortable with the activity?

Take some time during the date to notice how the date is going, then you can make the changes necessary to keep everyone happy.

Those changes may be small (choosing a different exotic restaurant if someone is worried Thai will be too spicy) or big (going with one of your backup ideas if the main double date idea is a dud).

As long as you remain observant and you have some backup options available, you’ll be sure to have make sure everyone has a good time.

Step 7: Don’t Forget to Just Have Fun

When you’ve become so focused on using the right ideas and implementing the perfect double date, you can forget that you’re supposed to enjoy the date as well.

So, don’t get too stressed watching everyone or making plans. Pick an activity you also like and remember to focus primarily on your enjoyment and the enjoyment of your date.

In Conclusion

Double dates can seem really difficult to organize, but with the right double date ideas and following the right steps, they are actually incredibly simple to set up and and incredibly fun to have.

A good double date just has to have a few date ideas that manage to be fun and a little different without making anyone feel uncomfortable. When you manage to meet those needs, the date can take care of itself.

That means you and everyone else can enjoy some romance, some friendly fun, and a great time all around.

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Why is having a good anniversary date ideas so so important

…Because, you know how it is… when you first start dating someone, everything is fresh and new. Every date idea is novel and a new shared experience. You might even have several early date ideas all planned out and ready to go to recycle with whomever you’ve just started seeing.

But that changes as time goes by and you start having anniversaries. Thinking gets stale as time goes on and new experiences are harder to come by.

And this is a problem.

Celebrating an anniversary milestone is enormously important to the health of any relationship. It’s not enough just to remember your anniversary, though that is a necessary condition, you have to mark the occasion.

That’s where we come in.

Here’s a list of anniversary date ideas to get your creative juices flowing. We’ve broken them down into a few different categories to align with where you’re at in your relationship, or when you’re actually going to be marking the occasion. Some are fun, some are going to get you outside your comfort zone, but all are designed to bring you and your partner closer together.

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24 Best anniversary date ideas

Let’s not overcomplicate things if you’re running late or your anniversary is, like, this week. We’ve compiled the best anniversary date ideas to get you started. You may need to do a little bit of legwork to make some of these happen, but there are plenty you can accomplish today.

Here are 24 of the best anniversary date ideas:

1. Head Back to the Spot Where You Two Met

Show her you remember exactly where you were when the course of your life changed forever. Presumably.

2. Get a Room at a Chic City Hotel or Country B&B

Everyone deserves a little staycation.

3. Head on an Unplanned Road Trip

Get out of Dodge for a bit. Just skip Vegas. Vegas baby!

4. Head to the Spa

Maybe she’s used to the pampering you know she deserves, but try a couples massage.

5. See a Band You Both Love in Concert

Music has the power to change lives. Spend a few hours bringing yours closer together.

6. Volunteer Together

Spend time on each other and make the world a little bit better. Win-win.

7. Head to a Theme Park

Sometimes the “Happiest Place on Earth” isn’t just a marketing slogan.

8. Go on a Boat

Bring your swim trunks and your flippy floppies…

9. Take a Cooking Class Together

You can score a lot of man points if you can make more than grilled cheese, steak, and pasta out of a box.

10. Spend the Night Laughing—and Drinking—at a Comedy Club

A two drink minimum makes everyone funnier. But save your comedy stylings for after the show.

11. Find a Chic Bathhouse or Hot Springs

Your anniversary is a special day, but there’s not a day a hot soak doesn’t improve.

12. Relive your first date

You may need to check in with social media to remember all the details, but if you pull this off, you’re a winner for life.

13. Relive the wedding, if you’re married

Get down on one knee. Renew your vows. Don’t invite all the cousins.

14. Go ballroom dancing.

Ballroom dancing lessons were probably a lofty goal in the lead up to the wedding. Now that you’ve got the extra time, learn the proper technique to cut a rug.

15. Go Glamping.

Fancy camping. It’s a great excuse to drink champagne in nature.

16. Do a food truck tour.

Get out and see some of the city. Check social media to see where you’ll be dining tonight.

17. Hit a dance club.

Pulsating beats and thirty dollar light beers. Talk about reliving yesteryear.

18. Try indoor bouldering.

This is an intense full body workout which gives you the chance to look like a complete stud… or at least show some serious vulnerability. Either works.

19. Go on a motorcycle ride.

Three hundred miles with her arms wrapped around you.

20. Attend an outdoor concert.

From ancient Rome to Woodstock. Music just sounds better outside.

21. Go to a local fair or festival.

Take in a little local culture. Can anyone say butter sculpting?

22. Taste wine at a vineyard

Sometimes you just have to go to the source to experience the joie de vivre.

23. Get dressed up to the nines and visit the Opera.

You don’t need a reason to break out your monocle or learn to tie a bowtie, but your anniversary is certainly one.

24. Take a tour of your local brewery.

Similar to the vineyard, taking the time to learn something about your libations is a real bonding experience.

16 Anniversary date night ideas

If you’re not going for a weekend or a long trip, the anniversary date night itself is the big show.

This isn’t just any night, so we’ve got you covered on some stellar date night ideas sure to score all the winning points.

Here are 16 of the best anniversary date night ideas:

25. Reconnect over your future

This is your person. This is your life. There’s no better time to revisit your communal future than your anniversary.

26. Bar hop

Simple, but effective. Take the chance to cut loose with a few drinks at a few different venues.

27. Go out to a jazz club

Jazz clubs are great. You have the chance to dress up and have a nice cocktail without being stodgy.

28. Go to a Sip and Paint

The more you sip, the more creative the painting.

29. One night dinner cruise

There is little in life as romantic as a boat. Couple the high seas with dinner, drinks, and dancing for the easy win.

30. Ethnic Eats

Get outside your comfort zone with some global eats. Tums are your friend here.

31. Go Ice Skating

Man up and get the figure skates. Show a little vulnerability. Remember the Cutting Edge?

32. Schedule some hot tub time.

I’ll say it again. A hot soak has never steered a man in the wrong direction.

33. Go to the ballet

Watch Billy Elliot first. You’ll feel better about the ballet and you’ll score so many brownie points.

34. Make out in the back seat of your car.

Remember to make sure the high school kids aren’t around.

35. Go to a haunted house.

Pretty much the only way to ensure she’s closer to you than the motorcycle ride.

36. Go to karaoke.

“Don’t stop believing!” In you. Don’t stop believing in you.

37. Crash a wedding.

You’re swinging for the fences here. Have a backup if this blows up on you. And it will… almost always.

38. Wait in line for the new iPhone

It’s what Steve Job’s would do. WWSJD?

39. Have an arcade date.

Arcades are making a comeback. Nostalgia is a strong emotion. Play that card.

40. Take a pole dancing class together.

If ballet isn’t your speed…

16 Cheap Anniversary Date Ideas

There’s absolutely no requirement to spend your retirement savings (do you have retirement savings? I don’t…) on your anniversary. In fact, cheap date ideas are often the most successful.

Here are 16 of the best cheap anniversary date ideas:

41. Go for a hike

Nature is free. That doesn’t mean getting out in nature doesn’t have great value.

42. Plan a romantic picnic

Plan it. Do it. All you need is a bit of grass and a blanket. Oh, and food. Get some cheese too. And wine. Get wine.

43. Stay in and watching a movie together.

In this era, there is absolutely no reason you shouldn’t have a binge watch.

44. Spend the day at the beach

Rolling surf is extremely relaxing. Just another reason to get married in the summer.

45. Sit by the lake, pond or river.

There’s a reason so many romantic stories happen by babbling brooks.

46. Go to a museum or art gallery.

Go look at something amazing. It will make you feel better about your sip and paint sessions.

47. Run a race or go to a charity event.

The couple that runs together stays together.

48. Learn to play an instrument together.

If you get through this one together, make sure there either is a ring on it, or you put a ring on it.

49. Take a drive to the best lookout point and spend an evening stargazing.

Get out of the city. Go where it’s dark. Snuggle up and watch for a piece of dust to graze the atmosphere. Life changing.

50. Visit your local botanical garden.

If you don’t live near water, hit up the local botanical garden. Plants are almost as relaxing as water.

51. Ride a Tandem Bike

This is a bold move, but you’re going to get a crash course in interpersonal communication. Pun completely intended.

52. Go Antiquing together

No better way to remember you’re growing old together than buying something ancient. Or just mid-century. The sentiment is the same.

53. Attend a poetry reading

Poetry is a natural aphrodisiac. I think. It was in the 60s at least. Just think of Ginsberg.

54. Go Bowling

If you avoid league night, you’re in good shape. Never get married on league night. That’s just amateur hour.

55. Exercise together

Bowling. Ice skating. Even the tandem bike ride. Literally grow stronger together.

56. Fruit Picking

It sounds cliche, and perhaps it is, but it is cheap. Plus you end up with fruit. So, win-win.

19 At home anniversary date ideas

Sometimes you’re not able to get out of the house. Kids maybe. There’s also nothing wrong with being a homebody. There are plenty of at home date ideas that can crush your anniversary.

Here are 19 of the best at home anniversary date ideas :

57. Make it a Netflix Night

Get weird. Get deep. Get into the documentaries.

58. Plan a staycation

The magic doesn’t have to happen in a single day. Expand your anniversary beyond just one day by planning a trip that can span several.

59. Re-create a pricey class at home

You can learn almost anything on YouTube these days. Grab a bottle of wine and learn something new.

60. Cook something you’ve never tried before

Order it first. Savor it. Google it. Learn it. Make it. Done.

61. Plant a garden together

You don’t even need a yard for this. Plant an herb garden to spice up your next meal.

62. Make a romantic brunch at home

If you can make french toast and poach an egg you pretty much never have to worry about anything romantically ever again.

63. Plan a game night and break out the old board games

Arcades cost money. Board games? Not so much. Break out the Pop-o-Matic bubble.

64. Create a bucket list together

This is your partner for life. What do you both want to do? Even if it isn’t on this list.

65. Build a fire at home and roast some s’mores.

Outside of arsonists, no man has ever gone wrong building a fire.

66. Cuddle up with some candles and your favorite bottle of wine.

Life is really pretty simple. Sometimes a little low lighting and a bottle of wine are all you need.

67. Chocolate Tasting

Err on the side of dark. Milk chocolate is garbage. Garbage!

68. Eat Take-Out By Candlelight

Again, simple. Order a properly prepared meal. Eat it right out of the takeout box. Save a dish.

69. Make Dinner or Dessert Together

Order a dinner take away. Eat the dinner and make the dessert. Drink the wine.

70. Ask Each Other Questions

We hope you’re doing this regularly, but on your anniversary ask big questions. How are you going to change the world?

71. Do a Puzzle Together

The trick? FIND THE CORNERS. Start at the corners. Work your way in.

72. Take a Bubble Bath

Soaking. Never. Harms. That’s just a relationship maxim. Just be mindful that you need a sufficiently large tub.

73. Play “Would You Rather?”

If you can’t afford to go to the arcade, this is going to be as fun. No. More fun. Way more fun.

74. Give each other massages

This seems simple, but do a bit of research ahead of time. A massage can be divine if done properly, so… make sure you do it properly.

75. Make Homemade Donuts

Mmmmmm… donuts.

More Great Date Ideas

Once you nail your anniversary date, you’ve got 364 other days where you could use a date idea in your back pocket. We’ve got you covered there as well.

Be it double dating with friends, or, if you have completely messed up your anniversary date (which, if you’ve read this list, you haven’t), a first date idea, the key is to always be thinking. If you have the first date idea, have the second date ready to go. Then the third, and so on.

How To Pick The Perfect Anniversary Date Idea: 3 Steps

You only get a single anniversary date a year, so it is important to make sure you knock it out of the park. While we’ve thrown out some helpful ideas, selecting the right one takes a bit of work.

Here are 3 things to take note when picking a date idea:

1. Know your budget

Do you have money to spend on this or not? You can do a lot with nothing if necessary. Be honest though.

2. Know your locale

Can you leverage the natural beauty of your surroundings or do you need some help from the city?

3. Know your audience

There are a lot of ways to get out of the box, but knowing your partner, their preferences and their appetites is, by far, the most important criteria.

In Conclusion

Anniversaries are serious endeavors. Let’s get that right. Marking another trip around the sun with your partner needs to be respected and acknowledged. Making sure that your anniversary goes swimmingly isn’t exactly hard. Hopefully, we’ve provided enough anniversary date ideas that get the job done or get the mental juices flowing.

Next year, don’t mess around. Just come back and let us help move the process along.

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Gentlemen today, we’re showing you 6 surefire techniques how to get any woman you want.

Think some nuts just can’t be cracked? Think again.

While it’s true that all women are different, there are a handful of personality traits the work to some degree… on universally any woman. There is always a way… and today we’re gonna show you how!

…And to make sure we don’t steer you off the rails, we’re also showing you the one thing that’s a universal turn off for any self-respecting woman.

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6 Ways How to Get Any Woman You Want

So here are the 6 paths how to get any woman you want + the 1 mistake we beg you not to make:

6. Fill the Void

Okay, we have to tell you something, and it might sting a little.

Are you sitting down? Okay, here it is… There’s a medium to high chance… that you’re not her first.

I know, I know. Shocking right?

When you’re in the days of a budding relationship, it can be hard to believe others came before you. But think of it like this, there are reasons why your dream girl’s previous suitors have landed in her blocked contacts list…. Instead of in your shoes.

Here’s what you do to leverage the favorable position you’ve found yourself in: Figure out what her ex didn’t have, or what her last relationship was lacking, and show her that you’re the one to fill that void.

Is she complaining that the last man in her life was lazy and lacked direction? Use it. Show her you know how to use your ambition to meet your goals.

Was it because the last guy wasn’t able to have fun? Show her you want to prioritize the good times with her.

Whatever it is, she’ll leave clues as to why her last relationship didn’t work out… and if you know how to put the pieces together, you can use it to your advantage.

5. Align futures

Alright guys, put the paint brush down. Put it down. You don’t actually have to paint her a picture.

What I mean is… show her how she fits into your future. She’s not going to invest in you now, if she can’t picture herself with you happy and successful later.

Makes sense? Right?

Well, now, here’s the tricky part. The really tricky part is to make sure that the picture you’re painting in her mind, is a match with her future plans. If all she can talk about is her dream to travel to Peru and experience Machu Picchu, now’s not the time to tell her how career-focused you are, or that heights makes you sick. Instead, nurture the common goals you do have and keep spending time together.

4. Share Her Focus

Scoring any woman you want a.k.a., your dream girl, is all about being her dream guy. Even if it’s for just a few hours in a single night, you’ve got the chance to make her imagine what it’d be like to be with you.

And a big part of that? Liking the same things.

Now don’t go saying you like something just cause she does. But if you can show a genuine interest in something she does, that could logically, eventually lead her to imagine doing that thing with you.

See what I mean?

So if she says she likes yoga, you don’t have to like yoga. But you can ask questions about it, tell her your experiences with it, and show an open mind to something she really likes to do.

3. Cultivate Your Compass

While you’re hustling to dissect the inner workings of your dream girl, don’t forget one very important thing… You, big guy. You.

Benjamin Franklin once wrote, “Observe all men; thyself most.”

Don’t get lost in the chase and forget who you are just to get the girl. Now that doesn’t mean don’t try to change for the better, but the woman you’re after, expects a man with a strong internal compass.

No matter how much they may push, no woman worth chasing is going to fall head over heels for a guy playing puppy dog. This is precisely the kind of guy any woman sees herself with, so show her that you are the leader of your life, and she’ll be sure to follow.

2. Adopt tradition

Some see manliness as a dying artform. Some think it’s a danger to society. But we really just see it as a basic facet of dating.

Here’s what we think: It’s okay to be manly. In fact, we’d argue that every single woman on earth, wants a manly guy. It’s just that definitions of manliness are pretty flexible these days. But we digress.

For now, we’re talking about traditional manliness. While it comes with challenges, it also tends to come in handy… and women like that. Here’s why. Being useful is becoming a fundamentally rare trait.

There are plenty of guys out there with good jobs. There are plenty of athletic or handsome dudes, but not that many guys who know how to get out of a jam all on their own.

Your woman wants to know that, when life throws you those unexpected curve balls: Like a flat tire on the way to dinner, or a tough conversation with somebody,
or something that needs fixing… that you’re going to be able to step up to the plate and take care of business.

1. Be Balanced

We all know that guy who is so singular in character that he is hard to relate to. He’s such a bohemian artist, or he’s big into exercise and dieting, or he’s so obsessed with cryptocurrencies that he’s actually hard to talk to about anything else.

In other words, he’s a gimmick. If you’re too into one thing, your dream girl might just find you to be… well… too much for her.

And yes, while you might be able to find that very special someone, who gets just as excited about parkour as you do, you won’t be able to get any woman you want.

The #1 Thing that Will Kill Your Chances with the Woman You’re After

Alright guys, we’ve given you the 6 ways how to get any woman you want, here is the number one thing that will tank your chances with any girl: Most guys figure it out that getting a girl can sometimes take a lot of work. And it seems like they do everything right.

They make her a priority, they treat her right, and they pour everything they have into proving they’re a good choice for a girl.

See where this is going?

The sometimes harsh reality of getting a girl that it’s possible to try too hard, and and if a woman senses, 9/10 times she’s going to split. Women like focus, but they don’t want to be the only focus of a guy’s life. Smothering is real, guys.

So keep your priorities straight, and just remember that at best, women sign up to be a life partner, but not your entire life.

In Conclusion

Those are the 6 most effective ways how to get any woman you want and the one thing that will surely spoil your efforts to win her over.

And while you’re here, don’t forget to check out our other videos!

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You see her across the room, beautiful and not talking to anyone, and now you’re stuck standing there, wondering just how to approach a girl so you can actually start a conversation with her.

Learning how to approach women is a process every man has been through. It’s perhaps the first key step in figuring out how to get a girlfriend. It’s really this simple: if you want to get close to a girl, you first have to figure out how to approach a girl in the first place.

Thankfully, the process is simpler than you might think. If you follow all the steps below, you’ll become an expert at the approach, and all the other steps afterward.

Talking to a girl, establishing a connection, and creating the basis for more can all follow from just following the approach steps below.

I recommend reading through all of these 8 steps to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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Why is Knowing How To Approach A Woman So Important?

In the modern world, where you spend as much time chatting on your phone and chatting online as you do chatting to people in person, it can seem outdated to worry about approaching a girl.

After all, there are plenty of women out there who you can get to know in different ways.

That’s true, and it’s a great advantage to modern technology and relationship building. And yet, the vast majority of relationships with women start by approaching them up front and starting a conversation.

It’s still the basic way how we build relationships of all kinds, whether personal, professional, friendly, or romantic. You can find women to chat to online, but if you see a woman you want to meet in person, you have no choice but to learn how to approach women.

This is a key skill, even if you have success meeting girls in other ways. Having confidence when meeting women is an attractive skill that impresses the girls you already know and opens up far more possibilities for you.

It also removes any nervousness you might have if and when the moment arrives when you need to know how to approach a girl.

Basically, this is a life skill that no amount of technology is going to let you avoid learning, so it’s better to get the steps now and have the skill in your back pocket when you need it.

How to Approach A Girl: 8 Steps

When you’re standing in that room, trying to work up the courage to approach a girl, it can feel like it would take an infinite number of steps to get you from your place to standing next to her and chatting.

In reality, though, it requires just 8 steps to solve the question of how to approach a girl. In just 8 steps you go from nervousness and future regret to a fulfilling conversation and future plans.

Just follow these steps and you won’t have any more post-event regrets. You’ll have a pocket full of numbers and a calendar full of meet up plans.

Here are 8 powerful steps to approach her:

Step 1: Observe Her and the Situation

If you don’t know how to approach a girl, you can get the urge to just rush in and get it over with. This, to put it lightly, would be a major mistake.

Take a breath, take a step back from yourself and your nervousness, and take a moment to observe what is going on around you.

Look at the location. What is going on? Are people watching something on TV? What are they watching? Are you in a class? What class? Are you at an event? What event?

Store this information so you have ammunition for more communication later (see Tip 4 in Step 5).

Then, observe the girl. Don’t stare but take the time to check her out a bit. Who is she talking to? Is she interested in what’s happening? Is she alone? In a group? Is she staring at her phone?

You can use all this info to your advantage in planning the best moment to approach and the best conversation topics.

Step 2: Plan Out an Intro

Now you have a bit of information to go on, take another moment to develop a plan. Physically approaching a girl is only one part of the whole approach process. You also need to have something to say when you get there.

If you don’t plan this, you can end up getting nervous right at the moment you want to look smooth and confident.

So, develop a plan. Don’t over-plan and try to come up with whole conversations in your head. Instead, focus on coming up with a few great conversation starters that you can use right off the bat.

Pick a few conversation starters that fit the setting and seem like she might like, then progress to Step 3.

Step 3: Wait for the Right Moment

No matter the situation, there are better and worse moments to approach a girl.

Don’t approach if she’s busy. If she’s listening to a lecture, don’t approach her and try to start chatting. If she’s right in the middle of a conversation with a group, be very cautious about approaching (unless you think you’re running out of time).

The best approach moment is one in which she is alone or she’s not deeply involved in an activity or conversation.

Ideally, wait until her friends disappear for a minute and she pulls her phone out to avoid getting bored. That’s a moment she’ll be most grateful for a distraction.

Step 4: Approach Confidently

When thinking about how to approach a girl, you probably won’t be surprised to find out that the actual approach is pretty important.

You may still be nervous at this point, but do your best to pretend you’re not. Confidence (though not cockiness) is always an attractive quality, and she’s more likely to be receptive to you if you come up looking sure of yourself.

To help manufacture some confidence, remind yourself that you’ve got some good conversation starters, you’ve picked a good moment, and all she can do is choose not to talk to you. It’s actually pretty low-risk.

Try to relax, see it as a playful test, and start a conversation in a confident voice.

Step 5: Talk to Her

When it comes to the nervousness surrounding how to approach a girl, it mostly all comes from this step. Men aren’t unsure about physically approaching a girl, they’re unsure how to talk to girls they don’t already know.

The good news is that this process is as straightforward as the approach itself. If you just use the tips in this step, you’ll be able to have a full, fun, and fruitful conversation with any girl you’ve approached.

Here are 4 simple tips to talk to her:

Tip 1: Start with Your Conversation Starter

The first tip is one you’ve already worked out. You should already have picked out a few conversation starters in Step 2.

These conversation starters should, ideally, cover a few areas so you have multiple chances to engage the girl you’ve approached.

Try something funny, try something deep, and try something a little on topic for the situation you both find yourself in.

So, you could ask her what world record she would break if she could break one, ask her what mantra she lives her life by, and then just ask her if she enjoyed the class she just had or if she has any recommendations for nights out in the area.

Put those in whatever order feels most comfortable and then let her engage in the topic she finds most interesting.

Tip 2: Ask Questions To Ask a Girl

All of the above are questions, although conversations don’t have to be questions. The question aspect does add something to the approach though.

Add to your conversation starters list by adding some questions to ask a girl.

These can be direct add-ons to your conversation starters that let you dig deeper into the topic, or they can be whole new topics to work from.

Ask her about her day, about her recommendations for future classes you might take, or about her favorite TV show.

Asking questions shows you’re interested in what she has to say, so just angle them towards topics she seems interested in, and she’s sure to engage more with your conversation.

Tip 3: Compliment Her

Questions are a great tool for simplifying how to approach a girl, but they have some limitations. Most importantly, they can be a little ambiguous about your intentions.

If you’re approaching a girl you like, and you want to communicate that clearly, add in some compliments for girls to lay it out there for her.

You can compliment her about anything, although the goal should be for the compliment to be well-received and not too personal this early on.

So, focus on some low-level appearance compliments like how nice her outfit is, or go for a compliment about her tastes after she discusses her favorite shows. You can also compliment her on how interesting she is once you’ve started talking.

The key here is to make the compliment noticeable without overstepping where you are in your conversation. Make it clear but not too personal, and you’re golden.

Tip 4: Draw On What She Says and Your Surroundings

Now that you’ve approached her, used a conversation starter to get her talking a bit, asked her a few questions to draw her out, and complimented her to show your interest…what do you do next?

Don’t stress about a few drops in the conversation. Just fill them in with what you’ve already observed about her and the surroundings.

Ask her if she likes the bar or the school or what she’s eating. Comment on the show that’s playing in the background, or ask her for a review of the book she’s got sitting next to her.

These conversation bumps are natural and keep you talking. If you run out of observations and questions, just throw out a conversation starter you’ve kept in reserve.

Step 6: Get Her Number

Once you’ve had a decent introductory conversation, you need to decide if you want this relationship to build from there.

If you like her, and she’s been receptive, solidify the option to continue talking by getting her number.

You may worry there’s a lot of steps behind how to get a girl’s number, but it really can be as straightforward as you want it to be.

If you can muster the courage, just ask for her number outright. You can also make a subtle excuse(such as wanting to learn more about her class or get some recommendations for TV shows) if you want to ease the stress of the direct request.

While there are other indirect methods, direct is by far the best way to get a number. It suggests confidence, straightforwardness, and really communicates your interest.

Just pick a moment when it seems like the conversation is nearing a natural end and ask for her number. Then, godspeed.

Step 7: Suggest a Way to Meet Up or Chat Again

When you get her number, don’t just leap for joy and run off. That would be a natural enough reaction, with all the relief and pride in your success, but stay where you are for a few more beats before you go celebrate.

Now you have her number, build on that moment by suggesting opportunities to meet up or chat soon.

This can be as simple as telling her you’ll text soon with a link to the video you discussed. Or, asking her if she’d like to hang out at a concert or movie soon.

Use topics in the conversation to construct this invitation. You don’t need to get a solid answer here, so don’t press too hard. Just let her know you’ll be using that number soon.

Step 8: Figure Out an Exit Moment and an Exit Plan

Once you’ve got a number and set up a tentative continuation of your discussion, now is the time to beat it.

Pick a good moment, and a good excuse as you can, to end the conversation at a natural moment. If need be, make up a place to be. The key here is simply to choose the right moment so you avoid awkwardness.

At the next break in the conversation, just tell her you have to go and remind her you’ll text soon. Then, make a swift and confident exit.

How To Approach A Woman When You Have Approach Anxiety

For those who want to learn how to approach a girl who have approach anxiety, it’s all the more important that they rely on the above steps.

Follow the process and draw confidence from the process to easy your anxiety.

In addition, try to add some support to aid your approach. If the girl is with friends, bring a friend along with you. Ideally, bring a confident friend who can help ease the approach transition.

If you’re alone or she’s alone, try approaching with a basic question that is completely harmless. Don’t try flirting at first, just ask for her notes on the class or if she knows if there are any drink deals at the bar.

More Steps On How To Get A Girlfriend

Now you know how to approach a girl, you’re well on your way to getting a girlfriend. Use these articles to get you that next step closer:

1. Discover how to flirt with a girl to really show how you’re feeling.
2. Take what you learned her and progress forward by learning how to text a girl.
3. Figure out how to meet women to find better opportunities to approach them.

In Conclusion

Once you know how to approach a girl, you’re one major step closer to closing in on how to get a girlfriend.

A lot of the tips that work with how to approach women work just as well to bridge the rest of the process to getting a girlfriend, so use this article as the first of several steps to getting the girl of your dreams.

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Knowing cute ways to say I love you is a great way to keep your relationship happy and healthy.

We’re all on our best behavior at the beginning of a relationship, but a lot of guys slack off once they’re officially in a relationship. We’ve spent a lot of time talking about how to get a girlfriend… but if you want to keep your girlfriend…

Don’t let her doubt how much she means to you.

Knowing how to tell a girl you love her will keep the two of you close and help you to build the relationship that will make both of you happiest.

So don’t get lazy in your relationship. Whether you messed up and need to make it right or you just want to remind her how important she is to you…

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15 Best Cute Ways To Say I Love You

As men in relationships, we have to strike a balance between who we are as single guys and who we are with a girlfriend.

I mean, your situation has changed… shouldn’t your behavior? If you want the perks of romance… you have to be a little bit romantic. That’s where knowing a few charming ways to say I love you can be really helpful.

She’ll love that you’re willing to let down your guard and be a little romantic… and being reminded of how you feel about her will bring her closer to you.

And to be honest… it’s kinda fun. Not only that, most of the ways on this list say “I Love You” without saying anything at all.

Browse through this list of the best adorable ways to say I love you and find ones that fit your personality and you think your girl will appreciate.

Here are 15 of the best cute ways to say I love you:

1. Write her Love Letters

Not love emails, love letters. Get a pen and paper and put down your thoughts. She’ll love it.

2. Mrs. Fields, I-Love you Cookie Cake

Cookie Cake is never a bad idea. Expressing your love is the icing on the cake.

3. Love Mugs: Postcup by Designer Re Jin Lee

Customize one of these stylish mugs so that every cup of coffee comes with a reminder of your love.

4. A Love Bracelet

Love bracelets remind us of the passions of our earliest crushes.

5. Book Club For Two

If you’ve never read something with your girl, you don’t know what you’re missing out on.

6. Keep an emergency stash of her favorite candy, for days that she needs a pick-me-up

Nothing says I love you like a well-timed Snickers.

7. Back rubs

This simple gesture communicates so much affection.

8. D.I.Y I Love You Frame

Glue it, nail it, or weld it. Just make her something cute.

9. Make a Playlist of “Your” Songs

Open a bottle of wine and think about the good times.

10. Bacon roses.

A rose by any other name would smell as sweet… but not as sweet as bacon roses.

11. Love Deck of Cards- 52 Reasons why you love her.

Coming up with 52 unique reasons you love her will amaze her and remind you of how great she is.

12. Buy her favorite wine with a custom label.

She’ll be amazed by your thoughtfulness and more than happy to share.

13. Make a photobook of your favorite snapshots.

These days we look at photos on our phones, but a photo album is a link to the past.

14. Surprise her with her favorite Take-Out.

Food is the universal love language. Bring her food, win her heart.

15. Next time your call goes to the voicemail, record a precious message.

Rather than hanging up, leave her a sweet message that she can go back and listen to any time she misses you.

15 Cute Ways To Say I Love You In a Text

So much of modern relationships takes place online that knowing cute ways to say I love you in a text is just as important as knowing how to do it in person.

Our phones have made it possible to stay in contact all day long, no matter what else is going on. While that has its challenges, it also means you have unlimited opportunities to say something sweet that will brighten her day.

So, every once in a while, use that amazing machine you keep in your pocket to remind your girl that you love her.

Here are 15 cute ways to say I love you in a text:

16. You’ve changed my life for the better. I am inspired to be different when I’m with you!

When you find someone who truly makes you better, be sure to let her know.

17. I hate everybody today, but you — you I can stand.

Shared hate is a powerful bond.

18. You are more adorable than all the cute cat pictures on the Internet combined!

Feel free to substitue cats with your girl’s favorite thing, but it’s almost always cats.

19. I wouldn’t want to change a thing about you. You’re perfect just the way you are.

This is a good message for anyone, especially your lady.

20. I know I’m weird but sometimes it makes you laugh and that just makes me super happy.

If you find someone who accepts your weirdness you better let them know how much you appreciate it.

21. Today is one of those days where I’m just like, “Meh.” And you’re like, “Exactly.” And that’s why you’re the best.

This one works great with some emojis sprinkled lighlty on top.

22. You’re awkward, but in a cute way. Like an elevator ride, but with puppies.

This joke doubles as a compliment, and is a great for those with quirky senses of humor.

23. Your sense of humor is fantastic. And by that I mean you laugh at my jokes. Which is fantastic.

If you want her to keep doing things you like, make sure you tell her you like them.

24. You’re my girl and nothing in the world makes me happier than that!

This contains all the passion of shouting from the rooftops but without being so obnoxious.

25. I wish I could wake up right next to you.

Depending on how you spin it this one could be provocative or affectionate.

26. Life isn’t perfect, but it’s much better with you.

Let her know that even though there are problems you want to get through them with her.

27. I love your hugs and kisses.

Let your girl know how much you enjoy being physical and it’s bound to happen more often.

28. Do you know how wonderful it is to wake up every day knowing I have you?

A heartfelt text like this will put a huge smile on her face.

29. I still fall in love with you every day!

Let her know that you’re just as passionate as you were in the beginning.

30. I’m counting down the minutes until I get to see you.

Everyone wants to be wanted. Telling her how excited you are to see her will be a big boost of confidence.

More Ways To Get The Girl

Know where you stand with the ladies, we’ve got information that can help you get where you want to be. Check out some of these posts for more ways to get the girl.

1. Stop wondering “does she love me?” and learn to see all the signs.
2. Land that first date with cute ways to ask a girl out.
3. Learn the best compliments for girls and never say the wrong thing again.
4. What do girls like, exactly? Let us show you that you have everything she wants.

How to Pick Which Cute Way To Say I Love You: 3 Steps

With so many adorable ways to say I love you to choose from, the hard part is picking the ones that work for you.

Follow these three steps to choose the best way to say something that will be meaningful for your girlfriend and that will fit your relationship.

Here are 3 simple steps to choose which cute way to say I love you:

Step 1: Lighten Up

As you read through this list, you might be tempted to think that these cute ways to say I love you are too cheesy or corny.

You don’t have to give up your man card to use these tips, you just need to not to take yourself too seriously.

Let go of the tough guy routine every once in a while and make your feelings clear. She’ll appreciate it and you’ll be surprised at how good it feels.

Step 2: Be True to Yourself

Just because you’re being a little sweeter than normal, doesn’t mean you still can’t be yourself. Choose the items from this list that match your sense of humor and personality.

If you have a dry sense of humor, use one of the sarcastic methods. If you like building things choose one of the hands on methods.

When you find the way to say I love you that match your personality she’ll recognize your sincerity and appreciate it that much more.

Step 3: Know your Girl

The whole reason you want a cute way to say I love you is because you want to make her feel special…

So you should tell her in a way that actually makes her feel special by showing how well you know her personality.

Choose a method that you know will be meaningful to her or adapt these suggestions so they fit her perfectly.

In Conclusion

With so many ways to say I love you, you have some essential tools to keeping a relationship healthy.

Because learning how to get a girlfriend is only the beginning… learning how to be in a relationship takes just as much effort.

Learning how to tell a girl you love her is a great way to keep growing closer together and build a relationship that fulfills you both.

Find someone worth loving and use these delightful ways to say I love you.

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Gentlemen, today we’re sharing with you the 7 signs a girl is flirting with you… and not just being friendly. Whether it’s because she’s keeping you on your toes or it’s just kinda hard to tell, the uncertainty of not knowing that a girl likes you can be enough to keep you up at night.

And because we want the signs to be crystal clear, we’re also sharing the #1 sign that she’s not being flirty, she’s not being friendly, she’s just not that into you.

Alright, let’s dive in.

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7 Signs She’s Flirting with You and NOT Just Being Friendly

Here are the 7 signs a girl is flirting with you:

7. OMG Staaaaaahhhhp!

If you’ve heard that noise before, congratulations!

You’ve learned how to be a fun person to be around. If you haven’t heard it before, it’s time to learn some jokes and think quicker on your feet. Because it’s no secret that girls love to laugh.

And if she’s laughing so much with you that she struggles to speak normally… She doesn’t want you to stop at all. It means she’s having the time of her life. And she wants to keep feeling that way.

6. She’s Kind of a Jerk

Generally when you meet a new person, you’re supposed to be nice to them, right?

Well not all girls like to play that way. Especially if they think you’re cute. That’s because if a girl is continually giving you a hard time about anything, whether it be your favorite shirt, your hair, or some embarrassing thing you said 15 minutes ago… she’s only teasing you and you shouldn’t take it personally.

Because remember… Teasing is a cornerstone of flirting…

So as long as she’s not being hurtful, eat it up and dish it right back to her. Because she’s probably just looking for a witty challenger.

5. She’s Got Hands!

As you may already know, hand placement is another sign a girl is flirting with you. Girls (not just the blind ones) use their hands to flirt with you by lightly pushing you when you’re being silly, or they adjust their hair a little too often and mimic whatever you’re doing.

On the other hand… a firm pat on the back or an impressive high five, most likely indicates she’s just being friendly towards you.

The key thing to remember when trying to figure out if her touch (or look) is flirty, is that context matters.

So if it’s complemented by anything else on this list, you’re probably doing something right.

Keep it up!

4. She’s a Mole

When we say this, we don’t mean she’s a spy tasked with uncovering your deep, dark secrets. We also don’t mean she’s blind.

No, it just means that she tends to pop up whenever you’re around… Just like a mole in your yard, except prettier and hopefully less harmful to your landscaping.

The thing is… If every time she’s around, she only seems to want to talk to you… She’s 100% flirting with you, especially if she’s often physically close to you.

So if a girl always seems to show up and talk your ear off, relax! She’s not the KGB. Just a QT who wants to get to know you more.

3. So Many Questions!

If you pass out at the bar and wake up sitting on a wooden chair in a dank, windowless room lit only by a swinging light bulb, we might have been wrong about the whole KGB thing, Because that’s when the questioning begins.

But… if a girl is asking you an unusual number questions in any other setting, she clearly wants to get to know you more. And in most cases, (again, depending on context).

It’s her way of flirting, even if she’s not being overt about it. After a while of chatting, if she thinks you’re not getting the hint, or she wants to make it obvious she’s flirting…

2. Things Get Saucy

One of the clearest signs a girl is flirting with you and not just being friendly, is when she starts talking about the fun times she’s had with her exes. Or she asks you about the fun times you’ve had with past girlfriends.

Pure and simple, if the topic comes up, get ready… Because she obviously wants you bad.

Speaking of girls wanting you, this video will show you how to make it second nature: How to Make a Girl Want You (TODAY) – 10 EASY Ways to Make Her Want You

1. She Talks Like This

This last of the signs a girl is flirting with you is based on science. And what the research says is another reason you should always listen closely. Because when a girl raises the pitch of her voice while talking to you, or she talks a little bit faster than normal… It’s a crystal clear sign she’s flirting and may not even realize it.

Because when a girl gets excited about something you share in common, or she’s just plain happy to be having a fun and interesting conversation with you, there’s evidence that her higher pitch reduces the amount of effort it takes her to attract and retain a mate.

You’re that mate. Science rules, doesn’t it?

The Number 1 Sign She’s Not as Into you as you Might Think

Good call sticking around till the end. Because you don’t  want to miss out on this #1 sign a girl is just being friendly with you.

Don’t get us wrong… If a girl is showing signs of everything on this list, it’s absolutely possible she’s into you… Of course, that’s only if she’s not spreading that attention to every guy in the room.

What do we mean? Well… Some girls are just naturally flirty. They like talking to people. Maybe they like the attention too.

In fact, you’ve probably met girls who fit the description. They’re usually the girls who “don’t get along with other girls.”

So if you meet a girl and hit it off, but later see her diversifying about the room, it might be a good idea to skip this one. Or if you’re feeling confident… Go ahead and double down and try to close. After all… You can’t win if you don’t play.

In Conclusion

Those are 7 signs a girl is flirting with you… and not just being friendly.

And while you’re here, why don’t you check out these other videos?

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Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 7 subtle signs a woman likes you. And because you don’t always click with every girl you meet, we’re sharing the #1 sign a girl isn’t interested at all and what you can do about it.

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7 Signs a Woman Likes You

So… Here are 7 signs a woman likes you and can’t wait for you to ask her out, and the 1 thing she’ll do to get you to back off. Alright. Let’s get to it.

7. The Toes Point The Way

We have an experiment for you to try. The next time you’re in a conversation you’d rather get away from, glance down and take note of which direction your lead foot is pointed. Why?

There’s evidence that the direction a person’s lead foot is pointing, is the direction they want to go. And this goes for both men and women. The thing is, people don’t think about their feet much. And when we’re dying to escape a conversation, we prepare ourselves to leave without even realizing it.

So if a woman is interested in you, there’s a pretty good chance that her front foot… will be pointed directly at you. Just try it! You’ll be surprised at what you find.

6. She’s a Text Machine

These days, we have instant access to anyone we want to talk to at the push of a button. So if you’re at work one day, minding your own business, and all of a sudden a text notification pops up that isn’t a bill pay reminder, good news! She wants to get to know you more.

That’s because women don’t normally text first, that is, unless they like you. It’s even more obvious she likes you if she’s at work, bored. Because she reached out to you to entertain her. So keep the conversation going.

5. What’s Your Blood Type?

First of all, if a woman asks you this, she’s either messing with you, or she’s interested in harvesting your organs. Keep an eye on your drink to be safe. But if she asks you personal questions like what your childhood was like, or what your plans for the future are, you’re in luck!

That’s because she’s trying to get a handle on who you are and what experiences made you that way. She also wants to know if your plans for the future match up with hers. So be sure to answer all of her mildly intrusive questions honestly. (Ask her questions as well!)

In doing so, you’ll both get a better sense of whether or not you’re compatible together. Because that’s what dating is. You don’t want to be with someone you don’t like, do you?

4. Eyes on the Prize

Next time you’re in a group and something happens that causes everyone to laugh, take a look at who each person looks at when they laugh. It’s usually the person they admire most.

Don’t believe it? Pay attention to the couples. If you find yourself catching eyes with a girl fairly often, or whenever you look over at her, she’s looking at you and quickly looks away, she’s into you and definitely one of the signs a woman likes you. Talk to her about it.

3. Someone’s Excited to Meet You

For a woman with a close group of girl friends, or just one best friend (like her mom), those girls are her support group, and the ones she tells EVERYTHING to. And we mean everything, including the sweet things you do (but also the bad things you do.)

So if a woman likes you, she’ll tell you about how her friends are excited to meet you. All that means is that she’s told them about you and you’re officially boyfriend material. No pressure. You’ve got this.

2. Serious Subtext

When you spend time with a woman, especially one you don’t think likes you, it’s easy to misinterpret or completely miss the point of the things she says to you. What do we mean? You have to listen closely to what she says about and to you.

For instance, she’ll tell you that she laughs with you more than anyone else, or without being asked, she tells you that she wishes she had something to do this weekend.

Does she make it obvious she’s single? Does she invite you out to hang with her friends? These are all signs she likes you. Women are usually subtle about telling you they’re interested, so they throw hints your way. So keep an eye out for them, but be aware that at this point, you could be in the friend zone.

Speaking of the Friend Zone, check out this video for more signs you’re stuck there. Better safe than sorry.

1.Up Close and Personal

It’s a common one, we’ll admit, but it’s surprising just how many guys miss this one. Because when you’re chatting with a woman one-on-one, and you’re physically touching each other, especially if neither of you is acknowledging it, like when your leg is lightly touching hers… she probably knows it’s happening just as much as you do. And if nothing else, she’s getting pretty comfortable around you.

The Number 1 Sign a Woman Doesn’t Like You One Bit

With all of the items on this list, one thing remains constant… you have to be aware of how a girl is reacting to the things you say, as well as everything else that’s happening around the two of you. So one of the clearest signs she’s not interested in you at all, is when her attention seems to wander away from you and your conversation.

Is she constantly glancing at people as they walk past? Does she seem completely uninterested or annoyed with your corny jokes? When a woman likes you, she’ll show you respect by giving you her full attention. But when she doesn’t, she’ll make it clear she wants to get away from the conversation (Look at her feet!)

Unfortunately, your personality doesn’t mesh well with everyone… and in those cases, it’s best to recognize the signs and quit while you’re ahead. But the most important thing you can do when this happens is take a look at yourself. Maybe (just maybe) you didn’t bring your A-Game, or you need to work on some things.

Whatever the case, ALWAYS learn from your failures and figure out where you went wrong. In doing so, you’ll learn your strengths, and be able to improve your dating game.

In Conclusion

Those are 7 signs a woman likes you and how to tell she’s interested. While you’re here, why don’t you check out these other videos?

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In this day and age, fun date night ideas may be hard to come by, especially when you first start dating. And that’s okay! Dinner, drinks and maybe a movie are all you really need to get to know one another.

But after awhile, things may become a little “routine” and a few good date ideas could really add some spark to your evening.

Finding those few fun and unique date night ideas can be difficult, especially if you don’t have a clue where to begin looking. No sweat. We have got you covered.

I recommend reading through all of these 45 dun date ideas to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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11 Best Fun Date Night Ideas

Fun date night ideas can be difficult to come up with, especially if you’ve been in a relationship for awhile. This doesn’t mean that you are “losing the spark” at all, sometimes people need help. And that’s why we are here.

Here are 11 of the best fun date night ideas:

1. Take a dance class

Is there a better way to feel more connected than learning to move in sync with one another? I think not.

2. Go to a Dance club

Now take your newly learned dance moves and boogie down for the whole world to see.

3. See a comedy show

Instead of watching comedy specials on Netflix, why not get out and experience the real thing?

4. Take a brewery tour

As craft beer grows in popularity so do tasting tours. This is a great way to get out, experience your city and taste some locally made beer.

5. Take a trendy workout class

If you both are looking to get back into shape, why not do it together?

6. Fulfill your bucket list

We are sure you both have interesting things on your bucket lists. Why not help each other fulfill them one by one.

7. Head to the Opera

Tired of the same old blockbuster movies in the theater? Throw on your bowtie and head to the Opera instead.

8. Head to the spa

The best way to relax and bond as a couple is with a hot stone massage.

9. Go to a Wine Pairing Dinner

Already done with the brewery tours around your city? Get your wine on, with a nice dinner to match.

10. Learn a new language

It’s never to late to learn something new, share in your experience together!

11. Visit a Botanical Garden

A great alternative “get away” when you are far from the beach or forest.

6 Fun First Date Night Ideas

Coming up with any date night idea can be nerve racking, but first date ideas take the cake. You want to impress her but not too much, you don’t want to be over the top right out of the gate. Give her a first date to remember, but also one that reflects who you are as well.

Here are 6 fun first date night ideas:

12. Play up your competitive side at the arcades

Show her how good you used to be (and still are) at Galaga.

13. Go check out the skyline view

If you have that secret spot in the city with the great view you should show her what it’s all about.

14. Barhopping

One of the easiest ways to get a tour of the city and find your new favorite watering hole at the same time.

15. Outdoor music festivals

Show her your new favorite band the way concerts were meant to be viewed; outdoors.

16. Battle it out at trivia night

Show off your brains (or just enjoy the beer) at your local trivia night.

17. Satisfy Your Sweet Tooth

Nothing brings people together like chocolate covered peanut butter cookies with extra chocolate chips. Am i right?

5 Fun Second Date Night Ideas

Phew! Now that we got date number one out of the way you are going to need some second date ideas. These can be more difficult than the first, if you don’t know where to look. Lucky we have got you covered.

Here are 5 fun second date night ideas:

18. Ghost tours

Buckle your sheetbelts, it’s going to be a rollerghoster she will never forget … I’ll see myself out.

19. Simply talk to each other all night.

Keep it simple and learn as much about each other as possible.

20. Netflix & Chill

Now that you’ve already had that exciting first date, slow things down with the classic Netflix & Chill.

21. Huff and puff your way up the TreeTop Walk

You might think it will be horrifying, but just wait until you see that view.

22. Gamble

With a little luck you both might be walking away with some cash for date number three.

6 Fun Double Date Night Ideas

Sometimes it’s just more fun to have a small group of people to share in your experience.

If you are looking to bring some friends along for a double date, you are going to want to check out these double date ideas.

It’s a great way to keep things lively and fun while also getting to know your S.O. on another level.

Here are 6 fun double date night ideas:

23. Have a Vinyl Listening Party

Tell everyone to dust off those old vinyls and head to your place for a classic jam sesh.

24. Play Tennis

It’s time to find out who the most athletic couple is… in a friendly sort of way.

25. Go Tubing

Try a lazy river ride or a more intense white water rafting trip.

26. Visit an Amusement Park

Everyone can finally channel their inner 8th grader at the nearest amusement park.

27. Go to laser quest.

Not fond of paintball? Take your friends down with lasers instead.

28. Rent a private room and sing your heart out.

Korean Karaoke is more prolific than you think.

6 Fun Yet Cheap Date Night Ideas

No need to spend a fortune to have a good time. Sometimes the most fun date night ideas are the least expensive.

That is why it is important to have some cheap date ideas saved for a rainy day. Just in case you spent a little too much money on infomercial items this month.

Try these 6 fun yet cheap date night ideas:

29. Go Bowling

Enjoy some $2 pitchers of PBR and throwback music while in good company, just make sure you’re not there during league night.

30. Wander the bookstore

You never know what literary treasures can be found in an old bookstore.

31. Forage for mushrooms

Maybe you’ll even find the “mystical” kind.

32. Go camping

Get out of the city for a bit and enjoy the fresh air and night sky.

33. Go thrifting

Channel your inner Macklemore and see who can come up with the best outfit.

34. Go to an Open Mic Night

And if you are brave enough, get up on stage yourself.

6 Fun At Home Date Night Ideas

Going out isn’t always what it’s cracked up to be. Quite often, the most fun date night ideas take place right in your own home!

At home date ideas are a must for anyone. Just in case your plans change, you are burnt out of being on the go or you want to stay in your pj’s all day.

Having a date night at home can be a magical (and comfortable) experience.

Here are 6 fun at home date night ideas:

35. Redo a room

Have you been looking to turn that third bedroom into something more useful or fun? Now is the perfect chance to calibrate the possibilities together.

36. Break out the board games

A perfect go-to on any rainy day, so why not any night of the week?

37. Spend the night by the fireplace

Curl up with some wine and enjoy each other’s company while gazing into the flames.

38. Read the same book

Like Oprah’s book club but more exclusive.

39. Build a fort

No one is too old for a pillow fort in their living room.

40. Play video games all night

Maybe you’ll finally be able to beat her score in Crash Bandicoot.

5 Fun, Anniversary Date Night Ideas

If you have been in a relationship for a long time you might start to get “bored” with the traditional anniversary date. There is nothing wrong with that.

However, instead of settling for dinner and drinks (again) look into these great anniversary date ideas.

Here are 5 fun, anniversary date night ideas:

41. Ride go-carts at a Raceway

It could be nice to forget about all your worries for the night and be a kid again. Nothing is more pure.

42. Watch TED lectures on your computer and discuss your thoughts

TED talks are the way of the future, pick a few topics you might both enjoy and learn something new.

43. Buy a cheap canvas and paint portraits of each other

This could lead to some interesting and fun perspectives from you both.

44. Set up a tent in the backyard and order takeout*

Your backyard can be the perfect getaway. Pop a tent instead of spending all your money on a trip out of town.

45. Give each other massages at home*

Super simple. Super sensual. A great anniversary date idea if there ever was one.

More Ways To Get The Girl

1. If you find yourself struggling to get a date, here is how to ask a girl out.
2. Need some more adventure in your life? Try these adventurous date ideas.
3. There is a method to the madness, here is a formula for a perfect date.

How To Pick The Right Fun Date Night Idea: 3 Steps

Here are 3 easy steps to picking the right fun date night idea:

Step #1: Figure out what is fun for her.

One of the most important thing is to figure out what she likes and dislikes. If she has fun in more intimate settings then stick to dinner at home. But if she likes dancing then put on your dancing shoes and take her out. Once you narrow in on what she’s into then you can go from there.

Step #2: Figure out your finances.

Don’t put yourself in a difficult situation by planning an extravagant date if you have no means of paying for it. You will look like a fool and she will be embarrassed for the both of you. You can have a good time and spend little to no money if you desire. Remember that.

Step #3: Know your location.

Dates can go a lot smoother if you know your surroundings. Do some research and find the best bars in town, festivals happening in your area or unique tourist spots she may have never seen.

In Conclusion

And there you have it, a thorough list of fun date night ideas for any occasion at your fingertips.

You don’t need to spend a ton of money for a great date night or even leave your house for that matter. So before you settle for dinner and a movie again, take a look at these date ideas to enliven your night out (or in) and keep things interesting.

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Gentlemen today we’re sharing with you 7 unattractive things guys don’t know they do.

Because while you may be great at talking to girls… The things you actually do might be telling an entirely different story. That’s because sometimes, we all do unattractive things and don’t know it, which, for single guys, makes women second guess them, or leaves them entirely uninterested.

If this is you, don’t panic. Because with a little help, you can identify exactly what unattractive habits you might unknowingly have.

Now let’s jump in.

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7 Unattractive Things Guys Don’t Know They Do

Here are 7 unattractive things guys don’t know they do:

7. Big Head

You can project as much alpha male body language tricks as you’d like… But just because you’re confident doesn’t mean you’re worth a woman’s time.

Why? Because with great confidence comes great responsibility… To not be a jerk about it.

No woman likes a man that thinks he’s better than everyone else (even if he is), and it’s embarrassing for her to be associated with someone with such a big head.

Don’t get us wrong… You should be proud of yourself and your accomplishments. But pride is best served up with a side of humility.

6. Loud Stacks

You’ve heard it before: “For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.” And when it comes to dating, this quote is actually spot on. That’s because bragging about money is one of those things guys do that girls hate.

Sure, some girls might like it… But it’s probably the only thing they like about you. Girls worth dating, on the other hand, are more interested in the value you can add to their lives… Rather than the value you can add to their retirement plan.

So avoid talking about how much money you make with a girl. She doesn’t care.

5. Swamp Ass

Of all the unattractive things guys do that they have no idea about, sweaty butt might be the most embarrassing to learn you have.

Sweaty butt or, swamp ass, as it’s known, is due to having a dense collection of sweat glands located around your butt.

There’s no easy way to put it, sweaty butt is a legitimate problem for a lot of guys. Through no fault of their own, not only do some guys literally sweat through their pants, they can also leave a sweat print wherever they sit. Probably not what you had in mind when you said you want to leave your mark on the world.

If you’re one of the many guys afflicted by swamp ass, there are a few things you can do:

First, stay hydrated. Counter intuitive, but swamp ass is most common during exertion, and exertion happens more quickly when you’re dehydrated.

Second, keep the area under control by using toilet paper to keep the area dry cause sometimes, you just got to mop it up.

And third, stop it before it starts by wearing the right kind of underwear.

4. Whatever You Want

You ever wonder why nice guys finish last?

We’ll be blunt: It’s because they’re insecure. And being insecure is one of the most unattractive things guys don’t know they do… But it’s all they know how to do.

Thankfully, there are ways to fix it. Start by making decisions instead of doing “whatever you want, babe.” Because as you know, confident guys who know what they want, almost always get the girl.

So find value in yourself, speak your mind, and improve yourself every single day. In doing so, you’ll avoid all the mistakes nice guys make, and slowly but surely, start appealing to women. We promise.

3. Whining-Inclined

This is Ryan. On Monday he tweets “Why are babies so noisy this early in the morning???”

On Tuesday, his facebook status reads: “Ugghh this weather sucks.”

He’s at a restaurant on Thursday and complains about almost everything- the waiter’s attitude. The decor. The food.

With a show of hands, how many of you would like to be good friends with Ryan? Nobody? That’s not a surprise, because women don’t want to be good friends with Ryan either. And if you’re anything like Ryan… It’s time to look at the brighter side of life, and keep in mind that the grass is greener where you water it. Because negativity is repulsive (especially to women).

So avoid it at all costs. Negate negativity by defining your core values and discovering what’s important to you.

2. Stage Fiving

Every single guy in the world has gotten really excited about a girl, and then immediately ruined it by turning into a Stage 5 Clinger.

We get it though… It’s exciting when a girl likes you… but if you want it to work you have to keep your mind occupied, and expectations in check, otherwise you’ll spook her off.

So play it cool and be Casper the Friendly Ghost instead of Jasper the Clingy Ghost. As long as you can do that, you’ll haunt her thoughts instead of the other way around.

1. Tipping the Scales

The last ugly thing that guys unknowingly do is something we’ve talked a lot about, without ever calling it what it is: Being out of balance.

Life is a balancing act of a million things coming at you at once, and if you’re full of self-loathing, or full of self-pride, how do you expect to make room for someone else in your life?

Balance is key in every aspect of your life, and not having that balance… Will make it harder for you to create meaningful relationships.

So avoid going too far in either direction by either beating yourself up all the time, or being too self-absorbed to let someone else in.

In Conclusion

Those are 7 Unattractive things guys don’t know they do.

And while you’re here, why not check out these other powerful videos? These are perfect follow-ups to today’s vid.

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What if the clothing items women love just so happen to be practical and comfortable?

Wouldn’t that just be the total package?

Well, we looked long and hard to find items that girls love to see you wearing that you’ll love for your own reasons.

Here are 7 clothing items that women love when men wear:

7. Slim Fit Cords with GapFlex Chinos

Every guy knows that some nice fitting jeans are a necessity. That’s why we didn’t bother put jeans on this list of clothing items women love. However, not every guy knows that even though you might be perfectly happy wearing jeans every day… your lady definitely isn’t.

Mix it up with some Slim Fit Cords by Gap. Cords will lend your wardrobe a casual academic vibe while Gap’s 2% spandex GapFlex blend keeps you flexible and comfortable. Slim fit is the ultimate shape for men’s pants, not hiding your shape like baggy pants or restricting your movement like skinny pants.

These cords give you a natural, effortless style your girl will love. So give those jeans a much deserved break and slip into Gap’s Slim Fit Cords.

6. Anson Belt

Guys… here’s the thing:

Women hate a belt that is stretched out/worn down/ratty looking.

And it makes sense, right? Would you find it attractive if she was wearing a belt that looked like it was on the verge of crumbling? Of course not.

…But that’s why we (and women) love Anson Belts.

Their belts are designed with over 30 adjustments – not holes – spaced just a quarter of an inch apart. That way you can get a perfect, comfortable fit every time… whether your waist is 50 inches or 15. (The minimum is actually 16” but 15” sounds better, and I’ve never met anyone with a waist that small anyways.)

…And add to that versatility Anson Belt and Buckle’s lifetime guarantee, and this could be the last belt you ever buy… unless you decide to mix and match with their interchangeable straps and buckles.

So… get rid of that tired old belt with the stretched out holes and suit up with a durable, stylish belt she’ll love from Anson Belt and Buckle.

A Note from the Editor, Kyle:

If you’re a regular reader of Mantelligence, you know how much I personally love Anson Belt and Buckle.

It’s truly the only belt I wear… and it’s the only one that we recommend on any of our sites (especially on Mantelligence). Their belt and buckle system is one of those things that you don’t realize you need… until you try it. But that once you try, you don’t understand how you ever wore anything else. Not only is it considerably more comfortable (as it fits you and your body perfectly)… but it looks way better (and lasts way longer).

…And even better, it’s the exact belt that women love. First, because it looks good (it’s a classic, yet bold ). And second, because their belts don’t wear down to turn into a crumbling, ratty mess (so, you don’t end up looking like a ratting mess).

I highly recommend Anson Belt and Buckle. Start with the Box Set. With it,  you can get 3 straps and 2 buckles (or vice versa)… which effectively gives you a total of 6 Belt combos… all for under $100.

Click here to check out Anson’s awesome Belt and Buckle system

5. Phelps Regular Fit Infinity Active Suit in Navy Blue Wool

Every man needs one nice suit. Even if the dress code at work is a corporate issued visor and collared shirt, you should have something to wear that marks special occasions and makes you feel different than you do every other day.

My first suit got me through weddings, funerals, and graduations… and I only wish it looked as nice the Phelps Infinity Active Suit. The tailored fit and soft wool with rip-stop weaving will keep you looking sharp no matter how you move.

In navy blue, this suit is versatile enough to wear to any formal occasion. You can use the coat to dress up a pair of chinos, or wear the slacks with a button down and tie for less formal situations.

So, when your lady invites you to her cousin’s wedding or little sister’s graduation don’t show up underdressed. Let the Infinity Active Suit from Phelps be your go-to attire. A nice suit is one of the clothing items women love most.

4. G.H. Bass & Co. Parker Saddle Oxford Dress Shoes

While we’re making sure you look sharp when it’s time to get dressed up, lets talk shoes. Believe it or not, your shoes are one of the first things women look at when sizing you up.

With Parker Saddle dress shoes from G.H. Bass & Co., she’s sure to like what she sees. Not only will she love the brogue detailing and modern style on these genuine leather saddle shoes…

She’ll love that they’re light enough to hit the dance floor and cushioned to keep you from aching after a long day on your feet.

She’ll love the way you look and move, you’ll love the way you feel. If the shoe fits…

3. Original Penguin Men’s Shawl Collar Donegal Cardigan

When temperatures start to drop and the wind takes on an edge, it’s time to start layering. With a Donegal Cardigan from Original Penguin, you can stay warm on cool days and look great doing it.

The shawl style collar on this cardigan gives it a sharp, stylish look and a little added warmth where the wind tends to sap it. With buttons that begin at the sternum, this sweater looks great buttoned and worn with a shirt and tie or left open with a t-shirt or flannel.

Give your girl something more stylish than a hoodie when she gets cold. This smart, stylish cardigan is one clothing item she’ll love.

2. ZARA Micro Dot Oxford Shirt

Shirts are the men’s clothing item that most frequently goes through style changes. Good fitting pants and nice shoes can last you for years, but shirts go in and out of style much more quickly and staying stylish requires a periodic purchase.

For a shirt at the height of men’s fashion and a clothing item women love, check out the Micro Dot Oxford Shirt from Zara.

Micro dots have been in style for a little while, and they show no sign of going anywhere. This clean cut oxford style shirt is slim fit with a buttoned collar and no breast pocket. It looks great with a bow tie, skinny tie, or left open and pairs perfectly with the Phelps Infinity Active suit above.

1. Fossil The Commuter Twist Luggage Leather Watch

A nice watch is an easy way to add class to any outfit. In a digital age when most people check the time on their phones, a wrist watch is a clothing item women love for its timeless look that says you can survive a few minutes without looking at a screen. Enter the The Commuter, made by Fossil. Its clean face is highlighted by the gears peaking out at the bottom, making it look sleek and utilitarian at the same time.

The second hand on The Commuter is powered by your own movements, meaning the battery that powers the minute and hour hands will last even longer.

No matter where your day takes you, The Commuter will help you get there on time and in style.

More Great Items For Men

Looking for more great ways to you look your best and impress your lady with your style? Check out some of these other articles for more tips and suggestions.

1. Take a look at some of the best grooming and shaving products for men.
2. Make sure you look your best before you leave the house with these style tricks that make you more attractive.
3. For even more stylish items your lady will love, check out these items women love when men wear.

In Conclusion

In the end, it isn’t hard to incorporate the clothing items women love into your wardrobe.

With a little effort and a few well chosen items, you can set yourself up to be stylish for years to come. Easy decision, right?

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Let’s face it, it’s hard to come up with unique date ideas that are more than a “dinner and a movie” date night. This is the typical date night all couples seem to resort to, which is great every once and awhile.

However, sometimes you both are looking for something different. A little more fun and interesting.

I recommend reading through all of these 52 unique date ideas to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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10 Best Unique Date Ideas

There are a lot of date ideas that may come up over the course of a relationship. Sometimes it’s hard to narrow down something really fun and unique. We have got you covered with our list of the best unique date ideas.

Here are the 10 best unique date ideas:

1. Rock Climbing Wall

Show her you have an adventurous side and take her rock climbing. You’ll be able to show off your

2. Go to an Amusement Park

Let out your inner child together and head to that good ‘ol amusement park your parents used to take you to.

3. Test the limit of your compatibility in an Escape Room.

Not only is this a great date idea, but you will be able to test your team work in fun and interesting situation too!

4. Stargaze at a planetarium.

Gaze into the known universe at a planetarium and, if she is up to it, get into a deeper conversation about our planet and maybe life on others.

5. Become amateur photographers.

Photography gives you a great opportunity to document all of your time together and re-live it later on in life.

6. Go back to where it all began.

This is perfect for a couple who has been dating for awhile. Go back to the first place you met or that first date spot. It’s a great way to reminisce.

7. Take a Helicopter Ride

One of the more “expensive” dates on the list, but if you have the means, it could make for the most memorable experience you share together.

8. Explore a New Coffee Shop

Spend some time having a really good conversation over a great cup of joe at your new favorite coffee shop.

9. Visit the Casino

If you are feeling really adventurous, try your luck at the casino. When one of you hit it big, take a trip to a place you’ve always wanted to go.

10. Take a Segway-Riding Tour

You’ll both be able to laugh at each other while wearing those silly helmets AND you will also be learning something new together.

6 Unique First Date Ideas

Nothing beats an unforgettable first date. Coming up with fun and interesting first date ideas can be a challenge, however. Skip the ice cream in the park and try something a little more unique.

Here are some great first date ideas.

Here are 6 unique first date ideas to think about before you take her out:

11. Breakfast date

Instead of your standard “dinner date,” try taking her out for everyone’s favorite meal: Breakfast. Get to know her over a hot cup of coffee, bacon and eggs; sunny-side up.

12. Find a weird museum to go to

World’s Biggest Pencil Museum? The Dog Collar Museum? There are a variety of weird museums to experience together. One thing is for sure, she will never forget this first date.

13. Hit the slopes

Love to ski/snowboard? Radical. It’s okay if she doesn’t know how, take this opportunity to teach her. It’ll be a date she never forgets.

14. See what you can find at the flea market

Thrift store and flea markets are all the craze nowadays. Try playing a game of who can find the most unique item at the market.

15. Take a boozy tour

So many big cities have bicycle beer tours or pub crawls. Find one in your local area and take her on a tour of the city while enjoying a few cold ones.

16. Take a peek at homes in your community during real estate open houses.

Feeling a bit more daring? Pretend to be a rich couple looking to buy a new home in a prominent area. That is sure to get your hearts racing.

6 Unique Second Date Ideas

The second date might even be more important than the first. You want to impress her again, by one-upping the previous date. She will be blown away by the time and effort you put into the date.

That being said, you should have some second date ideas that will outdo your first.

You have already impressed with a date she will never forgot, how could you ever top it? It can be stressful to figure out, so we are here to help.

Try these 6 unique second date ideas:

17. Attend a podcast taping.

If you both share an interest in podcasts why not see how one is made? It could make for an interesting experience that she has never done before.

18. Impress them with your karaoke skills

Can’t sing? That’s okay. She is sure to be impressed by your bravery to get on stage. It’ll be worth it; those few embarrassing moments of scream singing “Don’t Stop Believing.”

19. Celebrate the sports with food

Are you both avid fans of your hometown sports team? Perfect! Grab some great food and cheer them on together, whether on the couch, at the bar or at the game itself, it’s the perfect way to show each other your team spirit.

20. Head to a ~secret~ music gig

You hear about them all the time: a great band, playing a small intimate show somewhere in your town. Find out where and share an amazing first concert together, one she will never forget.

21. Instead of dinner out, cook something easy together

Save some cash and spend some quality time together by cooking at home. There are endless options for you to make and she will appreciate a more thought out and intimate evening over dinner out any day.

22. Check out a baseball game (the cheap seats will do)

Even if they are “nosebleeds,” it’ll be fun to get outside and sing “Sweet Caroline” during the 7th inning stretch.

8 Unique Double Date Ideas

To spice things up even further, try going on a double date. This will add more back and forth throughout the group and should keep things light and interesting.

If you are planning the date, you are going to want some killer double date ideas to impress everyone attending. Blow them away with some of these options.

Here are 8 unique double date ideas to share with other couples:

23. Play laser tag

One of the best ways to get moving and to keep everyone involved right off the bat.

24. Build a tree house.

If you have the time, take team building to the next level by assembling an old fashioned treehouse. Not only will you be able to reminisce on those fun clubs or hideouts you had as kids, you will also have a new hangout for everyone to enjoy together when you are finished.

25. Visit an auction

A perfect chance to play a game of who can win the most ridiculous item. Or simply try and win some cool stuff that you could all use together in the future.

26. Play as teams on board game night

One of the classics, but a great chance for everyone to get to know each other in a more intimate setting.

27. Sign up for a murder mystery dinner theater

Generate your inner Sherlock Holmes and work together to find out “who done it?”

28. Compete in a bar trivia night

Put your heads together and try to walk away winners of a local trivia night. You might just find that someone has a very in-depth knowledge of 80’s pop culture.

29. Hit up the renaissance fair for a medieval good time

Dress up, grab a turkey leg and watch some good old-fashioned jousting in honor of the Queen. It’s okay to get a little goofy as you relive the days of yore.

30. Get ~spooky~ at a haunted house

Forget how afraid you were of Freddy Kruger growing up, because this is the perfect opportunity to comfort her as you make your way through the dark and creepy house.

5 Unique Date Night Ideas

After you have been dating for awhile, things might seem to get a bit stale. And that’s okay, because that happens to everyone. You will just need a few great unique night ideas to put some fire back into your lives and breakaway from the daily routine.

Here are 5 unique date night ideas:

31. Think seasonal by carving pumpkins or going to look at lights

Get into the holiday spirit and carve some pumpkins or take a stroll to look at Christmas lights in your town. Use the season to your advantage and plan a date accordingly.

32. Chuckle at a comedy show

Laughing is good for the soul. So is laughing together.

33. Check out a live music venue

Search around for a great live music venue in your city and make a habit of checking out the live music.

34. Play at Target

Remember playing with all the toys you could find at the department store while your mom was shopping? Now is your chance to relive those moments of pure joy as an adult.

35. Embrace your DIY side.

Build something together. Whether it’s simple crafting or building furniture, spending the quality time working together is sure to grow your relationship.

5 Unique Cheap Date Ideas

Not every date has to break the bank. Sometimes the simple dates are the most unique date ideas and is what will win her over in the end. She will appreciate your ability to have a good time spending little to no money.

That is why it is important to have some cheap date ideas in your back pocket, just in case you need a break from the “night out.”

Here are 5 unique cheap date ideas to save you some cash:

36. Admire the masterpieces at an art gallery.

If there is an art gallery in your local town chances are it is free or relatively cheap. This is perfect for a day trip out of the house and you both get a little culture as well.

37. Play in the Snow

It might seem childish, but playing in the snow (snowball fight, sledding, etc.) is some of the best fun you can have during the winter season. Plus, you can find everything you need right in your backyard.

38. Yoga in the Park

You can both work on building lean and healthy bodies together while becoming more in tune with each other’s spirit as well.

39. Volunteer at a Soup Kitchen

Get together and give back to those less fortunate, you’ll both walk away feeling like you did some good in the world.

40. Try Ice Fishing

Ice fishing will give you the opportunity to keep each other warm in the cold weather while also catching dinner for the evening.

7 Unique At Home Date Ideas

If going out seems like a lot of work, that’s because it is. Sometimes the best date nights happen right at home.

You might not think that there are any at home date ideas that would be exciting enough for the both of you, but you would be surprised.

Here are 7 unique at home date ideas for when you decide to stay in:

41. Redo a Room

Have you been wanting to redo your spare room for awhile? Well now is the perfect opportunity to change the whole thing and make it a perfect shared space.

42. Interview each other

A perfect way to learn some things you you might not already know. Plus, this could open doors to wonderful conversations with a variety of topics.

43. Decorate a Christmas Tree together

Another perfect date for the holiday season, decorating the tree can be a fun intimate way to spend time together.

44. Have a Video Game night.

Pull out your old Nintendo 64 and test your skills in Mario Kart. Video games have become widely accepted by the all genders and ages.

45. Write out the story of how you met (and fell in love).

Not only a great way to make a date night more meaningful, but you will also have those stories to share with your families for years to come.

46. A Year In Review.

Take this opportunity to look back on your year together, highlighting your favorite moments.

47. Catch a Sunrise (or sunset).

What a romantic way to start (end) your day. Be sure you share some thoughts of why she is so special to you in that special moment.

5 Unique Anniversary Date Ideas

Celebrating your anniversary is a special time to look back and celebrate your time together.

That being said, an anniversary can be more than dinner and drinks at your usual spot. She will appreciate you surprising her with some new and unique anniversary date ideas that should would never expect.

Here are 5 unique anniversary date ideas:

48. GO “SKYDIVING”

Are you or you S.O. afraid of heights? Use this time to conquer your fears and show her you’d do anything for her… even jump out of a plane.

49. Stay At A Bed And Breakfast

Even if it’s one in your town, a cozy BnB can be used as the perfect anniversary getaway.

50. Revisit Your First Date Spot

Surprise her with a walk down memory lane and reminisce on how nervous you were during your first date.

51. Head to the archery range

Guns not your thing? Let out your inner Robin Hood at a nearby archery range. Make it a fun competition to see who can get a bullseye, or split two arrow like Robin Hood.

52. A romantic cabin at the top of the mountain

Get away from technology for a weekend and focus on the beauty of the nature around you.

More Great Date Ideas

1. Seeking something a little more adventurous? Try these adventurous date ideas.
2. If you are having trouble figuring out a date to really impress her, here’s a foolproof formula for a perfect date.
3. Need to make the first date really count? Here are the best first date tips.

How To Pick A Unique Date Idea: 3 Steps

Here are 3 awesome steps to choosing a unique date idea:

Step #1: Figure out what she is into.

It’s important to pick a date that you know (or could guess) that she will enjoy. If she does not like clowns it would be unwise to take her to a carnival. If she like animals the zoo or aquarium would be a great place to start.

Step #2: Be prepared.

It might be a no-brainer, but if you plan a picnic you will want to bring all of the essentials with you. If you are going to the park you might want to bring a jacket. You might look a bit foolish if you forgot the one thing to make the date work.

Step #3: Have fun.

The most important thing is, no matter what you are doing for your date, make sure you are having fun. If she sees that you are stressing out and not enjoying the time together it will make her feel uneasy. Let looses and have a good time.

Conclusion

Now that you have the most unique date ideas at your disposal, every date should feel new and refreshing!

Whether you are going on a first date, second date or celebrating your 20th anniversary, you’ll have a full arsenal of date ideas that will keep impressing her time in and time out.

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