Whenever I see a girl checking out a guy, the first thing I do is try to figure out which aspects of his look/style I can steal to make myself more attractive.

Now: sure, an attractive face is almost always his most notable feature, but more often than not, handsome guys do one thing that not-so-handsome guys fail at…

They know how to dress well.

…And of course:

Everyone has their own unique style. For example, some people like buying name brand high-end clothing while others prefer scrounging around vintage shops.

…But regardless of personal style, every man who knows how to dress knows the importance of these 7 imperative style tricks that are a guaranteed to make you more attractive to women

Trick #7: Recycle Your Old, Worn Out Clothes

No matter what style you’re going for… vagabond should never be one of them.

And when your clothes are stained with unknown liquids, and/or filled with holes from wear and tear… you (plain and simple) look terrible.

Sure, you may have had some awesome memories with your oldest pair of jeans… But it’s time to give it that pair a new life… By turning them into rags or making them your yardwork jeans!

The same goes for old T-Shirts covered in comic book superhero or truck logos (but keep solid, neutral colored t-shirts as long as they’re clean and follow Style Trick #6 below.)

Basically, what it boils down to is this…

Any piece of clothing that makes you look like you’re an adolescent teen should not go on your body anymore while you’re in public.

Because women (the ones worth pursing at least), don’t want a boy who looks like his mom took him to Kohl’s last Saturday…

Women want a man who knows how to create a style and brand for himself… One who takes pride in how he looks.

Keep reading to learn how to make that happen.

Trick #6: Make Every Shirt Fit/Accentuate Your Body

You’ve been there… You get dressed for a night out on the town, but there’s something bothering you… Your shirt keeps getting untucked… making it look baggy, and more like you’re wearing a trash bag instead of a pressed button down.

And no matter what you do (or how many times you tuck and re-tuck), it just keeps getting shifted around and completely destroys your awesome-looking outfit.

Not only is it uncomfortable when this happens… It just looks bad. Because here’s the thing: No matter your body type, a tight (not too tight), form-fitting shirt always looks better than a loose-fitting alternative.

But on the other hand, a properly fitted shirt accentuates your body, makes your muscles look more defined… And makes your posture look stronger and straighter. And these both affects how other people (especially women) view you, and in turn… how you view yourself.

So… guys… It’s time to stop wearing loose, baggy shirts!

Note From the Editor, Kyle:

When I first heard of KK and Jay Shirttail Garters, I was intrigued by the idea (and surprised I hadn’t seen them before). I, like most other guys, had had problems with keeping my shirt straight and tucked. So when the guys who run KK and Jay (Mohamed Kakay (KK) & Jason Devereaux (Jay)) sent me a couple pairs of their innovative product… I was thrilled to try them on!

What, exactly, are they? Think of them like completely adjustable suspenders for your shirt/socks (instead of your pants). Check them out:

They work like this: The garters clip onto each of them… pulling your socks up… And your shirt down. Plus, with the patent-pending leather stabilizer, your shirt and socks won’t get shifted around. They’ll stay right where you tightened them.

And the best part? Nobody will even know you’re wearing them, even in some of the skinniest pants. But hopefully at some point, a lucky lady will get to see them… And with plenty of patterns and colors to choose from, KK & Jay shirttail garters are a pleasant surprise for when things heat up.

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Trick #5: Create a Versatile Wardrobe

If you’re like I used to be… You only have a handful of outfits for each occasion that don’t complement each other when mixed together… And that’s a HUGE mistake.

I realized I needed to up my wardrobe game when I noticed all the photos I’d been getting tagged in on Facebook started looking like they were from the same day… And some photos were years apart!

I didn’t have a versatile wardrobe… And so I kept wearing the same outfits to every occasion (which girls probably started to notice if they creeped my profile.)
We’ve already told you how to build an essential, versatile wardrobe for under $1,000, but here are a few things to help get you started:

Trick #4: Learn The Belt + Shoe + Watch Trifecta

Every man needs to know the all-important style trifecta: Your belt strap + watch strap + shoes all need to be the same color (black or brown is really all you need here.) Why…?

Basically, because it just looks good. Think about it:

• At a distance, your shoes would stand out and look odd if they weren’t the same color as the rest of your outfit.
• Your belt moves across your entire body… making it one of the most noticeable piece of clothing you own! 
• Your wristwatch is always a noticeable accessory, especially since we use our hands for everything from eating to holding the door for our date, and expressing ourselves while talking.

In short: make sure that the color of each matches… and you’ll be good to go.

Now:

Trifecta aside, I can’t understate the importance of the watch. And if you’re a regular follower of Mantelligence (on the site and on our YouTube channels), this is nothing new to you (as it’s in almost every article/video about style we put together for you guys).

Wearing a wristwatch has a wide range of style-benefits, but here are a few of the biggest:

1. They’re the quickest and easiest way to look more put together and stylish (two things that women find highly attractive)
2. Watches are an investment and an heirloom (a well-made watch will work for the foreseeable future)
3. Wearing (and using) a Watch Gives You The James Bond Effect (more here)

Note from the Editor, Kyle:

Which wristwatches do I recommend?

Well guys… if you watch our MantelligenceDating YouTube channel, you know that we’re huge fans of Vincero Watches. Since the guys at Vincero sent me a few of their watches a couple of months back, they quickly became my go-to watches. I almost daily wear either their Matte Black Chronos S or their Blue/Brown Kairos:

Why do I love their watches so much? Two (main) reasons:

Reason #1: They’re the Right Amount of Bold

When I throw on my Vincero watch, I feel like I’ve added something nice/noticeable to my outfit and style… without it being too much. I’ll wear it with a V-neck and jeans… and not feel like I look like a slob/under dressed.

Reason #2: They’re Luxury, Without the Luxury Price Tag

Vincero’s watches look like a high-end, luxury timepiece… without the ridiculous price tag that those luxury pieces (think Rolex, Patek Phillipe, IWC) come with. In other words, you get something super similar… for a fraction the cost.

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Trick #3: Cut Down on Accessories

Look… No matter how much you want to throw money around like Johnny Depp, or be a Rockstar like Steven Tyler… You (unlike them) 100% cannot pull off that many accessories.

Walking around with countless scarves, bracelets, and necklaces on every appendage really only works if you make hundreds of millions of dollars a year… Because women can easily justify dating a guy who looks ridiculous… So long as he has tons of money.

Really, 3 is the MAXIMUM amount of accessories you should wear at any time. And for formal occasions, you have quite a bit of wiggle room. Here are some accessories to consider:

Trick #2: Ignore Trends

Remember Birkenstock sandals? How about parachute pants? Plaid shorts?

Depending on your age, you may have lived through some of those trends… But if you take a look around today, you won’t see them anywhere.

Fashion trends come and go just as much as internet trends and kid’s toys (by the way, I know this bottle flipping and fidget spinning beginner’s course if any of you guys are interested.)

My point is…

If you want to participate in a fashion trend, by all means… Go for it. But keep in mind that by next season… you’ll probably regret your decision.

And your wallet will hate you for it.

Trick #1: Own Your Look

Just because you wear a fancy suit DOES NOT mean you have style… That’s because style is so much more than the clothes on your back. To have style, you must have attitude and confidence. Because the truth is…

You could wear literally anything and get away with it… But ONLY if you have the personality and self-esteem to strut around in public and make it look natural. So really…

It doesn’t matter what you’re wearing… If you don’t feel comfortable in your clothes, you won’t look comfortable… And it’ll show.

So practice! Try your new look any time you don’t have to worry about looking nice… For instance, when meeting up with friends (they’ll give you brutally honest feedback.)

Because those practice (and roasting) sessions will make you more comfortable in your new look, and when the time comes where you have to actually look like a well-put-together man… You’ll have been there before and won’t feel like a fraud.

Remember: Women like guys who are interesting and confident… And by finding your own unique style (and making that style a part of who you are), you’ll feel like you’re not faking it anymore… And you’ll have a better chance of catching their attention.

In Conclusion

So there you have it… Follow these 7 truly effective style tips to instantly make you more attractive to women.

And check out our other articles on how to get the girl.

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Gentlemen, today we’re sharing 11 unmistakable signs you’re an alpha male.

As the latest in a series of alpha videos, you might be wondering: Am I An Alpha Male? Well today we’re covering all the signs you could be an alpha and it’s almost guaranteed, that you’ll have at least a couple alpha traits you bring to the world.

And because we don’t want you to make sure your new found alpha status doesn’t intimidate girls, or get you in trouble, we’re also showing you the #1 thing that will definitely leave people thinking you’re just faking it.

Alright, let’s jump in.

Here are 11 signs you’re an alpha male:

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11 Signs You’re an Alpha Male

11. You Don’t Believe Everything You’re Told

You’ve heard it before… “Chads are such jerks. Why do girls like jerks?” (sorry if you’re name’s Chad, Chad). Simply put: It’s not true. A guy who gets all the girls, is almost always… a really friendly one.

Now… that doesn’t mean you should be a Nice Guy™ and bend over backwards for a girl you like. That’s some beta business. Just be cool. That’s all a girl wants. A reasonable, understanding, and flexible partner to spend her time with. And alpha males are all of those things because they know that in order to get the girl… you actually have to be someone girls want to spend time with.

So as long as you’re fun, relaxed, and don’t get offended easily… you’re Alpha. Keep it up.

10. You Integrate Integrity

When’s the last time you stood up to someone because you felt they were being a horrible person? If you can’t remember, you still have room for improvement. Because… a guy who can stand up for what he believes in… is undeniably pure alpha to, well… everyone. Having the morality – and more noticeably- confidence to do the right thing when everyone else is too afraid… is a trait that not a lot of people have… but everyone wishes they did. After all, people with integrity are admirable…

So go ahead and be that person! Figure out what morals and values are important to you and make them a part of who you are. Because women want a man with integrity… and If you have it, you’ll be the most sought after guy in any room.

9. The Hobby Trifecta

There’s a saying on the internet that goes something like this… Have three hobbies… “One to keep you in shape, one to make you money, and one that allows you to be creative.” We’ll add to that with this: Try to Avoid illegal hobbies. Sticking with three new hobbies is completely doable no matter how many other responsibilities you have.

Because remember: Being Alpha is mostly about having confidence… and one way to gain that confidence is to learn new things. And if those things have positive impacts on your body, your wallet, and how interesting you are… why wouldn’t you do them?

8. Pat Your Own Back

It doesn’t matter if you refurbish old furniture, make nasty beats on Soundcloud, or make a mean beef stew… if you’re not proud of your accomplishments… nobody else will be either (especially women). Beta males try to downplay their accomplishments by being modest and saying things like, “Oh, it’s not very good.” This is a classic defense tactic to avoid criticism…

Alphas on the other hand, are excited to share their work, even if they know it’s not very good. They want to hear opinions because they want to be better. Steve Jobs, Bob Ross, and Mark Twain were all successful men who truly believed in the work they did… and they didn’t gain worldwide notoriety by keeping quiet about it.

7. Change it or Accept it

A HUGE difference between Alpha males and Beta males is how they handle the things they don’t like about themselves. Nobody is completely happy with who they are. And Alphas know that. They recognize that they’re not perfect. And nobody is. Unhappy with your weight? Look into a new diet and exercise routine. If you can’t stick with one, keep searching until you find one you like. Don’t like how short you are? Yeah, it’s little unfortunate, but not the end of the world… and getting angry when others treat you differently for it shows serious self-esteem issues that will only make things worse.

The point is… no matter what others think of you, your self-worth comes from how you view yourself. Because if you’re not happy with who you are (which is very normal)… Why is a girl going to be happy with you?

6. Knock it Out The Park

We’ve said it before, but Alpha males like to keep busy. They’re motivated. And in their busy lives, they still make sure to give everything they’ve got. This means that alphas give extra effort because they can, they meet deadlines, and they finish what they start.

Look around you. Is your room clean? Have you fed the dog yet? Did you fold your laundry from last week? Have you had a shower? If you answered “No” to any of those questions, pause this video right now and go do one of those things. That’s what alphas do. They know nothing good comes easy and you have to put in the work to get the results. Women want a guy who can take care of himself… she doesn’t want to be your mom.

5. Truth Speaking

What’s the best way to maintain healthy and happy relationships with those around you? Is it by lying… Or by being honest? Many of us learned how to lie by dealing with our parents. It’s a part of growing up. But not every guy grew out of lying… can you guess which type of guy?

Look… in 99% of cases, being dishonest and lying is the absolute worst thing you can do to avoid negative consequences. Lies always come back to bite you in the ass… and the more you tell, the harder they are to keep track of. And that’s the thing about alpha males. Not only do they own up to their truth, but they recognize that being honest is a heck of a lot easier than trying to remember which lie they told who.

4. Stand By You

Beta have the bad habit of never using their words to create a healthy dialogue or share thoughts in a constructive manner… instead they diminish them or use them to hurt others. But alphas? Alphas think about what they’re going to say before they say it; they recognize that their words are a reflection of who they are…

So when you speak… are you absolutely certain you say what you mean and mean what you say? How do you think a woman wants to be spoken to? She may not remember what you said… But she’ll remember how you make her feel.

3. Hat Tricks

Something just about every past, present and future alpha has in common, is the ability to keep the good times rolling. Alpha males have a select few jokes up their sleeves, they’re quick-witted, and can think up a fun activity when times are dull. They make things happen… and that includes making people happy… in fact, alphas want everyone to be happy, because it makes the world a better place.

Alpha males find compromises when necessary and can defuse other people’s anger with kindness and laughter. Think about it like this: Would you rather be an inflated beach ball or a popped one? Which would a girl rather bring to the beach?

2. You’re Squeaky Clean

When you see a guy who clearly looks like an alpha male, pay attention to how he’s dressed. Does he smell nice? Next time, get a good whiff. Go on… just a quick one. Being clean, smelling pleasant, and wearing clothes that look sharp are signs you’re an alpha male. Because if you can keep clean and take care of yourself, you can probably take care of a girl, right? If you don’t look presentable, you don’t look alpha. And you won’t feel alpha either. But you’ll know you look dirty… and so will everyone else.

So trim your beard, take a shower, find some clothes that fit your body, then go outside. You’ll notice the difference immediately. But we get it… sometimes it’s hard to even start cleaning yourself up. If it’s a daily struggle for you, look around you one more time… if your room isn’t clean, how are you ever going to clean yourself up? Of course, the ultimate way to be clean is with your hair. We did a whole video on it that you can see right here: 10 Hairstyles Women Find INSANELY Attractive 2018 – The Best Haircuts for Guys

1. Delayed Gratification

Our lives are filled with distractions these days and it’s ridiculously easy to get sucked back into our phones for another 10 minutes after every… be more like Alpha Man. Alpha man is keenly aware of his environment and all of the distractions around him… but his laser focus keeps him from losing sight of the task at hand. Distractions are no match for him, because improving himself is where he finds his power… and he knows that if he gets distracted, he’ll fall back into his old, unhealthy habits. Also, slackers killed his parents.

But seriously… alpha males don’t eat that extra slice of pizza because that means more miles on the treadmill later, which cuts into other plans. They have the willpower to say “No” and stick to a healthy regimen regardless of peer pressure or how strong the cravings become. Alpha males control their urges now… because the payoff will be much sweeter down the line.

The #1 Thing Beta Males Do that They Think Makes Them Alpha

You made it! For your reward, here is the #1 sign you’re a beta in alpha clothing. You have to say you’re an alpha. Alpha males know they’re alpha. But they don’t rub it in anyone’s face because, in the past… they were in the same shoes as everyone else. They struggled just as much as anyone to get to where they ended up in life. The main thing is that alphas are happy with who they are.

So the absolute CLEAREST sign that you’re a faux-alpha male with a soft ego is that you’re overly cocky about how great you are now. We said it above: it’s important to be proud of your accomplishments… but if your reasons for sharing them, are to one up everyone who shares their accomplishments with you… then you’re just being a jerk… instead, try to be awesome to everyone you meet. It’s what Alpha Man would do.

In Conclusion

Those were the 11 powerful signs you’re an alpha male. How many did you have?

Think about it and while you’re here, why not check out these other awesome videos?

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If you don’t know how to meet women, you don’t know how to get a girlfriend. It’s that simple.

Meeting women is lot more complex than simply going to the places women will be (but with practice, easily becomes second nature.)

In this article we’re going to show you how to meet girls, where they congregate, and we’ll even throw in some tips that will help ease your anxiety and make approaching women as easy as tying your shoes.

If you wear Velcro shoes however, you’re out of luck… (no really, what are you doing? Buy shoes with laces.)

I recommend reading through all of these 7 powerful steps how to meet women, to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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How to Meet Women: 7 Highly Effective Steps:

I get it… one of the hardest things to know for a lot of guys is how to meet women. And Approaching a girl you find attractive is probably the most anxiety-inducing thing you’ll do this week.

“Oh God, what if she doesn’t like me? That would be so embarrassing.”

Here’s a thought: Who cares?

Getting shot down by one girl won’t lead to the end of the world.

There are 3,710,295,643 women on planet earth. A good chunk of them are single and if those advertisements on those dodgy websites you visit are to be believed, some of them are near you right now! So how to meet women should be the least of your problems.

In all seriousness, we’ve thrown together these 7 extremely useful steps to help make approaching, meeting, and engaging girls infinitely easier for you… So get to work!

Women aren’t knocking down your door to get in. So you have to go to them.

Here are 7 powerful steps on how to meet women:

Step #1: Know where to meet women

The first thing to know how to meet women is where to find them. There are countless places to meet women because well… Women are everywhere!

But not all places are created equal when deciding where to meet women. After all…

…No girl wants to be hit on at her Grandfather’s funeral.

Here are our 3 best places to meet women:

Option #1: Somewhere you regularly visit

Is there a cute girl you see at the supermarket every week? Or maybe at the gym? How about the gas station you stop by on your way to work every morning?

You’ll run into plenty of gorgeous women at the locales you normally find yourself in.

All you have to do is talk to them.

Option #2: Volunteer Work

If you want to find a keeper, start volunteering.

People who dedicate their free time to helping others gain a number of personal benefits by doing so.

Plus, a girl with that much compassion for others probably has plenty to give you.

Option #3: Free Public Events

I try to be frugal because money doesn’t grow on trees. That’s why I like free events!

Sure, you’re sometimes expected to spend money, but it’s not required.

So by going to a free yoga class at the local park, a summer festival, or any other place that doesn’t cost anything besides the gas to get there is a cheap and easy way to meet women.

If you’re not sure where to look for such events, Facebook is always shoving events into your face, and meetup.com is fantastic for meeting people with the same interests as you.

Step #2: Dress for the Occasion

No matter where you choose to go to meet women, you HAVE to look like you belong there.

You also have to look good. What does that mean?

You shouldn’t wear a suit and tie to pick up some McDonald’s just as much as you shouldn’t wear pajamas at the grocery store.

Follow that blue link for some of the best style advice you’ll find anywhere online.

Here are 3 essential style tips:

Style Tip #1: Your Clothes should fit correctly

No loose, hanging, baggy, or droopy clothing whatsoever.

This is true for all body types.

You’ll look better in shirt that clings to your body rather than in a shirt that looks like its two sizes too big.

Style Tip #2: People Look at your Shoes

Yes, I know… All the adventures you’ve had with your favorite pair of shoes were the best of times…

And while the sentimental memories are strong, do they outweigh the fact that you look like you can’t afford new shoes?

Dirty shoes are a no go if you want to (successfully) meet women. They’ll see them and immediately lose interest.

Style Tip #3: If All Else Fails, Make a Statement

This is an odd tip, but you’re tired of sticking to fashion norms, do something drastic.

For instance, lately I’ve been wearing a Colorado Rockies windbreaker from 2002. It’s completely purple and for some guys, that means it’s not manly.

Who cares?

Countless conversations have come my way because of that jacket and it always gets a complement or two.

Just remember: If you attempt to make a statement with your dress, you have to own it. You MUST be confident about the decision, otherwise nobody will believe you’re as charismatic as you look walking around in something so unusual.

Step #3: Control that Approach Anxiety

When it comes to meeting women, you are your own worst enemy. You’ve been there…

You see a cute girl and you really want to talk to her but you can’t seem to get over your approach anxiety.

If you don’t approach her, you’ll never know if you had a chance. But If you do… She might like you!

So the next time you want to approach a girl, keep some of these tips in mind (and follow the link for more in-depth information!)

Here are 3 great approach tips:

Approach Tip #1: Counter Your Negative Thoughts

“She’s out of my league.”

No she’s not. There are no leagues in dating. A girl with a 10 in looks could potentially be a 0 in personality (and vice versa.)

She could also be really cool and you might hit it off.

Rid your mind of negative outcomes and focus on the potential positive ones instead.

Approach Tip #2: Nobody’s Perfect

You ever see a girl who looks so good that you wonder if she was made in a factory?

The technology for that doesn’t exist yet, which means she’s not the perfect female specimen.

She has flaws, worries, doubts, goals, and daily struggles just like you.

If you keep that in mind before you approach a girl, she’ll seem less intimidating.

Approach Tip #3: Compose Yourself

Take a deep breath and stand up straight.

Pick something you like about her (her gorgeous hair, cool clothes, beautiful smile). Walk over to her and tell her you like it!

“Oh man, that shirt is great! Where’d you get it?”

That’s one of a million ways to approach a woman and start a conversation. It opens up a dialogue in a completely casual manner, which is always a safe bet.

Step #4: Know What Women Want in a Man

Before you try to meet women you need to be the type of man that women want.

What does that mean? The specifics for what women want in a man are different from woman to woman.

Here are a few of the more common traits they look for:

Trait #1: Independence

Women like a guy who is comfortable in his own skin and doesn’t constantly seek validation.

They also like a guy who can handle his responsibilities. If you struggle with any of that, we can help.

Remember: The longer you wait to better yourself, the harder it is to break bad habits. Start now!

Trait #2: Positivity

If you take every transgression sent your way personally, you’re a Nice Guy. Don’t be a Nice Guy.

The world isn’t out to get you. It’s your playground.

So look on the bright side. Life is hard for everyone and we could all use a laugh. Be the guy who makes people forget their problems.

Trait #3: Communication Skills

Those social skills you learned growing up aren’t doing you any favors when it comes to meeting women.

Everyone can talk, but communication takes empathy, understanding, and a good ear.

The book How to Win Friends and Influence People really helped me with this. It’s worth a read.

Step #5: Know Things to Talk About with a Girl

How are you going to meet women if you don’t have anything to talk about?

Always keep some things to talk about with a girl in that noggin of yours. Here are a couple to get you started:

Thing #1: The Place You’re At

Commenting on the uniqueness of the bar you’re in, or how the city really did a great job with the park you’re at is a nonthreatening way to start a conversation with a woman.

Thing #2: Her

Ask. Her. Questions.

Ask her lots of questions about herself and share your own relevant stories and details about yourself.

Step #6: Practice Makes Perfect

I’ll be frank with you… Meeting women often leads to rejection (unless you’re just looking to make new friends.)

And if you’re not acquainted with that feeling, it hits you hard when it happens to you.

That’s why you should practice!

Talk to women you don’t find particularly attractive. Talk to women you do find attractive.

The more women you talk to, the more you begin to realize that they’re just like us and rejection only stings for a short time.

Plus talking to women only gets easier and easier the more you do it. So when you see the woman that really takes your breath away…

You’ll be ready.

Step #7: Know how to handle rejection

The traits from Step #4 above really come in handy here.

Why? Let’s say you get rejected.

You could call her mean names and tell her she never deserved you anyway. Or…

… You could smile, tell her you understand, and ask her if she has any single friends you might hit it off with.

The first option will make her hate you. The second might make her think twice and realize, “Oh, he’s being really cool about this… Maybe he and Erin would get along…”

Brushing it off and turning it into something positive is what separates the boys from the men.

And even if the woman you’re trying to get to know doesn’t find it attractive, controlling your emotions and handling rejection with grace are two traits you should be proud to display.

How To Start A Conversation With A Woman You Just Met:

So you’ve met a woman and she looks like she wants you to say something to her…

Starting a conversation with a girl is easier than you think!

We’ve written an entire article dedicated to conversation starters that will help get you started…

But if you’re not even sure how to start a conversation with a girl, here are some tips:

Tip #1: Always Start by Introducing Yourself

You can use a slick pick-up line (or a genuine complement) right off the bat, but you should immediately tell her your name afterward.

“I noticed your smile across the room and had to say hello. So, hello… I’m Kyle”

Smile and offer a handshake.

Tip# 2: Control Your Alcohol Intake

Sure, it gives you liquid courage, but drinking too much will cause you to stumble over your words and look like a drunken moron.

Tip #3: “Read” Her

Is she smiling, looking at you, laughing at your silly pickup line, and/or paying attention to what you’re saying?

Those are good signs!

On the other hand, if she looks tense, says only a few words, doesn’t ask you questions, and/or seems generally uncomfortable...

… It’s time to bail. Onto the next one!

More Ways On How To Meet Women:

You’re not finished yet. We have plenty more articles that will make knowing how to meet women come completely naturally.

1. You’ve mastered your approach anxiety. Now learn how to approach a girl.
2. If you already know you like her, you’ll need to learn how to talk to a girl you like.
3. Knowing how to flirt with a girl is absolutely necessary when meeting women.

In Conclusion

So there you have it, how to meet women in 7 easy but powerful steps.

If you follow these steps and keep them in mind when trying to meet women, you should have no problem making it happen!

Remember to practice and don’t take it all too seriously.

Because half the fun in knowing how to meet women is in actually doing it.

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Most guys see asking a girl out as a task. Some have no idea how to ask a girl out. Here are 31 cute ways to ask a girl out on a date with you.

If you approach it with minimal effort you’ll look as though you’re not interested enough and at the same time you don’t want to go over the top and seem desperate.

Couple that with feelings of fear of rejection, anxiety and shyness and you can see why guys might be deterred from asking a girl out.

Girls like effort, so putting some thought into the way you ask a girl out is important. Whether you’re asking her out on a first date or if you’ve been seeing each other for a bit and just want to make it official it’s always a good idea to make an effort when you ask her out.

She’ll acknowledge your effort, and the more creative and romantic the effort, the better!

I recommend reading through all of these 31 cute ways to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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22 Best Cute Ways To Ask A Girl Out

Girls respond well to creativity and effort. Creativity plus effort equals cuteness. Therefore, girls respond well to cuteness.

Here are 22 of the best cute ways to ask a girl out:

1. Call her on the phone.

In an era of social media and texting, a phone call goes a long way.

Stand out from the “texters” and give her a call.

2. Say it with music.

Whether you want to send her a specific song or create a playlist, music is a thrilling way of stating your intentions.

She’ll be inclined to say yes. Besides, who says no to good music?

 3. Get her a “talking” teddy bear.

Girls generally like teddy bears. More so talking ones.

Give her a talking bear and you’re on a one way street to winning her heart.

4. Bake her a sweet treat.

This can work well especially if she’s a lover of food.

Freshly baked treats by her admirer screams “effort” into her subconscious and she’ll most likely take you up on that offer.

5. Get her flowers.

As old school as this sounds, girls appreciate flowers. It’s the epitome of romance and it clearly lets her know that you want to pursue her romantically. Flowers are an instant win.

Note: before getting her flowers, ensure she’s not allergic to them.

6. Sing it!

Many guys would neglect this because they don’t think they have the talent to sing.

Having talent in this area would definitely be a bonus but it’s not a requirement. All the lady wants to see is your effort and uniqueness.

Asking her out via singing is a good way to show effort especially if you aren’t gifted in this area.

It shows you’re willing to show extreme effort even as it brings your flaws to the forefront.

7. Make a crossword puzzle.

This can work like a charm if you already play games together.

Tell her you’ve found a challenging puzzle and need her help and let her uncover your offer.

Taking time to prepare a crossword puzzle will be seen as romantic by any woman.

8. Light some candles.

Nothing says “I want to be romantic” more than lit candles.

Light some candles and spell out your intentions. She’ll be ecstatic to witness such creativity by someone interested in asking her out.

9. Ask her on her birthday.

This is a solid option. It’s her special day and she’ll definitely feel special if she receives a proposal from her admirer.

10. Write her a sonnet.

This is vintage romance.

Nothing spells “I want to pursue you romantically” more than a personal well thought out sonnet to a lady.

Write her a sonnet and you’re on the right track.

11. Put it in a fortune cookie.

This spells planning and execution.

When a lady sees that you took the time out to put an invitation within a fortune cookie and have it brought over she’ll be over the moon.

12. Play her a song.

If you’re a musician or musically inclined this should be a no-brainer. Play her favourite song.

If you aren’t, you can learn a specific song just for this moment and she’ll appreciate the effort and is likely to say yes to your offer.

13. Create the perfect atmosphere.

Arrange to have her favourite song played, her favourite food served and get her in the right mood.

Ask her then. She’ll be inclined to say yes because it’ll feel as though the timing is perfect because of the atmosphere.

14. Write her a handwritten letter.

A handwritten letter to a girl asking her to go out with you is virtually irresistible.

It takes guts to pour your intentions out on paper and she’ll appreciate that.

15. Invite her to do something you know she loves.

If she’s into art, invite her to the art gallery she’s always wanted to go.

Little gestures like this go a long way in influencing a girl’s decision on whether she goes out with you or not.

16. Say it with chocolate.

Girls generally like chocolate.

Send her favourite chocolate as a gift and attach a note asking her out.

Or write out your intentions using chocolate and she’ll love that too.

17. Lead her to you with a trail.

Prepare hints and clues that you know she’ll be able to decipher. When she finally gets to you, ask her out.

18. Snapchat it.

This is like standing in front of all your friends and saying “I want to pursue this girl and I am not ashamed”.
She’ll appreciate your openness and effort and most likely respond in a positive way.

19. Write her a poem.

A sincere and well thought out poem is a great first step to let her know that you’re ready to take things to another level.

20. Leave her a gift.

Send her a well thought out gift and she’ll appreciate it. This shows intention.

You can send her a gift, wait for her to react so you can then ask her out or you can send her a gift with a note asking her out and wait for the response.

Either way, a thoughtful gift skyrockets your chances of getting a positive response.

21. Use good old fashioned cheesy chat up lines.

“I seem to have lost my number. Can I have yours?”

Cheesy pick up lines, such as the one above, can relieve tension and open up the conversation for you to ask out your crush.

It’s okay to be cheesy every now and then. Girls love it.

22. Let her pet do the work!

If you’re close enough to have access to her pet, this is a good option.

Attach a note or gift to her pet and he’ll take it to her.

Females typically love their pets and using something they love makes them more likely to respond to your offer in a positive way.

9 Cute Ways To Ask Girl Out Over Text

In an era where texting and social media interaction is a norm, it would be relatively normal for relationships to form via these mediums.

Many interactions occur over text.

Therefore, it would be normal for guys to want to know how to ask a girl out over text.

Here are 9 cute ways to ask a girl out over text:

23. The Casual Approach.

No plans, no cheesy pick up lines. Nothing of the sort.

Just have a regular conversation and ask her out whenever you’re ready.

24. The Planned Approach.

Plan, prepare and execute. Decide how you’re going to go about asking her.

You determine what the lead up conversation would be, the questions you will ask prior etc.

25. The Exciting Approach.

Initiate the conversation with something you know she’ll be excited about to get her in an upbeat mood. Then make your offer.

26. Ask uncommon questions.

This is a great way to let her know that spending time with you can be interesting and she would be anticipate spending time with you.

27. Use humor.

Females generally like a guy who can make them laugh. If you can make her laugh over text there’s a high possibility that if you ask to spend some time with her she would gladly accept.

28. Use emoticons.

Texting allows you to utilize emoticons to show how you feel on the inside. Use them to your advantage.

29. Send pictures/quotes.

Pictures and quotes work well over texts. Send her a picture of the place you want to take her or send her a picture with a quote asking her out.

30. Tell her you want to surprise her.

This is a great way to stir. up anticipation. She’ll be eager to have her surprise.

31. Set up the date on your birthday.

This is simple but still effective method. People tend to ask what you want for your birthday. Thats can be an opening to state your intention to her.

More Steps On How To Ask A Girl Out

If you want to know more cute ways to ask a girl out and how to ask a girl out, check out these other helpful articles:

1. Stick around and we’ll show you how to approach a girl .
2. We’ll also teach you how to talk to girls at parties 
3. And we’ll even show you how to get a girls number 

How To Pick Which Cute Ways To Ask a Girl Out: 3 Easy Steps

With many options on cute ways to ask a girl out you’ll have to pick which would work for you. Here’s how:

1. Communicate with her.

This will allow you to gather enough information and feedback to have a good idea of what she likes and dislikes.

2. Consider the strength of the relationship.

This can be determined by the length of time you’ve known each other or how often you communicate and how that goes. This is key to choosing what way works best.

3. Consider both your personalities.

She might not be fond of extravagant surprises or public affection and you might be shy.

In Conclusion

Don’t let the possibility of asking a girl out be scary or daunting, just use our cute ways to ask a girl out, as your guide.

Remember, it’s all about the effort.

Girls want to see effort. When planning to ask a girl out on a date it’s okay to be creative and put some effort into it.

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Gentlemen today we’re giving you 10 kinds of body language that attracts women that you can use to get just about any girl to go after you…

Most guys find out that even when they’re pretty good at talking to girls, there’s a whole lot more to it than that. And most of the time a major part of what’s missing… is a fundamental lack of body language awareness. But it’s not just that some guys don’t have the kind of body language that attracts women, it’s that the body language they do have… makes girls bored, uninterested, or nervous.

But don’t worry! Because today we’re showing how you too, can have the charismatic, confident, unignorable body language that girls are naturally attracted to. While also letting you in one bad body language habit that turns women away.

Let’s get into it.

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10 Ways to Make Women Chase You Down

Here are 10 body language tricks that attracts women:

10. Fluid Eye Contact

Even when it seems like you’ve got everything going for you, poor or overly-managed eye contact can sabotage your efforts and ruin your chance at talking to a girl. In other words, if you want your eye contact to tell a girl that you’re cool and she can talk to you, you’ve got to be fluid AKA, your eye contact can’t look rehearsed. And luckily, we’ve got trick for that: If your goal is to put a girl at ease and get her to talk to you, look her dead in the pupils, smile, and look away. You may be thinking, Mantelligence, in the pupils? That’s a little strong. C’mon.

But really, it achieves the perfect balance by doing 2 things: First, by targeting the pupil and smiling, as opposed to just the “eyes” guarantees you make deliberate and friendly eye contact. And second, because you look away, you don’t seem too intense. Give it a shot.

9. De-Shell

Do you work at a desk? Sit a lot? Look at your phone often? Then listen up. Because your shoulders… are telling girls loud and clear that you not only have poor posture, but that you might even be a little intimidated by people around you. The worst part is that most guys are not that closed off, they just don’t know that their day to day life is literally making them look like they’re hiding in a shell, and that it’s turning off women.

So here’s the 1 step process to coming out of your shell and getting women to come after you… if you’re going to be using the types of body language that attracts women you better start paying attention to them. Just pull your shoulders back and keep them there. That’s it! It’ll be uncomfortable at first, but simply holding this posture will strengthen the muscles of your back and permanently create that cornerstone confidence girls look for.

8. Stand Bold

A lot can be deduced from simply observing the way someone stands. To attract women, you’ve got to have a stance that signals confidence and strength. So here’s how you should stand: Stand with your feet shoulder width apart. This will help you to make yourself seem “big”. Lock your shoulders back like we just mentioned. Pretend almost like your shirt is still on its hanger in the closet. Keep your chin up and as much as possible, leave your arms at your side. Put it all together and you’ve got a killer stance that’ll not only make you stand out. But’ll get girls coming your way without you doing anything else.

7. Play Your Hand

No matter what you’re doing, always seek to be viewed as open or approachable. And one easy way to do that: Is to have your palms exposed, even just a little bit. Just like some of the other body language tricks we’re sharing with you today, showing a girl your palms is perfect for putting her at ease and getting her attention without saying anything. Now, that doesn’t mean you have to just stand with your palms out, cause… that would be a little weird, but if you can work in some open, palms-up hand gestures as you’re talking or interacting, you’ll have girls heading naturally gravitating towards you.

6. Show Your Bias

Not only do ladies know that guys check them out, but in the right time and the right place, they are looking for it and hoping guys do. If this sounds like a nice guy problem, it is. Nice guys will go places where girls expect guys to be a little more open, a little more forward, and instead of showing their intentions, they end up looking out of place by not making a move. But here’s what to do instead: First of all, remember that in certain social situations, girls want a guy to be flirtatious. After that, let the girl you’re interested in see you checking her out, and smile when she does.

5. Fight the Fidget

A guy that is constantly moving about and fidgeting will be seen as nervous and out of control. This isn’t the vibe you want to give off as a first impression. Because it’s so widespread, a guy who makes controlled, collected movements will automatically lure women his way.

Here’s how you can start practicing: Think about James Bond. Seriously. You think you see that guy fidget? Slowing down your movements convey directness because they are more calculated and have purpose. You’ll appear more certain and it’ll show everyone around that you are more comfortable in your environment and it helps to create a bit of intrigue and mystery. However, just remember not to slow down too much. You don’t want to be seen as the weird guy that moves in slow motion. How weird is that?!

4. Fix Yourself

Here’s another across-the-room trick you can do to get girls coming your way. Ladies notice everything you do no matter how small or insignificant you might think it is. She will notice if you’re fixing your clothes when you’re around her and doing this will easily signify that you are interested in her simply because you are grooming yourself to ensure you stand out and appear attractive. Not only does it show her that you care about your appearance, but it also keeps her from guessing if you’re interested or not. And that’s the whole point!

So don’t be afraid to let her see you fixing your hair or straightening your shirt for her, if it comes across naturally, she can only be flattered that you’re trying to look your best for her.

3. Space Out

Even though we’re evolved, we’re still guided by some pretty primitive social dynamics. And one of the most ancestral behaviors, is taking up space. Now we know what you’re thinking. No, not manspreading. All we’re talking about, is taking up a little slice, the small bit of territory, that you need to be comfortable. There are two halves to this that women notice. First, they’ll notice that you did not try to dominate and take more than you need. As fun as that might be, 9/10 women are not gonna like it. The flipside, though, is that they also want to see that you kept enough space to be comfortable. And that part of it, is extremely important.

So put your keys and phone on the table, lean back in your seat, and don’t shrink into a space that’s too small for you. It’s not rude and as simple as it seems, this sends a clear signal of cooperation and confidence that women can’t look away from.

2. The Welcome Walk

So it’s a wonderful day, and you’re taking a cool stroll through the park. You notice this guy walking. But.. his head is down and hands are in his pocket. What would be your initial impression of this guy? Of course! He’s stressed or overwhelmed and more importantly… he’s unapproachable. If you want to seem approachable, stick your chest out and bring your shoulders back. This posture shows woman what they’re most attracted to- confidence! It’s that easy. If you observe just about any celebrity, rock-star or champion you’ll notice that they always walk this way, and there’s no reason why it won’t work for you too.

1. Mirror Her Moves

Let’s say a woman makes her move towards you. You either hold your ground and make her nervous, or you can seize the moment and use the opportunity to send some non-verbal flirtation her way. Sound like something you’d want to do? Mirroring is a completely silent, body language-based method of getting a girl to keep looking at you.

It works like this: Say you catch a girl from across the room and she fixes her hair, the chances are… that you’ll automatically, without thinking about it, fix something on yourself. Now, while most of mirroring will actually happen on its own. You can use it to build a sense of familiarity with a girl, that will get her to come talk to you.

#1 Thing to Avoid if You Want Her to Chase You

If you want to be able to get girls to come up to you, without even talking to them, there’s one body language no-no that needs to be avoided: Crossing your arms. You already knew not to do this, but if you’re like most guys, you still end up doing it anyway. Crossed arms are such a problem because more than anything else, they send a clear signal of do not approach. When girls see them, it’s almost like they have no choice, but to just give up talking to you, even if they’re interested.

In Conclusion

Those are 10 types of body language that attracts women.

And while you’re here, why not check out these other powerful videos? These are perfect follow-ups to today’s vid.

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You see her across the room, but you can’t get up the gumption to say anything because you just don’t know how to talk to a girl you like.

Don’t feel ashamed. That’s a problem plenty of guys struggle with. Not knowing how to talk to girls is one of the main reasons it can be so hard to figure out how to get a girlfriend.

While it may not feel like it when you see another opportunity pass you by, it’s actually fairly easy to get past this problem.

If you just follow the right steps, you’ll be able to solve how to talk to a girl you like, and what’s more, you’ll figure out how to make her want to talk to you too.

I recommend reading through all of these 7 steps to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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Why is Knowing Exactly How To Talk To A Girl You Like So Important?

No matter how you look at it, you won’t be able to get very far with your romantic goals if you can’t figure out how to talk to the girl that you like.

On some level, talking is still the most important skill you can have when it comes to moving to that next step with a girl. You can have all kinds of style or skill or a great car, but if you can’t talk, you’ll never get beyond smiles and potential.

Once you learn to talk to girls you like, though, and really talk to them, a whole world of opportunities can open up.

Talking is really how you get from A to B with a girl, from seeing her to getting her number, or from saying hi to getting a date.

Luckily for you, you can move on to B finally by just following the steps below.

How To Talk To A Girl You Like: 7 Steps:

When it comes to solving the problem of figuring out how to talk to the girl you like, it really is just a process of steps.

If you work your way through these 7 steps, one at a time, you’ll do more than just figure out how to talk to the girl you like, you’ll move your chances of something serious significantly farther along, and you’ll have had a nice conversation as well.

Here are 7 steps on how to talk to a girl you like:

Step 1: Approach The Girl You Like

This step is perhaps a bit obvious. After all, you can’t talk if you don’t approach the girl. But for many, figuring out how to approach a girl is as difficult as figuring out how to talk to her.

The key to this is timing and confidence (or faked confidence). Wait for a moment when she looks like she isn’t engaged in anything too serious, and then try to approach as calmly and self-assuredly as possible.

To look more confident, don’t avoid eye contact and make straight for her.

Step 2: Start A Conversation With A Girl You Like

Now that you’re standing next to her, you’ve got to actually figure out what to say. Don’t get nervous. Knowing how to start a conversation with a girl is really just a matter of figuring out the right thing to say in the moment.

To help, use some conversation starters. These can be as basic as discussing a shared class or the event you’re at. Or, try to ask her a unique question.

Mantelligence has a long list of conversation starter options for you to use.

Step 3: Know How to Respond to A Girl You Like

While this is more of an instinctive step, it’s an important one to mention. Use all your conversation skills to work with the conversation she gives you.

Listen to what she’s saying, ask questions, and try to respond thoughtfully. The better you respond to her conversation, the more she’ll feel pulled into the conversation.

Step 4: Know What To Say Next To A Girl You Like

So, you’ve used your conversation starter, you’ve responded to her polite responses…now what?

Now, you need to know what to say to a girl after you’ve gotten past the introductions. You need things to talk about with a girl that go beyond a quick question.

Basically, you need something to say that communicates your interest. To do that, just choose one of the options below.

Option 1: Compliment Her

You probably already know that compliments for girls can get you pretty far, but you may not yet know how to compliment a girl.

The best way to go about this is to keep it simple and start casual and genuine. If you share a class, compliment her on an answer she gave. If she’s wearing a nice outfit, tell her.

Don’t try to go too hot and heavy or too intimate in this conversation. Save that for after you get closer.

Option 2: Say Sweet Things To a Girl You Like

Similar to Option 1 but still distinct, one of the best things to say to a girl you like is just something sweet. There are plenty of sweet things to say to a girl that come off well no matter how well you know her (or don’t).

Try telling her that you’re glad she’s feeling better if she was recently ill, or ask if she needs any help with her homework if you’ve heard she’s struggling with a class.

Or, just tell her you’ve been really wanting to talk to her for a while and it’s nice to finally chat.

Step 5: Keep The Conversation Going With A Girl You Like

After you’ve given a compliment or said something sweet (or if you aren’t comfortable being so direct at this point), then it’s time to figure out how to keep a conversation going with a girl.

The best method for this is usually to redirect the conversation to the general and build back to those more focused comments.

Talk about the event you’re at or mutual friends. Gossip a bit if she seems inclined. Use your surroundings and shared experiences to build the conversation around.

Keep it general but keep it interesting, and most importantly, just keep it going for a while.

Step 6: Ask Questions To Ask a Girl You Like

At this point, you’ve used a good conversation starter, given a compliment, and had a bit of chit-chat. Now you want to dig a little deeper into her. It’s time to ask questions.

While questions can be employed for any step, you should make a point of specifically having questions to ask a girl at this point.

With questions to ask a girl you like, make sure they stay on point and within bounds. Basically, ask her anything, but don’t get too intimate in this conversation.

Ask her opinion about things she shows interest in, from TV shows to sports teams. Ask her for advice on how to solve a problem so she can show off a bit. Ask her about her preferences for nights out.

Step 7: Don’t Walk Away Without Being Sure You’ll Talk Again Soon

Once you’ve asked your questions, congratulations, you’ve succeeded at solving how to talk to the girl you like. All that’s left is to make sure you leave the conversation with a way to continue it later.

That can be as simple as telling her you’d like to chat again soon, or as bold as getting her number or even asking her out.

Whatever you choose, make sure it’s clear to her that you don’t want this to be a one-off.

How To Talk To A Girl You Like Over Text: 3 Steps

If you’ve already gotten her number, you’re doing pretty well for yourself, but you may be sweating how to text a girl you like.

As with just learning how to talk to the girl you like or how to text a girl in the first place, it’s all a matter of following the steps.

Here are 3 powerful steps on how to talk to a girl you like over text:

Step 1: Start a Text Conversation With a Girl You Like

You used them above, so use them here. With some text conversation starters, you never have to worry about how to start a text conversation with a girl.

Just drop an interesting comment or a great question, and you’ll have a way of avoiding needing a good excuse to write her in the first place.

With this, you can go simple by asking about her favorite movies, or more amusing by asking if she’d rather bubble gum taste like fish or fish like bubble gum. Or, just send her a meme you think she’ll laugh at.

Just give her something to think over or to laugh at, and she’ll be happy to respond.

Step 2: Know What To Text A Girl You Like

Once you have her with a conversation starter, let the conversation naturally. If there’s a slow-down, try these options when you aren’t sure what to text a girl next.

Option 1: Ask Questions To Ask a Girl Over Text

If you aren’t sure where to go next, try some questions to ask a girl over text. Questions, once again, are always the best option.

You can ask her about your mutual friends or classes. Or, ask her something a little deeper, like where she would be in ten years if money was no object. Or, keep it a little lighter by asking about her spirit animal.

Option 2: Send a Good Morning Text For Her

If it’s early enough in the morning, use this as a fall back for your conversation. A good morning text for her will make her feel special and let her know how much you think of her.

Just drop in that you were excited to talk to her first thing or ask her if she slept well. You can also move on and start talking about dreams, both future and bedtime variety.

Option 3: Send a Good Night Text For Her

On the opposite end, make her message a good night text for her.

You can wish her sweet dreams and ask her to contact you tomorrow. Or, turn it into a conversation about the things that always make her stay up all night.

Option 4: Send Flirty Texts For Her

A final option when you aren’t sure what to text after your conversation starter is to be bold and jump in there with some flirty texts for her.

Tell her she looked great and then ask her if she noticed just how good you were looking too. Ask her about her deepest secrets and then ask if any involve you.

Keep it fun and silly, but you can use texts to really show your feelings.

Step 3: Transition from Text to Person

Just like with the in-person situation above. When your text conversation is done, build towards the next conversation or meeting.

Set up a conversation at school or work, or at least tell her you’ll text again tomorrow.

How To Talk To A Girl You Like At Parties

When you want to know how to talk to a girl you like, the ideal situation is you catch her alone. However, in a party situation, that isn’t always possible.

Then, you need to figure out how to talk to girls at parties, which luckily, isn’t that different from talking to a girl you like in general.

The main difference here is that you’ve got to make a point of incorporating others into the conversation.

If you have a friend to approach with you, that makes this easier, since they can handle most of the side conversation with her friends. If not, be polite and friendly, but just focus your attention on her and use the steps above.

More Steps On How To Talk To Girls:

There’s more to picking up a girlfriend than just knowing how to talk to a girl you like. You also need all of these skills:

1. Learn how to text a girl when you get to that next step and want to keep going.
2. Impress a girl at a first meeting or on a first date by showing her you know how to flirt with a girl.
3. Find out how to ask a girl out so you’re that much closer to girlfriend territory.

In Conclusion

Perhaps the first major step to learning how to get a girlfriend is learning how to talk to a girl you like. If you can talk, you can get closer and build towards something more serious.

For some guys, that big conversation can be terrifying, but if you just follow the steps above, you’ll know how to talk to girls in no time.

Once you get it right, it’s a skill that never leaves you. Which is great news, because it’s a skill you’ll always need.

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If you really want to know how to get a girlfriend, the quickest shortcut is discovering how to impress a girl.

When you know how to impress a girl, or more broadly, how to impress girls generally, you know how to make yourself attractive to them.

Once a girl is impressed by you, you have to work far less hard to get her to interested more romantically in you.

You may not think you’re impressive now, but all you need to do is follow the steps below, and you’ll have solved how to impress a girl with impressive easy.

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Why Is It Important?

4 Steps

Over Text

First Date

Why Is Impressing A Girl So Important?

The introduction really spells this out for you: if you want a girl to like you, it’s much easier to first get her impressed by you.

If she is impressed, she’s far more likely to find you attractive, and to be receptive to your interest.

If you learn how to show off what is impressive about you, you also build up more confidence in yourself and more assertiveness about how you feel, which is again, far more attractive to most girls.

All in all, it’s easier for you to get a girlfriend and find romantic success if you learn how to impress girls and how to be impressive yourself.

How To Impress A Girl: 4 Steps

Everyone wants to be impressive, but most people don’t feel particular impressive. The truth is, though, that there is something impressive about everyone.

If you follow the steps below, you won’t just know how to impress the girl you like, you’ll know how to make yourself shine as well as why you should be more impressed with yourself.

Here are 4 powerful steps on how to impress a girl:

Step 1: Figure Out What Is Impressive About You

What do you do well? Maybe your first reaction is “nothing,” but that isn’t really the case. Are you funny? Do you know everything about movies? Are you better than anyone at some weird skill?

These things may not seem impressive to you in a day-to-day situation, but they really can be for the right girl.

Maybe you don’t feel it’s particularly impressive that you’re smart, but there are actually lots of girls that love smart guys.

Maybe you don’t think it’s very cool that you collect butterflies or stamps, but those can actually be very interesting subjects if you present them in the right way.

Take a moment to think about yourself and build yourself up. Think about what you love and what you know and what you do well, then move on to Step 2 to find out how to sell it.

Step 2: Figure Out How to Show Off What Is Impressive

You want to find a low-key way to show off and show your impressiveness in the right light. So, start by impressing a girl in the easiest way possible: be nice, be direct, and be confident.

Girls like confident guys who treat them well. It sounds obvious, and yet most guys miss out on this obvious way to improve their standing.

Once you’ve done that, work on finding a way to mention your talents without drawing too much attention. Throw out an interesting fact about your interests when talking to a girl, or invite her out to see you play the sport you shine in.

Step 3: Show, Don’t Brag

One of the worst things you can do if you’re trying to find out how to impress girls is to oversell yourself and then under-deliver.

Don’t tell a girl you’re a gym rat and then pull a hamstring racing her to the car.

When you want to impress a girl, the rule should always be to be as humble as possible while still showing off your impressive qualities.

And focus in on that “show” element. She’ll be more impressed if she finds out you’re really fast if you demurred a bit and pretended you were just an okay runner.

Step 4: Impress A Girl By Using Interesting Conversation Topics

Struggling to find a way to show off our impressive qualities? Then learn how to impress a girl just through your conversation.

This is actually a fairly easy way to impress a girl. Just pick out some interesting conversation topics beforehand that you can work into your conversation.

Ideally, these conversation topics can relate back to your impressive qualities in a no-big-deal sort of revelation, but they don’t have to.

Start by building a conversation around weird talents, for instance, which would allow you to lay out your talent after she’s revealed hers.

Or, move in a completely different direction and impress her with a deeper conversation topic about how language affects how we understand our every day life (a great one if you know another language or read a lot).

You can always start a funny conversation about pop culture topics or silly topics like which super power she would want or what Marvel character she’d want to be (a great way to flush out her secret nerd qualities).

How To Impress A Girl Over Text: 4 Steps

In some ways, text can be a real blessing to some guys, especially if they are a bit shy and bad at starting conversations in person.

But you can also run into difficulty in how to text a girl when texts don’t really highlight your best qualities.

Just use the following steps to effortlessly show off your most impressive side via the phone screen.

Here are 4 steps on how to impress the girl over text:

Step 1: Take the Chance to Plan

The real benefit of texting is it doesn’t have to happen in real-time. Take a little time to think up a strategy that will let you impress her. Then, once that’s in place, start to text.

Step 2: Show Off Your Clever Side

Girls love a witty guy. Use your texting to show off that you have that side. Even if you aren’t naturally witty, use some conversation starters and different media like .gifs and videos to build up that persona.

If you get her laughing through text, she’ll want to meet up so you can get her laughing in person.

Step 3: Know What To Text A Girl and When

Now we’re getting into the real dilemma guys have: what to text a girl.

The answer is simple: pick a good time or event or question to build your conversation around, set up a few great comments, and text away.

Option 1: Ask Questions To Ask a Girl Over Text

Nothing impresses a girl as much as a guy who listens. Show her that you listen by having some questions to ask a girl over text ready.

These can be as simple as asking her opinion about a show she watches or asking about future plans. Or, get a little deeper and ask about her dreams for the future. Just get her talking about her.

Option 2: Send A Good morning text For Her

One way to impress is by showing her you’re thinking of her first thing or last thing during the day. Send a good morning text for her that communicates how much you care.

Just tell her you’re thinking of her or ask about her dreams or plans for the day. Keep it low-key. The message will already be clear and very impressive.

Option 3: Send A Good night text For Her

The twin to Option 2, send a good night text for her. If you want to know how to impress her, show her you think about her before you go to sleep.

Ask her about her day or an important event that took place. Or else, ask her about her weirdest dreams. Again, the focus is more just on the fact you’re thinking of her.

Step 4: Navigate Towards Your Strengths

If you aren’t great with words, start with the steps and options above, and then move the conversation towards things that do impress. Show her videos that show off your musical skills or ask her to read the poetry you’re writing.

Whatever you do well, use this conversation to include her in it.

How To Impress A Girl On A First Date: 3 Steps

If you’ve got her going on a date with you, you’ve probably already figured out how to impress her at least enough to get some general interest.

Maximize that interest by using all of the following first date tips.

Here are 3 awesome steps on how to impress her on a date:

Step 1: Set Up Dates Around Your Impressive Qualities

If you want to figure out how to impress her on a date, start by setting the date in a location that you can shine in. If you are athletic, do something physical. If you’re not, avoid dates where you can embarrass yourself.

If you know about movies, take her to an arthouse film. If you know biology, take her to the zoo.

Step 2: Know What To Do On A First Date

Once you’ve got the date set in a good location, choose other activities that further enhance your impressiveness without you having to draw attention to yourself.

If you build a date around your movie knowledge by a classic movie and coffee where you discuss all the minutiae of the film, you don’t have to stress about what to do on a first date.

Step 3: Know What Things To Talk About On A First Date

One key point about any first date: don’t make it all about yourself. Draw her in and don’t purposefully draw attention to yourself. If you’ve followed Steps 1 and 2, you won’t need to.

Put all your focus into her on the date by coming up with things to talk about on a first date that hit on her thoughts and feelings.

Really maximize this by asking some first date questions that let you know more about her and let her know you’re really interested.

More Tips On How To Get The Girl

Be honest, you’re here because you want to get the girl, not just learn how to impress the girl. So, get the full package of steps with the articles below:

1. Learn how to tell if a girl likes you to know whether you should pursue her.
2. If she doesn’t like you now, find out how to get a girl to like you later.
3. Take a step back and polish your convo game with how to talk to girls.
4. Use the signs a girl likes you to find out if you’re making progress.

In Conclusion

Once you have mastered how to impress a girl, you’ve slicked the track to solve how to get a girlfriend.

The good news is that the secret to how to impress girls is really just using all the steps above.

And once you follow those steps and know how to impress her, you’re well on your way to turning that impressiveness into something more romantic.

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So you want to know how to get your crush to like you. While there’s no guarantee that she’s going to end up falling for you, knowing how to get a girl to like you can certainly help to improve your chances. It’s all about being your best self first. From there, anything is possible!

If you want to know how to get your crush to like you and how to get a girlfriend, the truth is that every situation is different. Sometimes it happens out of nowhere, and sometimes it takes years before a friendship blossoms into a romance. At the same time, there are some universal truths that can help to streamline the process.

If you have your eye on a special someone, you’re probably wondering how to get your crush to like you. Read on to discover how to become the type of man she wants, and how to approach her in a way that takes the relationship to that next level.

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How to Get Your Crush to Like You: 7 Steps:

There are two separate things you need to do if you want to learn how to get your crush to like you. We broke them down into smaller steps for you, but really it all comes down to two major things:

First and foremost, you need to work on yourself so you can become a better man worthy of the apple of your eye’s affection. That means learning to understand women in general, as well as your crush.

Once you have a better idea of what she’s looking for, you can attempt to woo her. That’s the second part. After all, it doesn’t matter how great of a guy you are if you can’t get your foot on the door!

Follow these steps to to learn how to make your crush like you!

Here are 7 powerful steps on how to get your crush to like you:

Step 1: Learn To Understand Women

Nobody ever said understanding women was easy. However, just trying puts you leagues ahead of other guys.

Of course, every woman is unique. That’s the twist! If you want to learn to understand women, you need to first understand that it’s impossible to understand half of the human population as a whole. Each and every woman is different.

The key to understanding women is realizing that you need to approach each one on a person-by-person basis. Never paint with a broad brush. Understanding women means recognizing the intricate details that make each one special.

The most important part of understanding women is keeping an open mind, being aware, and listening. As a guy, it’s impossible for you to ever truly understand women, but the effort is what makes all of the difference.

So, with that in mind, how do you learn to understand women? Talk to them. Ask them about their experiences. Pay attention to how they act and react in day-to-day situations.

Eventually, you’ll start to better understand both the similarities and differences. You’ll also start to recognize the unique struggles women face, as well as the types of things and behaviors that make them happy. All of these details help you to see the world through their perspective, which naturally makes you a more attractive potential partner.

Over time, this learned understanding is what helps you to become the type of man who women genuinely want to be around. Don’t try to figure them out like a science experiment. Instead, try to figure out how you can be a positive addition to their life experience.

Step 2: Know What Women Want In A Man

Although each and every woman is different, there are also some general features and attributes that tend to be attractive to the vast majority of women. Learning what women want in a man is going to drastically improve your chances of landing that first date.

Women appreciate a guy with empathy. That ties back into the first step — learning to see through a woman’s point of view. At the same time, there’s more to empathy than just changing your view point. Being able to recognize and sympathize with other people naturally makes you a kinder and more caring person.

Women also appreciate guys who are confident, but not cocky. There’s a big difference between carrying your head high and knocking others down. Be bold and self-assured, but be equally humble too.

A lot of woman also appreciate a guy with a sense of humor. That doesn’t mean that you need to be cracking jokes constantly. Sometimes a sense of humor just means not taking yourself too seriously all the time. After all, being goofy with the person you love is one of life’s simplest-yet-greatest blessings!

Finally, woman like guys who are self-sufficient and determined. After all, you need to be able to take care of yourself before you can even think about sharing your life with another person.

Money is the most obvious means of self-sufficiency, but it’s not always the most important thing. Plenty of women would rather date a broke guy with passion and drive than a rich guy who sits around on the couch all day.

Step 3: Know What She Likes

At this point, you should have a better idea on how to appeal to women in general. Now, how to get your crush to like you? It’s time to learn more about your crush in particular.

What does she like to do for fun? What kind of music does she like? What are her goals and dreams?

If you’re wondering what do girls like, you’re not going to get a simple answer. Just like guys, girls have their own unique tastes.

It’s up to you to learn a bit more about her so when you do approach her, you can have something in common to talk about.

Now, obviously you don’t want to stalk her or anything. But if you’re thinking about making a move, try looking at her social media pages or talking to her friends. You should be able to get a better idea of who she is so you’re prepared for the next step.

Step 4: Talk To Your Crush

Okay, you understand women better, you know what they want in a guy, and now you know specific details about your crush. Brace yourself — it’s time to make contact.

If you want to know how to talk to your crush, the simple answer is that you talk to her just like you would with anyone else, just a little better! If you overthink it, she’s going to be able to tell. Don’t try too hard.

Smile and be your friendly, genuine self. It’s really that easy. Chat about anything. Just having that first conversation plants a seed that could later blossom into a beautiful tree. Once you get the first conversation out of the way, it get’s easier.

Step 5: Impress Her

Okay, you’re not on the school playground anymore. Climbing the jungle gym isn’t going to impress her. If you want to know how to impress a girl, you need to work on yourself and your life.

Some women are impressed by guys who climb the corporate ladder. Others are impressed by guys who forge their own paths in the world. Some girls are impressed by athletic guys, some girls are impressed by artistic guys, and some girls are impressed by a guy who can make them laugh.

BUT, more importantly, all girls are impressed by guys with true drive.

The key here is to think about what makes you special, and amplify that feature. If you’re really into playing the bassoon, become the best dang bassoon player in the city. Do what you love to do, and do it to the best of your ability. That passion is what’s impressive — regardless of what you’re doing.

You don’t need to have a special talent to impress her. Do something — anything — and do it with determination. That’s what’s going to make her take notice.

Step 6: Make Her Laugh

Knowing how to make a girl laugh is one of the quickest ways to her heart. After all, the right funny questions to ask can turn a boring conversation into the perfect date. Humor connects people on a surprisingly deep level.

If you’re not a naturally hilarious person, don’t worry. Even if you can’t make a joke, being able to take a joke goes a long way. Also, sometimes just putting in the effort to be a little silly is all it takes to show her that you’re a fun guy.

Try these funny questions to ask a girl so you can make her smile:

1. What’s your spirit animal? This one can spark hilarious conversations about why certain animals resonate with you.
2. What was your worst date like? This ice-breaker can lead to some seriously funny stories.
3. What’s your favorite joke? Straight to the point.

Step 7: Give Her A Compliment

A well-placed compliment goes a long way in earning her favor. There’s a big difference between a compliment and a pickup line, so be a gentleman when you drop one on her.

Knowing how to compliment a girl is crucial. After all, compliments aren’t magical spells you can just recite to get her to fall in love with you.

Use compliments sparingly at first so you don’t come off like you’re trying too hard. Use them when it makes sense within the context. For example, if she’s laughing at a joke you made, you could tell her you love her laugh.

Here are some compliments for girls to get you started, but feel free to get more specific so your crush knows it’s from the heart:

1. You’re hilarious. This compliment shows her you love being around her, and it’s light and easy so it won’t make her uncomfortable.
2. You have so many interesting things to say. This one shows her you value her beyond just her beauty.
3. I’ve never met someone like you. This compliment lets her know that she’s special.

More Tips on How to Get a Girl to Like You:

If you follow this guide how to get your crush to like you, you should be the mayor of Girlfriendville in no time. If you want some more resources to help you with your romantic endeavors, try these:

1. All of that work is useless if you don’t know how to tell if a girl likes you back!
2. After you’ve followed these steps, you need to know how to know if your crush likes you.
3. Learning how to flirt with a girl without driving her away is essential.
4. If you’re tired of being a wallflower, you need to know how to approach a girl.
5. When it’s time to invite her on a date, you need to know how to ask a girl out.

In Conclusion

Now that you understand how to get your crush to like you, it’s time to get started. Begin by simply doing your best to be the type of guy that woman want to spend time with. You may be surprised by how easy it is to learn how to get a girl to like you once you’ve decided to put in the effort.

It’s understandable that you would want to know how to get a girlfriend, but at the same time, don’t rush into it. The right relationship is worth waiting for. People change, and your current crush may be replaced by a new one next week. Do your best to make it work, but also do yourself a favor, and know when it’s time to keep looking.

Remember: even knowing how to get your crush to like you doesn’t guarantee that she will. Love is a two-way street, and sometimes one of the streets has a light stuck on red. Don’t let it get you down. There are billions of women out there, and the perfect one is looking for you too. Be the type of person who deserves love, and it will find you in time.

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The 21 questions game has been around forever. Playing the questions game is one of the best ways to get to know someone, plus it’s just fun. You never know what kind of answers you’re going to get, and that’s what makes it exciting! Whether you’re making conversation at dinner or killing time on a road trip, these questions to ask spark conversations and form connections.

Another reason why the 21 questions game is so great is that it gives you a way to ask questions that are…well…awkward to ask directly. For example, if you want to know if your crush is single, you may feel weird asking her. However, if you sneak it into the questions game, you’ll find out the answer without any blushing!

We’ve compiled an awesome list of questions you can use to get started, but feel free to incorporate some of your own too.

I recommend reading through all of these 101 questions to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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21 Questions Game To Ask A Girl

Whether she’s a crush, Tinder date, friend, or co-worker, these 21 questions to ask a girl help you connect with the ladies in your life. When it comes to playing the 21 questions game, having the right questions to ask a girl really helps you to form those special moments and deep connections that make this game so exciting.

It’s no secret that getting to know a girl can be a bit tricky. That’s why this game is so great. Not only do you get to learn about her, but you get to tell her about yourself too. It’s a social shortcut!

Some of these questions to ask a girl to get to know her are funny and some are serious. Use a variety of them to spice things up.

Here are 39 of the best questions to ask a girl:

1. You only get 3 words to describe yourself – what are they?

Three words can say a lot about a person. This question is fantastic for getting to know someone fast.

2. What’s something everyone else loves that you secretly find overrated? How come?

Different strokes for different folks. What are those overrated things that you just don’t see the appeal to?

3. Would you rather have a home on the beach or in the mountains?

Are you more of a vacationer or an adventurer?

4. What kind of things really makes you laugh?

Sharing laughter with other people is one of life’s greatest joys, plus laughter is good for your health.

5. If you could jump into a pool full of something, what would it be?

Besides water, of course.

6. If you could be any fictional character who would it be?

Movies, books, TV shows — it’s all fair game.

7. Have you ever had a crush on an animated character?

Be honest. You didn’t watch Saturday morning cartoons just for the plot, did you?

8. If the world froze for an afternoon and only you could move and no one could see you or remember what you did, what would you do?

Rob a bank? Go on a restaurant binge? Draw mustaches on an entire town?

9. Which habit are you proudest of breaking?

Personal growth is always something to be proud of. Go ahead and brag.

10. If you had to pick an animal, which animal do you find the sexiest of all?

Besides humans, naturally.

11. What word starts with a letter ‘f’ and ends with letters “u-c-k”? (The answer is “firetruck” so maybe you should save this questions until you know each other better)

This question is pure hilarity, and it’s a great way to “catch” someone for having a dirty mind.

12. What’s your favorite joke?

Everyone likes to laugh.

13. What’s the weirdest nickname you’ve ever had?

Be careful — it might come back again!

14. What would be much better if you could just change the color of it?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

15. Do you think double texting is a big deal?

What about triple or quadruple texting? When is too much texting actually too much?

16. If your life was a movie, what would it be called?

You can make up your own title or use an existing one. Both can yield equally hilarious (or tragic) results.

17. What’s the last concert you went to?

Music connects people. You may even learn about a new artist.

18. What do you wish you were really good at?

A person’s dreams are a big part of who they are as a person.

19. If you were a dog, what kind of dog would you be?

And why?

20. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

Besides playing this game, of course.

21. If you had a time machine, would you go back in time or visit the future?

And where (and when) would you go, specifically?

22. What was the last show you binge-watched?

When was the last time you Netflix and chilled, and then chilled some more…and some more…and some more…

23. If you had to rename yourself, what name would you choose?

Traditional names or made-up ones are all fair game.

24. Would you rather leave your hometown and never be able to return again, or stay in your hometown but never be able to leave?

Are you more of a homebody or an adventurous spirit?

25. If you could be any animal, what would you be?

And why?

26. Do you believe in astrology? Does your sign fit you?

Do the stars determine who you are? Be sure to look up the signs and discuss if they’re accurate.

27. When did you have your first kiss?

Out with the awkward details!

28. What’s the most cringeworthy outfit you’ve ever worn?

And do you have any pictures to share?

29. Do you shower at night or in the morning?

Or never at all?

30. Do you believe in aliens?

It’s an awfully big universe…

31. What’s your favorite time of the year?

And what do you do to make it extra special?

32. Are you addicted to anything?

Besides answering personal questions, of course.

33. What do you think of public displays of affection?

And at what point is PDA going too far?

34. What is your morning ritual like?

How you start your day can affect the entire course of it.

35. If you could be anyone else for a day, who would you choose?

You can decide if fictional people are allowed.

36. Where would you go for your dream holiday?

And what would you do while you’re there?

37. Are you superstitious?

Or just a little stitious?

38. What did you want to be when you were young?

And did you fulfill those dreams or change your mind?

39. Sneaking into a second movie: super-wrong or harmless fun?

Also, how do you feel about sneaking in candy?

21 Questions Game To Ask A Guy

These 21 questions game to ask a guy are geared towards the dudes in your life. Some of them are personal, some are weird, and some are downright hilarious. Mix ’em up to keep it interesting.

Ideal for old friends and new acquaintances, these questions to ask a guy can really help you to take your friendship to the next level. After all, guys can be just as mysterious as girls at times, and these questions to ask a guy to get to know him help you to break through that tough exterior and see what’s going on inside.

Here are 40 of the best 21 questions game to ask a guy:

40. Can you dance? Do you like dancing?

If so, please show off some of those sweet moves.

41. Would you rather live in a large urban city, a small town or in the countryside? Why?

Where a person chooses to live says a lot about them.

42. Which personality traits do you want your partner to have?

Do you want someone like you, or do opposites attract?

43. If I caught you masturbating would you carry on, or stop and pretend you weren’t?

Different strokes for different folks.

44. Would you describe yourself as naughty or nice? Why you say so?

Or a little from column A and a little from column B?

45. What was the strangest punishment your parents ever gave you?

And what did you do to deserve it?

46. If you go to a restaurant and have terrible service, is it ever OK not to tip?

What type of situation would make you close your wallet?

47. If you could only hear one song for the rest of your life, what would it be?

And how long would it take to hate it?

48. What is the worst lie you’ve ever told your parents?

And did they ever find out?

49. If any actor or actress could play you in a movie, who would it be?

This question helps you to understand how other people view themselves.

50. What is your favorite item of clothing?

And can I borrow it?

51. What do you think about marriage?

End goal or trap?

52. How would you describe yourself?

Direct and to the point.

53 What are you most afraid of?

We’re all human. Talking about your unique phobias is a great way to overcome them.

54. Are there any causes you strongly believe in?

And what led you to feel that way?

55. What would you do if you had one day left to live?

Describe the ultimate 24-hour bucket list.

56. How much time do you spend on social networking in a week?

Some people have their phones attached at the hip.

57. How did your last relationship end?

And would you do it differently if you could rewind time?

58. How important is your family to you?

A person’s relationship with family says a lot about their priorities and how they were raised.

59. What was the happiest moment of your life?

This is an uplifting question that’s sure to make everyone smile.

60. How old were you when you started dating?

And describe your first date.

61. Clubbing or candlelight dinner?

In other words, do you party hard or soft?

62. Are you competitive?

Some people have to win.

63. What did you do during the summers when you were growing up?

Talking about childhood memories shines light into how people became who they are today.

64. Do you fall for a person fast?

Does love at first sight really exist?

65. Have your ever driven drunk or even slightly buzzed?

And do you regret it now?

66. What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality?

This question lets someone shamelessly brag about themselves a bit.

67. Do you have any bad habits I should know about?

If so, you can offer advice on how to break them.

68. What is your favorite way of spending time with me?

This question is great for making future plans.

69. How do you cope with stress?

Exercise? Booze? Screaming into a pillow?

70. What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done?

Describe your most evil moment.

71. How would you like to be remembered?

And what steps are you taking to ensure that’s what happens?

72. Do you like tattoos and body piercings?

Why or why not?

73. What are your life goals?

Learning about a person’s long-term dreams helps you to understand their short-term actions.

74. If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it?

Do the risks outweigh the rewards?

75. When was the last time you felt really proud of yourself?

Celebrate achievements. It feels good.

76. What’s the length of your longest romantic relationship?

A person’s past romances often play a major role in who they are today.

77. Are you impulsive or do you think first?

Or do they take life on a case-by-case basis?

78. Have you ever hit the person you have been involved with?

If so, why am I hanging out with you right now?

79. What’s your philosophy in life?

A big question that often yields big answers.

21 Funny Questions Game

These funny questions to ask add some humor into the mix. After all, when you’re playing the 21 questions game, you don’t want every question to be super deep and serious. This is a game after all, not an interrogation.

Using funny get to know you questions helps to make participants more comfortable, so they’re naturally going to be more willing to open up to you (or the group). Never underestimate the power of laughter to connect people.

Here are 22 of the best funny questions to ask:

80. What is the silliest pick-up line or a phrase someone used on you to win your attention?

And did it work?

81. What was the funniest moment in your life?

Choosing just one can be tough, so give them a few minutes to think about it. The results are worth it.

82. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done to get a crush’s attention?

Out with it. We’ve all had our share of cringey attempts at love.

83. What is the wackiest gift you have ever received or given someone?

And how did you/they react?

84. What’s the worst job you’ve ever had?

Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do to pay the bills.

85. What was your best lovemaking experience?

In lurid detail.

86. What is that one thing that you could never part with?

And what makes it so significant?

87. Is there a memory you have of me that always makes you laugh?

This question provides fascinating insight into those special moments that you may not have noticed, and how your perception might be different from theirs.

88. Would you rather endure childbirth or wear high heels for entire day?

The pains of being a woman.

89. Have you ever laughed so hard you peed your pants?

Ask enough of these questions, and it may just happen for the first time (or again).

90. How bad was your habit of peeing in bed every night?

Yeah…”was”…

91. What is that thing for which your friends make fun of you?

Everyone has their own little quirks that people like to mock (hopefully in a friendly way).

92. If you suddenly became a vampire and have all the powers, who would you visit first?

Who has the tastiest looking neck?

93. What movie sequel do you wish you could erase from your brain?

You know the type — so bad it’s not even funny.

94. Have you ever done anything to look cool but end up with awkwardness?

Sometimes even the best-laid plans go to ruin.

95. If you have the option to put more hands on your arms, how many hands and how long hands would you choose?

And what would you do with all those hands?

96. What is the worst filling for a burrito? Have you ever done it?

Nothing wrong with a beef and Twizzler burrito from time to time, right? Bad burritos are a crime against humanity.

97. Has anything ever screwed up your birthday party?

It’s your party and you can cry if you want to.

98. Have you ever eaten the ice cream from the freezer and then blamed it on someone?

Don’t be a dessert bandit.

99. Have you ever ruined your Saturday in a terrible way?

Enlighten the group so they never make your mistake.

100. What was your worst first date?

If you had to endure a terrible first date, at least you get a funny story out of it.

101. What is one habit that you find completely disgusting?

And do you secretly do it?

Downloadable List of Questions Game

Here is a downloadable list of 21 questions game (right click the image and select Save Image As…):

More Great Question Games

The questions game is always a blast, but it’s always a good idea to diversify your approach to social situations. Try these other questions to form connections with people:

1. These questions to ask friends are perfect for spicing up casual hangouts.
2. Meeting someone for the first time? Give these ice breaker questions a shot.
3. “This or That” is another classic game. Use these this or that questions to get started.
4. These never have I ever questions are great for using after you play 21 questions.
5. Use these fun questions to ask to lighten the mood in any situation.

How To Play The 21 Questions Game: 5 Steps

So, by now, you’re probably wondering how to play the 21 questions game. It’s easy! Honesty is the key to making this 21 questions game work, so no cheating! Here are some variations to try:

1. The Classic

The simplest way to play is to simply take turns asking each other questions. You can write down a list of the 21 questions game and cross them off as you go, or simply keep track by crossing off a number after asking each question.

2. The Pop Quiz

Another way to play is you all write down 21 questions on a piece of paper, trade them with your partner(s), and then write in your answers. When everyone’s done, you take turns viewing each other’s answers.

3. The Bouncy Ball

In this version, you take turns ‘bouncing’ questions to each other like a ball. Person A asks person B a question. After person B gives their answer, it’s their turn to ask the next person. You can even stand in a circle and use a ball if you really want to turn the game into, well, a sport.

4. The Interview AKA The Hot Seat

In this version, one person sits in the hot seat, and everyone takes turns asking them questions until they reach 21. After the 21 questions game have been asked, the person in the hot seat nominates the next person to take their place.

5. Get-Out-Of-Jail Free

It’s up to you how you want to handle those juicy questions that some people might not want to answer. You can all vow to be 100% honest with no take-backs, or you can provide one or two get-out-of-jail free cards that allow someone to pass if they’re not comfortable answering a question.

In Conclusion

Sure, it’s no substitute for classic conversation, but the 21 questions game is a fun change of pace. These questions to ask can really help you out when you’re in a social situation with people you don’t know well, and it’s a great way to bond with your friends.

Sometimes answering questions may be a little scary, but people appreciate honesty. Everyone is at least a little weird in their own unique ways, and that’s the magic of the question game. It helps you to learn details about people that you would never find out otherwise!

Have some fun with it. Play a round, and see how it goes. The beauty of these questions is that you can use them to play the game, or you can use them on their own as conversation starters. Forming connections with people is one of life’s greatest treasures, so get out there and play the game of games!

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Knowing how to kiss a girl for the first time can be a scary but incredible experience. Whether it’s your actual first kiss or just your first time kissing a new romantic interest, it’s important that you do it right. After all, a good kiss goes a long way in establishing a lasting relationship. If you’re wondering how to get a girlfriend — it all starts with a smooch!

Before we get started, remember that there’s no magical formula for understanding how to kiss a girl for the first time. Every person and situation is unique, so you may need to improvise. This guide gives you an idea on how to kiss a girl, but it’s up to you, Casanova, to really make it special.

Without further adieu, here’s how to kiss a girl for the first time:

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How To Kiss A Girl For The First Time: 7 Steps

So you’ve been on a few dates and things are going well. Way to go, champ. Now, if you know how to kiss a girl for the first time, the next phase in your relationship is going to be smooth sailing.

Before we get started, it’s important to note that timing is everything. Kissing a girl for the first time is exciting, but try not to rush into it too fast. Wait until you know she’s ready, and be on the lookout for that perfect moment. After all, if the relationship keeps progressing, you’re going to want a beautiful memory to cherish in the future.

Follow these steps to make your first lip-locking experience with her one to remember.

Here are 7 powerful steps to kissing a girl for the first time: 

Step 1: Flirt With Her

If you want to get her to kiss you, start with some mild flirting. Say you’re texting with her — throw a wink or a kiss emoji into the conversation casually. When you’re hanging out with her, gently touch her arm at an opportune moment. If she pulls back, she may not be interested.

After you’ve played the flirting game for a while, she should (hopefully) be flirting back. It can be difficult to read if she’s actually flirting or just being friendly, so don’t automatically assume that a smile means she’s ready to take things to the next level.

Once you can tell that things are moving in a romantic direction, it’s time to take the next step.

Step 2: Take Her Out

So you’re pretty much positive that she’s into you. Congratulations, you stud. Now, it’s time to woo her.

Take her out on a date. Bring her somewhere special and treat her like a princess without being too cheesy and overbearing. You want her to know that you’re a gentleman, but that doesn’t mean you need to put her high up on a pedestal. Be your genuine, charming self, only a little more than usual. Be suave but authentic.

Step 3: Set The Mood

At this step, you might still be on your first date, or maybe you have a few outings under your belt. Either way, if you want to go for the elusive kiss, you need to set the mood.

Now, this is the time to go a little overboard. Think of the most romantic place you know — a rowboat under the stars would be perfection. Your goal here is to make it clear that you’re interested in kissing her without actually saying that out loud. She’s going to know what you’re up to, so don’t try to hide it. Bust out the candles and the Marvin Gaye — there’s no shame in it.

Step 4: Tell Her How You Feel

At this point, it should be quite clear that this is more than a friendship. It’s time to whisper sweet nothings. Let her know how much she means to you and how much fun you have with her.

If she responds positively, you probably have a green light to go in for the kiss. If not, she may just need more time, or she might just like you as a friend. There’s nothing wrong with that, so don’t push the issue. Never feel entitled to her kiss or you’re never going to get it. Of course, if you’ve made it this far, the odds are in your favor.

Step 5: Go For The Kiss

So now you’ve expressed your affection for each other. Now, this is the cool part. At this point, you’re both probably all doughy-eyed and full of emotion that the kiss will probably just happen naturally. If not, there’s nothing wrong with asking her if you can kiss her. Sometimes being direct is the easiest and most effective approach.

Now, it’s time for the kiss. This is the part that you don’t want to overthink too much or you might sabotage yourself. Make eye contact with her, and move in slowly. If she moves towards you, it’s going to happen. Once your faces are close, close your eyes and plant a soft, quick kiss on her lips.

Don’t get too crazy and start jamming your tongue down her throat. Right now you’re just testing the waters. After the kiss, if she seems happy, you can go for a second more passionate kiss. If you’re a true debonair, you could pull her in (gently) by by touching the back of her head or the side of her face.

At this point, it may be time for a little tongue action. For your first kiss, less is more. Use the tip of your tongue (not too much) to make slow swirls around hers. If this goes well, things should happen organically from there.

Step 6: Get Her To Kiss You For The First Time

The biggest mistake you can make is kissing a girl who doesn’t want or isn’t ready to kiss you back. With that in mind, often the best approach is to get her to kiss you. Now, you’re probably wondering how to get a girl to kiss you. Of course, there’s no ‘smooch button’ that activates her desire to lock lips with you, so you’re going to have to play it cool.

Basically, you can follow the same steps above that you would use to kiss her. The only difference is that when you get to that point where the kiss seems inevitable, you wait for her to make the first move.

This approach is great when you’re with a girl who seems like she prefers to take it slow and you don’t want to come off as too aggressive. Just realize that she might be playing the same game, so eventually one of you is going to need to make the first move.

Step 7: Know These ‘First Time’ Kissing Tips

When you’re going in for that first peck, your mind is going to be going a million miles an hour. Use these kissing tips on how to kiss a girl for the first time to smooch like a pro.

1. Don’t overthink it! Billions of people all over the world kiss every day, and many of them are kissing right now. You’re doing something that’s one of the greatest parts of the human experience. Enjoy it, and don’t make it more complicated than it needs to be.
2. Start slow. You’re batting for a single, not a grand slam. Know your boundaries, and let her dictate how far you go. The quickest way to turn a sweet mood sour is to be too pushy.
3. Control your tongue. One of the most common first kissing mistakes is using too much tongue. Keep that thing in check, and then use more when she does. She’s going to set the tone, and you can follow.
4. Close your eyes. If she takes a peek and sees you staring, she’s going to be a little weirded out.
5. Have fresh breath. The importance of minty-fresh breath can’t be overstated. Don’t chomp on gum or spray your mouth right in front of her — just make sure you brush and use mouthwash before hanging out with her.

How To Kiss And Make Out With A Girl For The First Time

After that first kiss, making out is the next logical step. Now if you’re wondering how to make out with a girl, the answer is easy: do exactly what you did before, only moreso. Take things slow, and let her body language determine how far you should go.

How To Kiss A Girl For The First Time, On The First Date

By now, you should have a good idea on how to kiss on first date. A general rule of thumb is that you should save the kiss for the end of the date, but that doesn’t always have to be the case. The most important thing is timing. Don’t plant one on her while she’s chewing her dinner. Don’t dwell on the kiss during the date either. Just let it happen as it happens.

More Tips On How To Get The Girl

There’s a whole lot more to pursuing a romantic interest besides just kissing her. Check out these other awesome guides to help you charm your crush.

1. Knowing how to tell if a girl likes you is one of the most crucial skills.
2. Once you know she likes you, you need to know how to ask a girl out.
3. If you’re crushing on her, you want to know how to get a girl to like you.
4. Before the kiss, you need to know how to flirt with a girl.
5. If you know how to talk to girls, your romantic life is going to flourish.

In Conclusion

Now that you have a solid foundation for how to kiss a girl for the first time, all you need is the right partner. Don’t feel like you need to rush into your first kiss. Girls can sense desperation, and it’s not attractive. Slow and steady wins the race.

Remember: there’s no guaranteed method that will help you know how to get a girlfriend or how to kiss a girl. More often than not, you’re going to need to wing it. Just remember to be respectful, caring, and kind, and you’ll get there eventually.

Finally, be confident in yourself. There are a million-and-one girls out there who would be thrilled to kiss you. Yes, kissing a girl is amazing, but kissing a guy is amazing for her too. Don’t forget that.

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Are you wondering how to talk to your crush and to eventually win them over? Yes? Not to worry, you are most definitely not alone.

On the dating scene, it’s quite normal for guys to be unfamiliar when it comes to knowing how to talk to girls and ultimately how to get a girlfriend.

Generally, when it comes to approaching strangers it’s not that difficult for most guys but when that stranger is someone they have a crush on, it’s a totally different ball game.

So, your crush enters the room and you get all excited but when you walk over to talk to her you immediately get awkward, freeze or just turn in the opposite direction and abort mission. You need all the help you can get and this article is definitely for you.

I recommend reading through all of these 6 Steps to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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Why Is Knowing How To Talk To Your Crush So Important?

Many guys freeze or feel awkward when it comes to talking to their crush. Also, many tend to have a fear of rejection when approaching women.

Knowing how to talk to your crush can boost your confidence and reduce your fear of the possible outcomes.

And we know, ladies respond well to confidence.

So, knowing how to talk to your crush can boost your confidence which can directly affect your first impression and also how the initial conversation goes.

How To Talk To Your Crush: 6 Steps:

Knowing how to talk to the girl you like can seem to be an uphill task. Going up to your crush and striking a conversation can be difficult but it can be done.

Knowing what to say to make her feel comfortable is what will spark her interest in you because once a girl is comfortable she lets her guard down and she opens up. This is the goal.

If you struggle with this, you are definitely not alone.

Here are 6 powerful steps that you can take to talk to your crush:

Step #1: Prepare

Preparation is key. Put in some time before approaching your crush so that you are confident when the time comes.

Imagine taking a math test without practice or preparation. You’re sure to fail.

This is similar. Preparation is needed if you want to have success.

Putting thought and time into winning your crush sets you apart from many others and gives you a better shot at success.

Step #2: Approach Her

Knowing when and how to approach a girl you have a crush on can be a bit tricky for most but let’s make it simple.

If you’ve never spoken to her, approach her when you are alone.

Ensure that the first interaction is casual and that many people aren’t around to cause distractions.

Step #3: Start A Conversation With Her

Now that you know when to approach, here’s how to start a conversation with a girl you have a crush on:

It can start as simple as saying hi and introducing yourself.

Or you can ask for help with something simple then after gaining her attention you can introduce yourself.

It can be as simple as “Hey, have you seen a red book lying around here?” then you can make eye contact with her, smile and proceed to introduce yourself; “By the way, I’m Adam”.

Step #4: Know What To Say To Her

A girl can tell from the inception how confident a guy is based on his body language, tone of voice and what he says.

Knowing what to say to a girl you like will boost your confidence level. So prepare.

You can ask her about her opinions on virtually anything or you can talk to her about movies, music or art.

These are just a few of the things to talk about with your crush after you make initial contact.

Here are three great things to talk about with a girl that you can utilize:

Talk about an embarrassing moment.

Talk about a childhood memory.

Ask her about her old and current hobbies.

Step #5: Keep The Conversation Going With Her

Knowing how to keep a conversation going with a girl you like is key if she is going to want to have future conversations with you and it will definitely matter when she considers if she wants to spend time with you.

If you can’t attract and hold her attention she definitely wouldn’t want to continue to have conversations nor spend more time with you.

Be yourself in an interesting and unique way.

Here are some tips to keep the conversation going:

Tip #1: Use Conversation Topics

Utilize conversation topics that she’ll most likely be interested in to keep the conversation going.

Three of the biggest conversation topics are:

Books and Art

Her Passions

Things you have in common

Tip #2: Questions To Ask a Girl To Get To Know Her

Knowing what questions to ask a girl to get to know her is key to a smooth and lasting conversation.

Knowing what questions to ask her will help you to avoid those uncomfortable silences during any conversation.

Also, being able to know what questions to ask a girl you like will also help to show your interest in her and she will surely appreciate that.

Great questions can be funny, random or personal but the key is to get her to talk and share as much as possible.

Here are some great questions to ask a girl:

“Where are your parents from?”

“Do you like animals?”

“What’s your dream job?”

“What’s the silliest thing you’ve ever seen?”

Step #6: Compliment Her

You’re going to need to know how to compliment a girl if you want her to positively respond and remain in conversation with you.

Learning how to compliment a girl should be on every guy’s to do list. Compliments go a far way in conversation.

Here are some great compliments for girls that you can utilize:

Tell her how great her hair looks.

Indicate how great two things match well on her for example her skirt and handbag.

Tell her how warm her smile is.

If she blushes after a compliment, tell her you like the way she looks when she blushes.

How To Talk To Your Crush Over Text: 2 Steps

In a world where texting and social media interaction is the norm, wanting to know how to text a girl is natural.

A lot of the communication between friends, family and significant others happen via text.

Here are 2 steps on how to talk to your crush over text:

Step #1: Start a Text Conversation With Her

Texting is a bit different from having a face to face conversation especially with someone you don’t really know.

So it’s important that you know how to start a text conversation with a girl you like if you’re going to get her to like you.

Text conversation starters can be random, funny, personal or all of the above.

Here are a few great text conversation starters:

“If you had to change your name what would it be?”

“What was the last movie you saw?”

“What’s the craziest most outrageous thing you want to achieve?”

Step #2: Know What To Text Your Crush

Once the text conversation has started it’s important to know what to text a girl to keep her interested. It’s easy for anyone to get side-tracked or distracted when texting. This is why grabbing and keeping her attention should be a priority when texting.

Here are some options:

Option #1: Questions To Ask a Girl Over Text

To keep any conversation going whether via text or face to face, it’s important to know what questions to ask to keep her interested.

Here are some great questions to ask a girl over text:

“What is the biggest holiday in your family?”

“What is your favorite color?”

“What foods do you absolutely hate?”

“What does your name mean?”

Option #2: Send A Good morning text For Her

Sending a good morning text for her can be a great way to make her smile at the beginning of the day. It lets her know that she’s the first thing on your mind when you wake up.

Good morning texts can be funny, simple, romantic, or a combination of them all.

Here are three great good morning texts for her:

“Good morning sunshine!”

“Good morning, it’s time to brush your teeth and get a bath”

“You can’t deny that you slept well, I heard you snoring all the way over here, Good Morning!”

“Good morning, hope you had a good night’s rest”

Option #3: Send A Good night text For Her

As simple as it seems, sending a good night text for her can go a long way.

It can indicate that you respect her time when it’s getting late or it can show that you’re just courteous enough to acknowledge her before you retire to bed.

Good night texts can be simple, romantic, funny or a combination of all of these.

Here are some great goodnight texts for her:

“Night Night Dear”

“I hope that you sleep so well that you drool on your pillow”

“Sweet dreams but not as sweet as last night – I heard you snoring”

How To Talk To Your Crush At Parties:

Many people attend parties and most of them who do so are most likely to be social at these events.

Knowing how to talk to girls at parties can be an asset especially if your crush likes to party.

It can be as simple as approaching her, making eye contact and complementing her outfit or dance moves to initiate conversation.

It’s important to note that you must avoid uncomfortable topics like religion and politics but always strive to be funny and polite.

More Great Tips On How To Talk To Girls:

If you want to know more tips on how to talk to girls, check out these other helpful articles:

• • We’ll show you the things to say to a girl you like 
  • We’ll also teach you how to talk to a girl you like 
  • And also how to make a girl laugh 

In Conclusion

So, even if you’re caught up on how to talk to girl and ultimately how to get a girlfriend, it’s important that you adequately prepare before going out there in the dating world.

In a world where most guys tend to freeze or abort the initial mission of approaching and talking to their crush, you won’t be a part of that statistic because once you know how to talk to your crush your confidence level will rise and that’s key to a great dating life.

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Gentlemen, today we’re showing you the 10 ways on how to make a girl fall in love with you fast.

If you been with us for a while, you know how to get a girl to like you. You know every trick to get a girl to talk to, to let you talk to her, and how to get her attention. But today we’re not talkin’ about how to get a girl to like you, we’re showing you how to kick things up a notch and get her to love you.

And since we all make mistakes from time to time… we’re also sharing the #1 thing you can do that will turn her feelings of love into feelings of disgust.

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10 Ways To Get Any Girl To Fall In Love With You Fast

Here are 10 ways to make ANY girl fall in love with you quickly and the 1 thing that will ruin your chances:

10. Get Busy

Look guys… before you even think of how to make a girl fall in love with you… you have to love yourself first… and one of the most effective ways of doing that… is by becoming the man you’ve always wanted to be. And how do you do that? Keep busy! Learn about and try as many things as possible, because… by trying new things, (and not being afraid to fail at most of them) you’ll discover your limits, strengths and weaknesses, and what you actually enjoy spending your time on. In other words, girls like seeing guys who know how to get stuff done.

9. Know Thyself

The great Greek philosopher, Socrates once taught that, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” And he was absolutely right. A girl isn’t going to fall in love with a guy who has no direction and doesn’t know who he is. That’s not a man… that’s a child. Girls want a man who’s confident, sure of himself, and won’t overwhelm her with his insecurities.

And to really be that man, you’ve got to do what other guys don’t: Constantly question your own thoughts and actions. Seek to understand why you are the way you are… don’t worry about others, and always be the best version of yourself you can be. It can be a hard path sometimes, but by doing that, you’ll become more confident… And slowly become the real dude girls want to end up with.

8. Be Gentle, Man

There’s a long-standing myth that girls only date jerks. But it’s simply not true. Because as time goes on, most girls simply want a helpful and easy going teammate to navigate the field of life. Because life is like playing football. You dodge a bunch of hazards while trying to reach your goal… and sometimes you get knocked down. So it’s nice to have a teammate to pick you back up. And being that helpful and reliable person (but not forcing it)… is the gentleman thing to do.

7. Speak Your Mind

Picture this: You and a girl are discussing which land mammal is the coolest when she has the audacity to say, “African Elephants.” You know for a fact that Capuchin Monkeys are cooler, but do you tell her that? No! For some reason, you go entirely against your beliefs and agree with her even though you prefer Capuchin Monkeys to Elephants.

Look guys… if you don’t like confrontation, you need to work on that. Because constantly filtering your words to avoid even the most pointless disagreements… is an extremely insecure thing to do. And a girl will see right through it… girls want a guy who isn’t afraid to speak his mind. So say what comes into yours. And do it confidently.

6. Mushroom Your Personality

How to make a girl fall in love with you? If there’s one thing every girl wants to have when she’s with a guy, it’s a good time. After all, failed dates are no fun. So what’s the number one thing you can do to make sure a girl is having fun when you’re together? Be a fun guy. And yes, we’re aware that this entire section is just one really dumb joke… but that’s the point.

Girls love a guy who makes them laugh. And it’s not just because every moment she spends with him is a fun surprise… laughter releases the feel-good chemical, dopamine into our brains, so you’re literally hacking her brain when you make a girl laugh. So tell jokes, both good and bad, hone your comedic timing, and just be the fun-loving guy that every girl wants to be with.

5. Take a Break

Wait, we just had one of those didn’t we? Yes, because we wanted to remind you the best is yet to come. And that’s exactly what you should do with a girl. Back off from time to time (especially in the early stages). Because you’ve been there… you get so excited about this new girl you’re talking to that you text her too much or rush things… and you screw it up.

So instead of falling head over heels for her… make her fall in love with you. How? Be unavailable and have hobbies (but always find time for her) and don’t consistently be the first to text (or text her too much). By keeping a reasonable distance, you’ll be able to keep your emotions in check… and it’ll only make her want to see you again.

4. Avoid the Fun Sponge

Have you ever been around someone who is constantly a Debbie Downer? Someone who always has something negative to say, no matter the situation? People like that suck the fun out of everything. They’re fun sponges, and girls hate fun sponges. Remember: Girls want a fun guy. And by being a Negative Nancy all the time, you’re only making everyone else more miserable.

So look on the bright side of life and try to find the good in every situation, especially when things don’t work out. Because there are absolutely zero girls who want a guy who’s constantly bringing down the vibe. Speaking of bringing down the vibe, be sure to avoid doing these other things that girls absolutely HATE: 10 Things Guys Do That Girls Hate – Unattractive Things Men UNKNOWINGLY Do

3. Get on Their Good Side

It’s no secret: Girls are social creatures. They love talking to friends and family about, well… everything. And the girl you’re talking to is telling them everything about you… and they want to meet you.

So when the time comes to meet her friends and family, be sure to bring your A-Game because the impression you leave with them will last until they see you again (and who knows how long that will be). So if there’s ever a time to get a girl to fall in love with you… it’s when meeting the people closest to her and making a good first impression. If you can do that, they’ll want you to come around more because you’re “such a nice boy.”

2. Do You Hear What I Hear?

We live in an age where everyone is constantly bombarded with distractions. Buy this! Eat here! Look at this funny cat picture! Because of these frequent distractions, it can be hard to stay focused when you’re talking with a girl. And if you’re not listening to her… she’s going to notice… and your relationship will suffer. A successful relationship needs communication and listening skills.

So if you want a girl to fall in love with you, you have to be attentive and actually acknowledge and hear what she’s saying.

1. Touch Off, Blast Off

It doesn’t matter which phase of a relationship you’re in… physical contact is the #1 way to how to make a girl fall in love with you fast. So when you’re on a date, initiate a light touch at first. If she’s into you, it’ll give her butterflies. (It’s a great way to flirt) Because on top of an emotional connection, girls need a physical connection with their partner. Further on in a relationship? Never underestimate the power of a good back rub. Because let’s face it… back rubs feel fantastic. Plus, your hands will eventually wander to other places… and when the lights go out and the sheets are strewn about… she’ll be ready to blast off just as much as you.

The Number 1 Thing You Can Do To Make Any Girl Immediately Think Twice About You

Thanks for sticking with us! Now let’s get to the #1 thing guys do that guarantee they’ll ruin their chances. For everything we’ve showed you here today, it comes down to this: Falling in love doesn’t happen immediately. It takes time. And one huge factor in whether or not a girl even can fall in love with you… is compatibility in the bedroom (which takes a LONG time to find out depending on the girl). And the most effective way to be sure you’ll never know what that’s like… is by sending unsolicited pictures of your little friend downstairs.

No girl wants to open a text or Snapchat and be greeted by a boring-looking hot dog… so why would she want to see something similar? If anything, she’ll laugh at it, block you, and show all her friends. (Or even shame you on Snapchat) So really, you’re only setting yourself up for embarrassment if you do these things. So don’t be that guy… it’s rude, gross, and could have severe consequences for your social life. And it’ll immediately make a girl who’s worth falling in love with… second guess everything about you.

In Conclusion

Those are our 10 tips to how to make a girl fall in love with you FAST… and the one thing you don’t want to do.

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Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 12 purely instinctive, totally subconscious signs of attraction that girls show when they are attracted to you.

By this point, you know it’s not always easy to know if a girl is actually interested. Is it games or is it for real? What could be chemistry-filled flirtation for one girl…
might only be basic, run of the mill friendliness for another.

And that’s why today, we’re showing you 12 subconscious signs of attraction, and the one painfully obvious sign that a girl is definitely not attracted to you.

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12 Subconscious Signs of Attraction

Here are 12 subconscious signs of attraction: 

12. She Breaks From Her Besties

Have you ever noticed how girls always start a night out by only dancing with each other? The reason for that is because they feel most comfortable with their closest friends… which in most cases, is other girls. It’s a law of nature… a girl and her group are hard to separate. Not only are they typically good friends, but they even act kind of like a bodyguard for each other by keeping away unwanted attention.

So what are we getting at? Girls stick together at least semi-subconsciously out of a feeling of security. And what that means… is that if a girl you’re talking to separates herself from her squad to hang out with you alone, you better believe she’s interested. Because not only is she leaving the fun crew that she came in with, she’s also showing her friends that she knows she’s in good hands with you… and they don’t have to worry.

11. The Fall In

In the vast, vast majority of cases, body language isn’t only non-verbal, it’s also largely non-conscious… and most of the time it tells you everything you need to know.

So what should you look for first? One of the biggest, most basic body language giveaways when it comes to attraction, is to simply lean, or “fall” in towards the other person. Think about it. Do girls fall in to get closer towards guys they don’t like? Probably not. So that means if she’s physically leaning in your direction, even from a considerable distance, she’s probably feeling your vibe.

10. Answer Seeking

Here’s one thing to remember the next time you talk to a girl: Before you get a chance to say anything, that girl has automatically, subconsciously created a kind of story about you in her mind. But the only thing is, there are inevitably some parts from the story that are missing. Now, if she doesn’t care about the missing parts, she’ll move on or won’t seem interested. But if she’s intrigued, the only thing left to do… is get some questions answered.

So if you’re talking to a girl and she keeps trying to find more out about you, that’s almost definitely because she lets her curiosity carry her away towards you.

9. Facial Exploration

As you know, well over half of all communication… is completely non-verbal. And ground zero for that silent and subconscious communication… is what happens through facial expressions. Just like a girl will always find a way to get her questions answered about you, she’ll also be exploring your face to learn as much as she can. And the reason is simple: While your words say one thing, your facial expressions speak on a different level, and in many cases, a more truthful one.

So if she seems focused on your eyes and your mouth, and even your nose and cheeks… it’s not because she’s trying to make you worry about nose hairs or the spot you missed shaving, It’s just her instinctively trying to learn your mannerisms, the little things she really likes about you.. and how you really feel.

8. She’s A Soft Crowd

Here’s a real, age-old test of subconscious attraction: Next time you’re with a girl, say something you know is actually kind of stupid. Not obviously stupid, but just a little… low effort. If she laughs automatically, you know she’s into you. You might have noticed this with other people: a girl laughing and smiling at a guy…who really hasn’t actually said anything all that hysterical.

Well here’s the thing about making a girl laugh, most of the time, what you say doesn’t even need to be incredibly funny, or even that original. Because 9x out of 10, here’s what’s really happening… when a girl laughs at something you say, it’s almost always driven by the fact that she’s subconsciously reinforcing the attraction that’s already there. Basically, she already likes you… and wants to laugh at stuff you say to make sure she continues to like you. Now as with everything, there are exceptions to the rule but if she’s easy to get a laugh out of, that’s typically good news.

7. Stoke-mirroring

Just about the only thing better than talking to a girl you like, is to talk to a girl who’s equally excited to talk to you. In the dating game… this is what’s known as “chemistry.” And all chemistry begins and ends on a completely subconscious level.

So how can you tell if a girl is excited to chat? Well, there are a few ways: If you text, she texts back pretty quickly. If you see each other in public, she doesn’t hesitate to come up and say hi, and if you walk up to her… she makes a few adjustments to her posture, her hair or her clothes. Excitement takes many forms, but if you sense that she’s eager to talk or surprised by your attention, that’s what you want to see.

6. Sensory Override

Touch is one of those things that is driven by a pretty primal part of the brain. Before we ever talk, we learn how to communicate through contact first. And not only do humans need to be touched, they also need to touch. So much so in fact, that when their inhibitions are overridden by something like, say, strong attraction… they’ll touch without even thinking about it.

Now in general, our society tends to be pretty… ”touchy” about touch. And for good reason, because even for girls… seemingly innocent touching can be risky. For the most part, girls are on high alert and totally aware about how they physically engage with others… which is all to say that if a girl is touching you, it’s because her natural desire to get closer is outweighing a pretty compelling need to be careful.

5. Mask Off

For the same reasons why girls might hold off on touching a guy they like, they may also keep their facial expressions from giving away her attraction. Basically, women disguise their interest by kind of “flattening” their expressions. Straight lips, neutral browline, minimal movement all around… you know it when you see it. And it’s part of the reason why some girls get the reputation of being a little cold sometimes. It’s just how it is.

So what does that mean for you? It means that if a girl is smiling, lifting her eye brows, making eye contact and essentially… lifting up facial expressions with the classic signs of unspoken interest it’s because she’s determined that you’re a good guy she can trust enough to let her guard down.

4. The Autolook

Alright now this one’s a classic. While repeated and prolonged eye contact is obviously a great sign, there’s one other well-known totally subconscious giveaway that a girl is into you. And it is… “The laugh and look” or what we like to call it “the autolook”. Here’s how it works: The next time you’re in a group with a girl, see if you can spot where she looks when something funny happens. If it’s you who she looks at, that’s her instinctively choosing you to share a fun moment with. This is a body language phenomenon that’s been pretty well documented by psychologists, people in a group look to the person they feel most comfortable with. Which makes this one of the most valuable signs of interest there is.

3. The Waymaker

Have you ever wanted to talk to a girl, but found that there were literally too many things stopping you from getting to her? Maybe you wanted to sit and talk to her, but her bag was in the chair. Or maybe you were totally planning on a to go say hi, but it was just too crowded.

Well, girls actually interpret obstacles the same way you do, so if a girl likes you, she’ll make things easy and remove any barriers between you and her. So if you find that you suddenly have a clear shot, and it seems like she’s been watching you too, it’s because she has been and she’s cleared the way for you to come over.

2. She’s Actually Weird

Girls do their best to make sure they’re seen as “normal” girls by most of society… and if you ask any one of them, you’ll find out it’s pretty exhausting and they love a guy they can be their normal, weird selves around.

Now, not every girl is a total goofball, but most girls will eventually relax when they’re around a guy they feel comfortable with. In fact, if you start spending time with a girl you like, you’ll probably find that she (hopefully in a good way) is a lot weirder than she lets on. And if that happens, you know for sure it’s because she instinctively senses that she can be herself around you.

1. She Turns Up Your Volume

“Huh? What was that?”… If a girl can’t seem to avoid tuning you out when you’re talking, unfortunately that ship has likely sailed and you should probably just move on. On the other hand, if she seems engaged, asks questions and is eagerly invested in your every word, congratulations, you’ve successfully captivated her. And if you ask us, there’s no better sign of subconscious attraction than if a girl just can’t get bored with you… and wants to hear more.

The One Subconscious Sign That She May Not Be Attracted To You

If there’s one single sign that often gets misinterpreted as playing “hard to get” it’s the lack of eye contact. Now, there’s a lot of conflicting information out there on this one. Is eye contact good, is it bad? Does it mean she’s shy? Or does it mean she’s just not interested? Here’s how you know. If a girl is simply not making eye contact, it’s because she just doesn’t register you. Duh, we know. Basically, she doesn’t even know you’re there. It’s not that she dislikes you, but you just haven’t been given the opportunity to make an impression… yet. There’s still a chance. However, if she DOES notice you but doesn’t look back at you again, you unfortunately are off her radar. No big deal though, cut your losses and move on because there’s always another opportunity to make a lasting, subconscious impression on a girl.

In Conclusion

Those are the 12 subconscious signs of attraction that you can look for any day of the week.

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Gentlemen, today we’re showing the 10 powerful ways on how to make her chase you.

And because we want you to be the one being chased and not the other way around, we’re also showing the #1 reason why women never seem to want you as much as you want them, and how you can change that.

10 Ways to Make Women Chase You Down

Here are 10 ways on how to make her chase you + the 1 thing that stops most girls from chasing you:

10. Keep the Lead Open

If there’s one thing guys do to kill a woman’s interest in them, it’s to waste their lead by prematurely celebrating the win. Here’s what we mean: Say a guy and a girl are chatting, she’s laughing and smiling, and he’s beginning to think what he’s doing is working. But instead of building on the nice progress he had going, he gets excited and stops doing the one thing that the girl was enjoying. The moral of the story? Don’t punch out before the work is done. That’s one way on how to make her chase you. 

9. Put Her in the Friend Zone

Think guys are the only ones that have to suffer in the depths of the friend zone? Think again. Because just like the friend zone drives guys to become a little bit… needy, it also does the same thing to girls. But here’s a question for you: If you actually found yourself in a position to friendzone a girl, would you? If you’re like most guys, you wouldn’t take the risk of losing a girl who’s into you. But if being chased is really what you want, you’re going to figure out a way to make a girl wonder if you’re more than just a friend.

8. Warm Up Her Social Circle

One thing that definitely makes a girl hold back on how much she goes after a guy, is how her friends see him. That’s because, a girl’s friends are essentially an extension of her. Which means that if a guy is good for a girl, he must also be good for the group. Now of course, there are plenty of women out there who will break from their social circles, but in many cases, it’s pretty much a rule of nature… if you want a girl to feel like she’s even allowed to chase you, you’re going to have to warm up to her group of friends first.

7. Leave If You Have To Leave

Because at the end of the day: You can’t really be chased if you don’t ever go, right? But really, to women, there’s two kinds of guys in this world: The ones who have always got to go… and the ones who can always stay. And it’s the guys who can’t always stick around, that really get a woman’s attention.

6. Tell Her She’s a Distraction

Here’s a little secret on how to make her chase you: Women actually love not being the center of your universe… but only if what they’re vying for your attention with, has to do with your goals. Meaning, girls find productivity to be incredibly, chase-ably attractive. So if you’re a busy guy, here’s a way to get a woman to chase you: (in a nice way) Tell her she distracts you. Not only will she not be able to ignore the fact that you got things going on that aren’t her, but saying you can’t ignore her when she’s around… can be an amazing compliment. Just be careful how you say it.

5. Contrast Your Attention

If you aren’t able to hang out with her because you’re so busy, make sure the time you do get to spend with her is something that really counts. Ask questions, listen, and don’t constantly check your phone. In other words: Go all in and show her an amazing time when you’re with her. The reason this works is has to do with the contrast in your attention. By going from limited attention to full attention, you are get to surprise her with a side of you she doesn’t get to see enough of.

4. Dare to Disagree

Just one piece of advice before you run off with this one: Don’t disagree with every little thing a woman says just to disagree because chances are, that’s not going to go anywhere. But the truth is this, if you really want women to chase you, you’re going to have to do what a lot of guys won’t: And show them you have funny, smart, semi-original thoughts of your own. The reason for this is simple: Any girl can find a pushover, “yes man” type who will agree with anything she says. Those types of guys, though perfectly “nice”, are a dime a dozen. On the other hand, the guy who doesn’t just automatically nod and smile at everything, is not only infinitely more interesting, but also way more rare than the guy who is too nervous to state his real opinion.

3. Keep the Conversational Tension

What is probably good news for some of the low-key guys out there, is that one of the easiest ways to be an attractive, chase-worthy guy, is to lean more towards saying less than you really have to. Here’s how it works: If you let the girl do most of the talking while you do a little bit less, it can sometimes create an intriguing level of tension between the two of you…. and in doing that, it doesn’t just pique her interest, it creates a little game. Where your job is to keep the conversational tension and its hers to release it.

2. Use the Midas Touch

Here’s the thing about touching women: (surprise!) Most guys have no idea how to do it. Which is too bad… because knowing how to touch a woman the right way, may be the most important part of getting a woman to become feverishly, unstoppably attracted to you. Why? Because not only do women actually really like being touched the right way, but because a guy who can show restraint through his touch is hard to come by.

1. Let Her Lead

Well guys, where the chase was up to you, the lead is up to her. So if you’re at the point where it’s finally time to let her take over. You’ve probably done an outstanding job of getting yourself chased. Congratulations. Now don’t blow it.

The Number 1 Thing You Can Do to Make Women Run away

As promised: Here is the #1 thing guys do that will guarantee women never chase them. For everything we showed you here today, it comes down to this: Girls chase guys who don’t play games. Want to know why girls “chase” some guys? Because those guys aren’t just playing hard to get, they actually are hard to get. Which means the #1 thing you can do to guarantee you’ll always be chasing women, is to be desperate.

Now, most likely, you don’t do this on purpose. And of course, you can actually live without getting a girl’s number. But if women sense that you’re just another desperate guy trying to score, well not only are they not going to want you, they’re probably gonna turn around and run from you too.

In Conclusion

Those are the 10 simple tricks on how to make her chase you and #1 reason why women never seem to want you as much as you want them

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The first date doesn’t guarantee a kiss, but it’s always smart to be prepared.

If you’re wondering how to get a girlfriend, that kiss on first date is definitely a big part of it. Even if you’re not actively pursuing a relationship, just knowing how to kiss a girl is a valuable skill for any guy to have.

That’s where this guide comes in.

These first date tips help you to make a winning first impression so you get that call back for a second date. After all, kiss on first date, a well-timed and placed smooch can go a long way in helping her to fall for you. Read on to learn about proper first date protocol.

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Should You Kiss On a First Date?

First things first — should you kiss on first date? The answer is that it depends. First and foremost, don’t go into the date assuming that a kiss is guaranteed. Plenty of girls don’t like to kiss a guy until they’re sure, and that can take multiple dates.

At the same time, if everything goes well, there’s always a chance that kissing is on the horizon. That’s when you need to do some strategic planning.

There are pros and cons to kissing on first date. Besides the obvious fact that kissing is fun, a kiss can show her that you’re genuinely interested in her.

On the other side of the coin, if you rush into things too fast, she may think that you’re pushing too hard or that you’re only interested in her for her looks.

The best approach is to play it by ear and use other ways of communicating how you feel too. Body language goes a long way in showing your interest in her, and you can also just tell her straight-up that you’re having a great time with her and that you want to do it again.

In short, if you decide to kiss her, make sure she knows that you mean it. That’s what makes her want to kiss you again.

How To Kiss On First Date: 7 Steps

So you’re going to go for the elusive first-date kiss. You only get one shot to make kissing on the first date with a new girl really count, so make sure you do it right.

That said, you don’t want to overthink it either. Sometimes you just have to let your instincts take over.

Here are 7 steps to help you kiss on the first date like a champ:

Step 1: Know These Tips For Kissing On First Date

First things first — brush up on your technique with these kissing tips:

1. Freshen up. If you sense that a kiss is in the cards, make sure you’re prepared physically. If possible, duck to a bathroom and make sure your hair looks good, there’s no food on your face, and that your breath is minty fresh.
2. Calm down. Yes, the first kiss can be scary, but try to be calm, cool, and collected. After all, you don’t want to be hyperventilating while you’re locking lips. This is a kiss, not mouth-to-mouth.
3. Timing is everything. Don’t rush the kiss. Wait until the perfect moment. That moment might be after you say something sweet to her, at the end of the night, or it might not come at all. There’s no pressure, so don’t get desperate.
4. Start slow. The first kiss should be simple, quick, and sweet. Save the tongue for the makeout session.
5. Leave her wanting more. Kissing is fun for her too. Leave some to the imagination so she comes back for more.

Step 2: How To Kiss A Girl On A First Date (For The First Time)

So you want to know how to kiss a girl for the first time. The simple truth is that every girl and every situation is different, so you’re going to need to feel it out and make some decisions on the fly. With that in mind, there are ways to improve your odds.

1. Set the mood. Bring her somewhere awesome, wear something nice, and be flirty throughout the date.
2. Flirt with her. Make lots of eye contact, and touch her gently while you talk to her. If she responds positively and flirts back, she may be thinking about kissing you too.
3. Be direct. One of the easiest and most effective ways to make kissing on first date happen is just to ask her. Girls really appreciate direct honesty. If she declines, that doesn’t necessarily mean she never wants to kiss you. She may just need some time.
4. Wait for the right time. You may also need to rely on body language. Eye contact is a big one. If you’re in a suitable setting for a kiss, and you see that she’s giving you those doughy eyes, it may be time to move in slowly for the kiss. Be bold when the opportunity strikes, but make sure that she’s giving you the social cues to proceed.

Step 3: How To Get Her To Kiss You On First Date

You know what’s less scary than kissing a girl? Getting her to kiss you! Of course, it’s knowing how to get a girl to kiss you that’s the hard part.

Now, of course, there’s no magic word you can say that will make her kiss you. You can, however, put the power in her hands by telling her that you’re interested in kissing her, but you don’t want to rush or pressure her.

If she wants to kiss you, you just gave her the green light. If she kisses you, congratulations. If not, she may not be ready just yet, so don’t feel bad about it. She knows you want to kiss her, so the ball is in her court.

Step 4: What To Do If She Denies The Kiss

It happens to every guy at some point — everything is going perfect, and then she pulls away at the last minute. First of all, don’t panic. Yes, it’s awkward, but it’s no big deal. You misread the situation. It happens.

Laugh it off. She’s going to be feeling a bit awkward too, so just accept the situation for what it is.

Just because she didn’t return your kiss doesn’t necessarily mean she’s not into you. She might just not be ready.

Communicate with her. Maybe she just got out of a relationship, or maybe she wants to take it slow with you. Talk to her, and be sensitive to her feelings. Never get angry — that’s only going to guarantee that you never salvage the smooch.

Step 5: How To Act After The Kiss

So now you locked lips with her, what’s next? Your first reaction is going to be to keep kissing her. After all, kissing a girl you like feels good. Play it cool, and try to hold back.

There’s nothing wrong with going for a second kiss if the first one was successful, but you don’t want to be the guy slobbering after her trying to relive that moment over and over.

Save your kisses for the right moments. Don’t play all your cards too soon. You want to leave her wanting more.

Step 6: How To Get Her To Come Back To Your Place After The Date

Of course, you probably don’t want to be swapping spit for too long in public, so if things are going well, it may be time to move to a more secluded location.

1. Pop the question. …no, not that question. “Want to come upstairs for a drink?” It’s a classic end-of-the-date line in the movies, and it works in real life too. If you’re hoping to make out with her, just invite her over at the end of the date. She’ll probably know exactly what you’re getting at beyond hydration.
2. Relax. Although your intentions should be obvious, don’t assume that her coming over is a guaranteed makeout session. Take it slow, and let her initiate the first move.
3. Hang out. You’ve done your part at this point, and being in an unfamiliar place with a new guy can be a little scary for her. Set the mood, and then let her turn up the metaphorical heat if she wants to. Being too pushy is the best way to ruin your chances for a second date (and more kissing), so be a gentleman.

Step 7: How To Make Out Like A Pro

If you’re going to make out with her, you want to do it right, right? Follow these tips to up your kissing game.

1. Move slow. You don’t want to crash foreheads or bump teeth. Pretend you’re in a slow motion movie, and maintain that pace. 
2. Close your eyes. As you move in, pay attention to where her lips are, aim for them, and then close your eyes. Turning a makeout session into a staring contest can really kill the mood.
3. Use your tongue. When your tongue inevitably finds its way into her mouth, you want to keep it moving — not too fast and not too slow. Use rhythm circles, and then follow her lead. Don’t get sloppy, greedy, or speedy.
4. Keep your hands busy. While you don’t want to grope her, you also don’t want your hands hanging awkwardly like some sort of Frankenstein. You can put your hands on her waist, touch her shoulders, or hold the back of her head. Don’t be too handsy, and pay attention to her body language to determine whether you should continue or keep your hands to yourself.

How to Kiss And Make Out With A Girl On the First Date

So now you know how to improve your chances of getting that first peck. Now, you may want to start thinking about what to do if you’re interested in taking things to the next level.

If you’re wondering how to make out with a girl, it’s worth noting that every girl has her own making out style and preferences. The first makeout session may be a bit awkward and fumbly as you get a feel for each other’s approach. Don’t worry — that’s part of the fun!

A lot of the time, the first makeout happens naturally after the first kiss. After you plant one on her, try moving in a second time for a deeper kiss. If the first one went well, there’s a good chance she’ll be ready for some making out.

Don’t wait too long for the window to close after that first kiss. If you can see that she enjoyed the first kiss, go for the second. Make this one a bit more passionate — maybe caress her face or hair — and then incorporate a little bit of tongue to see how she responds. If she reciprocates, you’re good to go.

Remember: when it comes to tongue-kissing, often less is more. Keep it neat, and then follow her lead.

More Tips On How To Get The Girl

Now that you’re a bona fide debonair smooching extraordinaire (or at least something close to it), you may want to also boost other aspects of your game. Follow these tips to get the girl:

1. If you want to kiss her, you need to know how to ask a girl out.
2. When you know how to get a girl to like you, kissing becomes a whole lot easier.
3. Before you can even think about kissing, you need to know how to flirt with a girl.

In Conclusion

The kiss on first date approach isn’t guaranteed, so don’t stress if you strike out. If you want to know how to kiss a girl and even how to get a girlfriend, the truth is that sometimes you need to take it slow.

Girls are smart, especially when it comes to dealing with guys. If she doesn’t want to kiss you just yet, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. In fact, she may be purposely waiting because she genuinely likes you and wants you to respect and pursue her.

Be mindful, respectful, and understanding. These first date tips are for helping you to form a genuine connection with her, and kissing is just a small part of that. If it’s meant to be, the kiss will happen in time.

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Stop wondering if you’re doing it right and learn how to kiss a girl the way she wants you to.

Gentlemen, have you ever walked away from a first kiss unsure of how it went? Was she into it? Did you use too much tongue? Was your breath ok?

It doesn’t take tons of experience to know how to kiss a girl, you just have to learn some basics principles.

The steps in this guide will help as you figure out how to get a girlfriend and will make kissing as fun and exciting as it should be.

Improve your lip game and learn how to kiss a woman the right way.

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Why Is Knowing Exactly How To Kiss A Girl So Important?

Compatibility with a girl works on many levels. Not only do you need to be in sync intellectually and personally, you have to have physical chemistry.

The basic element in that chemistry? Good kissing.

A kiss shared by people with chemistry can convey passion, affection, longing, or love. Bad kissers just convey confusion.

Knowing how to kiss a woman will help you build on the attraction with a new girl. Or show your girlfriend exactly how you’re feeling about her. You’ll be moving your lips, but you won’t have to say a word.

How to Kiss a Girl: 5 Steps

You know the old line about hearing music during a first kiss? Well, it might be more than just a romantic cliché.

Kissing is a lot like music.Jazz, to be precise. You have to master the basics before you can really improvise.

But once you do… well, you know how it goes.

Keep reading to learn how more passionate and enjoyable make outs than ever before. And the confidence boost knowing how to kiss a woman will make you even more attractive to women.

Here are 5 powerful steps on how to kiss a girl:

Step 1: Know these Kissing Tips

The reason humans kiss is a mystery, and even people at the Smithsonian study it. One thing is sure though… we are biologically programmed to love kissing.

Kissing is part of human nature… so these kissing tips are actually helping you become a better person!

Become a better person and a better man. No matter your lady’s favorite kissing style, the kissing tips I’m about to give you will improve your chemistry and have her wanting more.

Tip 1: Prepare yourself

If you want to get kissed, you need to make sure your mouth is kissable.

Before you leave the house make a pit stop in the bathroom and get that mouth ready. Brush your teeth to get rid of any remnants of your lunch and freshen your breath. A little mouthwash never hurt either.

Ladies love a man with a beard, but they don’t want a mouth full of mustache when they go in for a kiss. Trim your beard of stray hairs and make sure nothing is hanging over your lips. Tame the tangle with beard oil and watch as her hands drift up for a feel.

Make sure your lips are soft and hydrated by using lip balm. Nothing shuts down a potential kiss like dry, chapped lips. It will make kissing so much more enjoyable for both of you.

Tip 2: Be soft but firm

This might seem like a rookie problem, but even experienced kissers mess up their lip technique.

The key is to have soft lips but to be a firm kisser. Pecks are for grandmas, so don’t purse your lips into a beak. Relax your lips so that they can move and respond to hers.

The firmness comes into play as you switch kissing positions. When you move from lip to lip slightly flex muscles the in your lips. You want to be an active participant in the kiss, so use your lips to part hers. Lean in closer and use the muscles in your lips make your kiss more passionate.

Tip 3: Tame the tongue

Terrible tongue use is the most common complaint women have about the men they kiss. Too much tongue use is sloppy and distracts her from the kiss. Not enough tongue signals a lack of passion and can bore her.

So yeah, the tongue game is pretty important for how to kiss her.

The key to finding the right amount of tongue is taking baby steps.

First, open your mouth slightly and gently touch her tongue with yours. This playful touch is the start of more passionate, intimate kissing.

Slowly build the amount of tongue that you use and focus on playing with her tongue. If you’re licking her teeth or the roof of her mouth you’ve gone in too far. Back off a little bit and refocus on her tongue.

Finally, follow her lead. Her body language will let you know if she’s into the kiss, so keep doing the things she shows you she likes.

Step 2: Know How to Kiss Her For The First Time

Knowing how to kiss her is important but knowing how to kiss a girl for the first time determines if you’ll get a chance at a second kiss.

To master the first kiss, use these three tips.

Tip 1: Read her body language

Few things in life are as embarrassing as leaning in for a kiss with a girl and getting rejected. Spare yourself the embarrassment by making sure she’s ready for it.

Look for the signs she’s attracted to you. Here are three big signs to watch for:

• She makes clear and deliberate eye contact
• She enters your personal space
• She draws your attention to her lips

Watch the way she flirts and be ready to make a move. If you’ve been paying attention to her the right moment will happen naturally.

Tip 2: Be confident

Surprise kisses are great for couples, but your first kiss with a girl should never be a sneak attack.

Face the girl and wait for her to face you. Look from her eyes to her lips to let her know that there is nothing on your mind but kissing her.

If you’re standing, make sure your feet are pointed directly at her. This opens you up for closer physical contact. It also shows that you meant for this kiss to happen and you’re giving all your attention to her.

First kisses are memorable experiences, especially at the start of a relationship. You want to her to remember you as confident, not opportunistic. Acting confident will also make you feel more confident and will make you much more attractive to her.

Tip 3: Hold off on the tongue

Using tongue is a very personal, passionate gesture. Which is great… when the time is right.

Don’t lean in with your tongue out on the very first kiss. Let your lips play with hers for a little while and see how well you connect. If you enter make out mode start to work the tongue in slowly with the “tame the tongue” tip from above.

Step 3: Get Her to Kiss You

Does the guy always have to be the one to start the kiss? Definitely not! Many girls are totally willing to lean in first. Knowing how to get a girl to kiss you will make it much more likely that a girl will make the first move.

Here are three tips to get her to kiss you:

Tip 1: Be confident

If it seems like that tip shows up a lot, it’s because confidence is the most important and attractive quality a man can develop. Women want to be with a man who is sure of himself, and they are much more likely to kiss a man who believes he’s worth kissing.

Tip 2: Flirt

She’s not going to take the first step if you aren’t showing her that you’re interested in her. At its core, that’s all flirting is… a playful expression of your interest in someone. Ask her funny questions and make lighthearted jokes.

Show her that you’re attracted to her and she’ll be much more likely make a move.

Tip 3: Lean in

Make kissing you seem like the most natural thing in the world. Leaning in uses your body language to show your desire to kiss her and makes it easier for her to close the gap and lock lips.

Step 4: React to the mood

The way you kiss your girl should match the mood of the situation you’re in. If the setting is romantic a deep, slow paced kiss is the right call. If the energy is high and passions are flaring, a more energized kiss is the move.

Figure out the mood and then make your move.

Step 5: Get closer

Show her that you can’t get enough of her by getting in closer. A hand on her check or at the small of her back will make her feel desired and bring her in closer to you for a better, more passionate kiss.

Make her feel like the object of your affection, not your aggression. You want to shower her that you’re into her without forcing anything on her. Bring her in close, but don’t push it if she’s not ready.

How to Make Out With a Girl

For the most part, the steps for how to make out with a girl are similar to the steps for how to kiss her. You still have to master your technique, match the mood, and bring her in close.

But there’s one important difference… variety.

Master the skills above and you’ll be ready for a make out. But to keep a make out interesting you have to mix things up. Trying changing the way that you hold her or varying your intensity.

Kiss on First Date?

A kiss on a first date was once considered too forward, but in today’s dating atmosphere two people who share a connection should feel no shame in kissing on the first date.

The key to success is making sure that she’s ready to kiss. If she goes directly inside or into her car, she’s choosing not to create an opportunity for a kiss. But if she lingers she might just be waiting for your move.

More Steps on How To Get The Girl

Let us help you find the girl of your dreams by checking out the links to more great posts on how to get the girl.

1. Land a date with these tips for how to ask a girl out.
2. Get the girl of your dreams once you know how to get a girl to like you.
3. Show that girl you’re into her after you learn how to flirt with a girl.

In Conclusion

Learning how to kiss a girl doesn’t have to be stressful, and you don’t have to suffer through a dozen bad kisses before you master it.

You can master these steps in no time… so whether you’re getting ready for your first kiss or just your next kiss you can be sure you’ll be prepared.

Knowing how to kiss the girl you like is a key step in how to get a girlfriend process. You’ve got the know-how. Now go find the right girl to kiss.

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Gentleman, some of the most powerful words you will say in life are going to be love messages for her. We all love to hear that we are adored. Sweet love messages make the world go round because of their timeless simplicity and soul-engagement. Show her you can get out of your mental mind and into your heart.

Sweet love messages can serve as a reminder of your growing, even eternal bond. Written with authenticity, love messages deepen your connection. Delivered with emotion, romantic love messages can foster trust that leads to more sharing.

Maybe you’re already in a blossoming relationship and you’re looking for ways to fortify your bond and clarify your intentions. Maybe in the past, you’ve been a man of few words, but she is really inspiring you to get out of your comfort zone and express yourself in different ways.

Or, maybe you’re single and trying to manifest the girl of your dreams. You’ll want to know how to get a girlfriend. You’ll want to know what to text a girl you’ve just recently met to strengthen the spark. How to text a girl may seem like basic stuff, but the truth is there is a lot of subtle communication going on in timing, tone, and content that you’ll want to get the nuances of.

Love messages for her are sure to inspire you to a higher understanding of love.

Some sweet love messages are short and simple. Others carry multiple layers of meaning.

We hope that you take our examples and use them to inspire your own deeply romantic love messages that fully reflect your feelings.

I recommend reading through all of these 78 love messages to find your absolute favorites… but if you’re looking for something specific, you can click the links below to jump to that section:

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The 19 Best Love Messages For Her

We hope that the following ideas for the best love messages for her stir your imagination to come up with some heartfelt words of your own. You can also use them word for word if you feel they truly reflect the nature of your special connection with your girl.

Whether spoken, written, sung, texted or conveyed in some other magical way, these love messages are sure to bring your feelings of love and devotion to the next level.

Here are our 19 best choice love messages for her:

1. I have always thought that a person can experience happiness once in a lifetime, but with you, I realized that happiness for me is every minute, every second, every day that I spend with you.

This one speaks of constancy. If you’re promising yourself to her every minute and every second, you’re talking about real commitment!

2. With you, I realized what it means to live life to the fullest and to enjoy every breath.

Love is not about finding another person to make you whole and happy. It’s about finding a constant source of inspiration in the other to make yourself happy.

3. When I’m with you, the only thing I want to do is to hold you tight, keep you warm and never let you go!

Cuddles lower blood pressure.

4. Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.

Falling in love with her has awakened parts of you that reach far beyond your mental mind.

5. They say love hurts, but I’m ready to take that risk if I’m going to be with you.

The most powerful people are able to find value in the most painful of experiences. Seeing pain in this way and welcoming it is an integral part of higher relationships.

6. I love seeing you happy and my biggest reward is seeing you smile.

Something seemingly little like a fleeting smile can be life-changing for the receiver in the light of true love.

7. They say you only fall in love once, but every time I look at you, I fall in love all over again.

This speaks of a desire to keep a relationship fresh, dynamic and brimming with discovery.

8. I’m having one of those days that make me realize how lost I’d be without you.

When you’re having a bad day, you go home to her in your mind and heart.

9. Words aren’t enough to tell you how wonderful you are. I love you.

There are five languages of love and words are just one of them.

10. I love you, As I have never loved another or ever will again, I love you with all that I am, and all that I will ever be.

This is a huge one. It reaches so high above human reason that it hits the height of the soul. Make sure you mean this one with your whole heart should you choose it.

11. You deserve all of me. You deserve my morning, night and noon. You deserve my present and future.

This is another one that bursts with the promise of commitment and growing old together. You are offering her your future!

12. Just when I thought of giving up to the fate that true love doesn’t exist, you came and showed me the best of it.

You are a transformed, elevated version of yourself because of her presence in your life.

13. My gratitude for having met you is surpassed only by my amazement at the joy you bring to my life.

Gratitude, amazement, and joy are some of the most positive emotions on earth.

14. No matter what, you will always be my lady, my life, my everything.

She is your “lady” and your “life.” Remember when writing your own sweet love messages for her that alliterations are potent. They inspire rhythm, repetition, and remembrance.

15. Our relationship is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I love everything about you, inside and out.

Your life took on a whole new meaning and your aspirations as her partner have reached a whole new level. You love who she is in her mind, heart, spirit, and body.

16. Thank you for forgiving me when I’ve let you down, for believing in me when no one else did, and for sticking with me through thick and thin. I will always love you.

This one is for partners who have been together through everything and come out stronger, better and more bonded than ever before. Gratitude, forgiveness, and faith are miracles to experience in the hands of another.

17. If I could give you one thing in life, I would give you the ability to see yourself through my eyes, only then would you realize how special you are to me.

If all of us saw ourselves the way our beloved sees us, the world would be full of people with enough confidence and self-esteem to save the world.

18. When I am with you, I feel both of our greatest potentials being stirred. We are each our own person, with our own goals and desires. To me, that is perfect.

You are not threatened by her independent nature. You know that true love is not about co-dependency, but about helping each person be the best they can be both together and apart.

19. I will do everything I can to support you in good times and in bad.

You recognize that real relationships are not always easy and you are strong enough to see beauty in the challenging times.

18 Love Message Conversation Starters

Love messages for her are found in the questions you ask her because they express that you want to deepen your awareness of who she is based on what you already know.

These can be asked face-to-face and as text conversation starters. You’ll want to know how to start a text conversation with a girl to offer yourself in every way you can even while apart.

Here are 18 questions to ask to start a conversation that conveys your love:

20. When was the last time I made you feel good about yourself and vice versa?

You want to know what she likes so you can keep doing it.

21. When can you say you’re truly successful?

A lot of us define success in different ways, far from how success is marketed to us in the media.

22. What is your biggest regret?

Our biggest regrets reflect the directions that we want to grow and improve in. The amount of regret a person feels shows how much they look to the past to define who they are in the present.

23. If you could go back in time, what time in your life do you want to go back to?

The eras we’re drawn to point to our values and style preferences.

24. Who do you think you’re most like? Your mother or your father?

Our parents are our biggest influences on a lot of subconscious behavior. You’ll know more about your girl when you know her parents.

25. If your life was a movie, who would play you and who would play me?

What actors and public figures reflect the qualities she sees in you and her?

26. What is your guilty pleasure?

What has she been socially conditioned to associate shame with?

27. When do you feel most like yourself?

In what parts of her life does she feel the freest?

28. What can I do to win you over when we’re not on good terms?

You’re asking how you can best connect with her in the face of challenge in your relationship. This is a big one that shows foresight.

29. When we fight, I wish you would _____.

You’re letting her know how to best re-connect with you when you’re both falling out.

30. How has our relationship changed since we started dating?

What part of love’s transformation is she the most aware of?

31. What gives you “butterflies”?

“Butterflies” is the physical reaction a person has to having their mind and heart stirred by another soul.

32. What are our similarities?

From her point of view, what does she see in you that she also sees in herself?

33. What would you like to change about yourself?

This question sheds light on her personal values and priorities.

34. What were your misconceptions about me?

You can discover some wounds from her past based on the judgments she made. You might also gain awareness of the first impression you make on people based on your own trauma.

35. What would you do if we were not together right now?

Maybe you can do it together. Maybe you share even more dreams than you knew.

36. What event in your life do you think the term “scarred for life” applies to?

What is a traumatic experience that still affects her to this day?

37. What are you into, but haven’t told me about?

What are the things about her that she doesn’t want just anyone to know, but would consider opening up to you about if you set a safe space for it first?

13 Good Morning Love Messages For Her

Sending a good morning text for her is one of many kinds of love messages for her because of the timing. It says “You’re the first person I thought of when I woke up.”

Here are 13 good morning messages for her:

38. Each of my mornings is wonderful because I will spend the day with you.

Maybe you’ve just moved in together and you’re basking in the fact that she’s not only the first person you think of, but the first person you see, touch, hear, smell and taste.

39. Let me fill your morning with tenderness, care, love, and attention from now and until the end of our days.

You’re singing your dedication in a million romantic ways here.

40. Good morning! You the biggest treasure I have ever had.

She is cherished.

41. This is another day, full of new expectations and plans, but the only thing which is stable in my life every single day is my love for you.

Love is like the rock we cling to keep the storm of life from washing us away.

42. The best feeling in the world is when you love a person who loves you back to the same extent.

You are not only celebrating your love for her but letting her know that you feel the power of her love for you.

43. Love is waking up every morning, and feeling thankful for having you in my life.

There is an exponential link between love and gratitude.

44. Waking up is my favorite and most hated part of the day. I can talk to you when I am awake, but my dreams with you at night are always cut short.

When two people start to communicate in dreams, that is the stuff of soul mates.

 45. I am sitting here on a park bench drinking coffee and watching the birds fly around as they sing their pretty songs. The only problem is that you are not here by my side.

Your peaceful, perfect morning routine is empty only of her.

46. Thinking about you only takes a second each morning, but the smile it brings to my face lasts for the entire day.

She lights up your day and her joy is momentum in your life.

47. I don’t care whether my morning coffee is a cappuccino, latte or a mocha. My favorite coffee is the one that I share with you.

There’s something timelessly special about sharing a coffee as two lovers begin their day together.

48. Every morning that I wake up madly in love with you is a day that I want to keep living.

The ferocity of love is just as important as the tenderness of it.

49. Good morning, my love. No matter what happens today or what happened yesterday, I want you to know that you’re the one for me.

Every moment begins anew and all past trespasses have been forgotten.

50. I am right behind you, I support you and I want all your dreams to come true.

You’re her biggest fan and advocate.

17 Good Night Love Messages For Her

In the same way love messages sent by text each morning reaffirm your everlasting love, so do romantic love messages via good night texts for her. She’s the last person you think of before sleep. Let her know.

Here are 17 great ideas for good night love messages to keep her warm at night:

51. Hold your phone tightly because this text message is a hug in disguise.

You’re hugging her right now whether physical reality allows it or not.

52. Hope you can feel my love across distance.

Love knows no bounds.

53. My night is always the same. I jump in the shower, brush my teeth and spend the whole night thinking about you.

Thoughts of her are now a solid part of your bedtime routine.

54. You are the one thing I love the most in this world. You have given me hope when all I see is darkness.

True love can transform any negative situation into positive.

55. I hope it’s not too late to tell you goodnight and that I love you more than anything in this world.

You are being considerate of her schedule and yet you couldn’t help sending your love, whether she sees it before she sleeps or welcomes it when she wakes.

56. I hope your dreams bring you happiness and my thoughts bring you love.

Your hopes are full for her.

57. I always thought that my life was going to be planned out, you know, simple and boring. When I met you, my heart skipped a beat, and we’ve been on a rollercoaster ever since.

She has changed you and lit up your life’s path in ways beyond your imagination.

58. Every night I try to stay up later than you, so I can send you a good night text that you’ll see in the morning. I love you, my queen.

You plan each moment with the intention of making her feel loved.

59. I am half asleep, but I found the energy to send you this text to tell you that you made my day perfect.

No amount of exhaustion can keep you from thinking of her.

60. Sometimes, there are things that I cannot explain. The first time I was truly stumped was when I realized that my life changed when I met you.

Your relationship has reached the point of passion beyond words, reason, and routine.

61. Do you know how wonderful it feels to go to bed each day and know that you are mine and I am yours?

You revel in your undying commitment to each other.

62. I have quit many habits in the past, but one habit that I don’t ever want to quit is loving you.

All things can fall away while the truest of truths remain.

63. Your love gives me a natural high. I don’t ever want to be without it. I hope you had a wonderful day. A day as wonderful as you.

Love messages for her don’t get fuller than this.

64. Being loved by you is the sweetest thing. Loving you is the best thing. Thank you for being in my life.

Sweet love messages for her never cease to stir the heart.

65. I know that this day could have been better. I just want to tell you that I will always believe in you and me. No matter what comes our way, you will always have me.

The most romantic love messages for her heal her heart after a bad day.

66. My life is forever changed because of you. I will do everything to keep you happy and loved. Sweet dreams, my dear.

You believe in sacrifice when it comes to loving her.

67. The highlight of my day is being with you. On days that we cannot be together, the highlight of my day is talking to you on the phone, hearing your voice, and knowing about what happened with your day.

No matter how much physical contact you have with her, your mind-heart-soul connection endures.

11 Flirty Love Messages For Her

Love messages for her can be fun and flirty just like they can be deep. Send some flirty texts for her to get you both through your days. You’ll want to know how to flirt with a girl over text.

Here’s 11 flirty love messages for her:

68. I am so bored at work, come and save me.

If you could imagine what I’m thinking about doing with you…

69. What can be better than looking into your eyes every day?

Your eyes stir my soul.

70. Hi, I’m just planning my future and I wanted to ask you: are you free next evening?

You want her in your immediate future and your far off future.

71. Sweet dreams… I hope I’m in them.

Love transcends physical reality.

72. I was thinking of you today, while I was doing some math problems, but there weren’t enough spaces on the calculator to work out how much I love you.

Even the mundane is brightened by thoughts of her.

73. Would you mind emptying your pockets – I believe you’ve stolen my heart.

Banter for the win.

74. I can’t raise the courage to tell you how much I adore you, so I guess I’ll just keep it to myself.

You confide in her as your girlfriend and your best friend.

75. The sunset today was incredible looking, but it has absolutely nothing on you.

A winning metaphor is one of many perfect love messages for her.

76. I honestly cannot believe how beautiful you are every time I see you.

Disbelief expands awareness of what’s possible.

77. Congratulations! You have won the vote for being the most beautiful girl in the world. The Grand Prize is a romantic evening with me!

You really feel like you’ve hit the jackpot with her.

78. You are hotter than the bottom of my laptop when I’ve watched too much Netflix.

Here’s a funny one to get her smiling.

More Ways On How To Talk To Girls

Whether you’re in a seasoned relationship, single, or dating, the journey toward deepening your connection with women is going to help you grow as a man.

Here are some additional key resources:

1. Women love a man who can articulate his thoughts and feelings well: Memorable compliments for girls are going to require a lot more than just “You’re beautiful.” Here’s how to demonstrate your depth and awareness through your compliments for girls.
2. We all want to connect in ways we haven’t before: Consider some truly imaginative things to talk about with a girl.
3. There will always be room for sweetness: Sweet things to say to a girl are like icing on the cake.
4. You’ll want to maximize your texting game: Here’s how to ask a girl out over text.
5. We all get rejected sometimes: Turning the pain into a win is the mark of a true man. Here’s what to do when she didn’t text back.

How to Use Love Messages: 3 Tips

So you’ve just perused our extensive list of love messages for her in all their forms.

Here are 3 things to remember when you use them:

1. Make sure the words you choose are authentic

Our love messages for her are not meant to be memorized and used robotically. They are meant to stir your mind and heart for what’s possible to say so you can ask yourself which ones really reflect what you feel.

2. Choose love messages appropriate for the level you’re at in your relationship

When you speak of eternity and commitment across a lifetime, your girl must already feel the same way for these to engage her without sounding scary. Just because you’re at the early stage of your relationship does not make your love any less huge and beautiful.

3. Love messages for her can be communicated in infinite ways

Say them to her. Write them in notes. Send her “snail mail” through the post. Write them on the mirror to surprise her after she gets out of the shower. Shout your love from the rooftops. Whisper your love messages in her ears.

In Conclusion

Love messages can add a whole new level of intimacy to your relationship. A lot of women are more verbal than men and they really respond to a man who can match them in this love language.

Historically, us guys have been even been discouraged from putting our true feelings into actual words, but times have changed, cultural norms have loosed and we are now free to speak sweet love messages from our hearts.

Let’s take that freedom and run with it guys, for when we claim our truths, we inspire others around us to do the same.

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Gentlemen today, we’re showing 10 must-know tips on how to be confident around girls more.

Confidence is frustrating. It seems like sometimes you’ve got it, sometimes you don’t. And times when you really need it, it can seem impossible to tap into. Well don’t worry, because today we’re showing you 10 ways to have a steady supply of confidence when talking to girls, in any situation.

And because we don’t want you to show any girl you’re in fake it til you make it mode, we’re also letting you know the #1 way most men accidentally appear insecure.

Alright, let’s jump in.

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10 Ways On How To Be Confident Around Girls More

Here are 10 ways on how to be confident around girls:

10. Make It Bang

Known to just about any guy who’s ever pre-gamed before a night out, listening to the right music at the right moment… can be just the ticket on how to be confident around girls. Don’t believe it? In a study by Northwestern University, research showed that listening specifically to bass-heavy tunes like rap or hip hop not only reduced anxiety. But actually increased confidence.

So, whether it’s Eminem, Migos or Dr. Dre, let the bass knock a little before you go out and see what it does for your mindset.

9. Pre-Game Exertion

Before going out, a lot of guys tend to build up anxiety and psych themselves out. And at a time when they should be getting excited, they’re busy overthinking things, losing confidence… and even talking themselves into just staying home. Sound like anyone you know? Well, here’s to handle it. Instead of worrying about how the night is going to go, go for a quick 10-20 min run. For the same reasons cardio helps people be more productive and focused, it’ll also help clear your mind if you’ve got the jitters before a night of initiating conversations with girls.

8. “Eaves-Jump”

While listening intently to a group’s conversation from afar is kinda creepy, if you overhear a topic of interest don’t be afraid to “eaves-jump” into the conversation. And what is eaves-jumping exactly? It’s a word we made up. But basically, it’s just like eavesdropping, except instead of dropping it and walking away, you jump in and join the conversation.

Now we know what you’re thinking: That seems like it requires a lot of confidence. And… you’d be right, but the truth is, it’s also a lot easier than you think. As long as you don’t hesitate, jump in on the right topic and make sure to talk to the entire group, you will undeniably look and feel like the most confident guy in the room.

7. Sidekick

When in doubt, friend it out. It might seem like a no-brainer, but having a trusty bro by your side can boost your confidence in some major ways. First of all, having a friend, even just one single friend to have your back, instinctively signals to girls… that you’re a normal, well-adjusted dude who she can talk to.

Basically, being around friends can get girls treating you like you’re confident… even if you’re not. But wait, there’s more. Not only will you feel comfortable bantering back and forth with your friend, you will also have someone there to move the conversation along if it starts to stall. A “good” wingman will also affirm positive features about you, which means a girl automatically has a second opinion to fall back on, rather than your word alone.

6. Non-Evasive Eye Contact

As awkward as it may seem at first, confident people always remember to keep eye contact. They just don’t worry about it. All too often, men tend to get anxious and look away from a woman when she’s talking… or do the same when they are speaking to her. Not only will remembering to maintain eye contact make you look more confident, but it also tends to create a genuine connection with the girl, which as you’ll find out… is what really boosts your self-confidence.

5. Extrovert Your Posture

If you think about it, there’s no rule that says quiet guys can’t be confident. And there’s definitely no rule… that says introverts can’t have expressive posture. And that’s good news, because while girls will try to have a conversation with quiet guys, they instinctively tend to not want to initiate a conversation with someone who seems slouched and shy. And if that’s not enough of a confidence booster, standing up straight with your chin up has been shown to actually increase testosterone flow in the body, boosting confidence and making you feel more powerful.

4. Wear Fashionable Footwear

For sneakerheads and guys with a strong sense of what looks good, this is old news, but for some guys it takes a long time to realize: Wearing the right shoes is like a cheat-code for more confidence around girls. And the reason is twofold. Fresh shoes just make you feel good and less surprisingly: Women are genuinely impressed by a nice pair of shoes on a guy. In fact, numerous studies show that one of the first things a woman notices… is a man’s shoes. Which means if you get them right, you’ll know it.

So what are the “right” type of shoes? The choice is yours, but anything that conveys your own style and shows good taste… will absolutely work to gain real confidence-boosting attention.

3. The Machine Gun Approach

You’ve heard it before: “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try, try again.” It is easy to overthink any situation, especially if you feel unprepared for it. This is why it is important to try: The Machine Gun Approach

What is The Machine Gun Approach? Well it’s actually pretty simple: Building confidence is the result of routinely playing a simple numbers game. In other words, talk to as many women as you can, no matter the quality of interaction. Ask your cashier how her day went. Talk to your barista, ask a random girl for advice on where to eat. It doesn’t matter who you talk to or what you talk about. It’ll be difficult at first but after a series of small, simple interactions you will become clearly more confident.

Looking for even more tricks to approach girls confidently? Check out this video right here: How to Approach a Girl Like an Alpha Male (Easily Do This)

2. Dump the Downers

Alright, this trick might seem a little extreme, but its importance cannot be understated. The wrong friends will kill your confidence. Think about it as having a bad wingman, instead of supporting you and building your morale, they throw you under the bus the minute you around girls. And not only that… they may even make you feel bad about yourself even when they’re not around.

So if you’re “friends” with a confidence killer, the best thing might be to create some space. Because at the end of the day, you’ve probably got enough doubt and double-guessing as it is… and you don’t need anyone around making things harder for you.

1. Make A Mentor

Confidence is a skill, and like any skill, the easiest way to learn it is by watching and learning from other people. For a lot of guys, their confidence is picked up from a combination of mom, dad, grandpa, older brother, and the basic social dynamic. But for other guys, they’ve gotta figure it out on their own. Either way, the key to confidence, whether it’s confidence among your peers, at work, or how to be confident around girls, is identifying your mentors (whoever they are) and understanding how their style of confidence can work for you.

The Number 1 Way Women Sense a Lack of Confidence

As promised, here is the number one way women sense insecurity. When guys don’t have confidence they tend to try and substitute it with nervous habits. Women can pick up on most of them, but one habit screams, “Yeah, this guy is nervous.”

So, what habit is it? Continuous, non-stop talking. People are afraid of making things awkward, that is a fact. So when there is a silence in the conversation guys try and fill it with meaningless banter. However, by doing this they realeaving how nervous they really are. Instead of chatting away, try listening intently to what she has to say, not only will she find that you are a great listener (even if you are pretending), but she will also never suspect how nervous you really are.

In Conclusion

Those are the the 10 crucial ways on how to be more confident around girls and #1 sign that you are lacking confidence.

And while you’re here, why not check out these other confidence-building videos?

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When you’re looking for how to get a girlfriend, it’s useful to first know how to know if your crush likes you so you don’t chase the wrong girl.

To save yourself the trouble and the heartache of going after a girl that isn’t interested, you’ve got to know how to tell if a girl likes you.

Everyone knows that, but a lot of guys think it’s simply impossible to figure out the answer. To them, women are just too mysterious and there’s no way to discern from their behavior and words what they mean.

How to tell if your crush likes you? According to those guys, there’s just no answer.

But we know better. If you follow the steps below, you’ll know for certain just how your crush feels. You won’t spend another moment agonizing over how to know if your crush likes you. You’ll know, and then you can know how to act.

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How To Know If Your Crush Likes You: 6 Steps

When you’re considering how to know if your crush likes you, you have to tread carefully. You don’t want to expose yourself to embarrassment, but you want to be certain one way or the other.

To find out if the girl you’re eyeing is eyeing you back, follow these 6 steps, and you’ll be on much surer footing.

Here are 6 signs to see if your crush likes you. 

Step 1: See the Signs a Girl Likes You from Afar

This is the safest bet, and also sometimes the only bet (if you aren’t already friendly with the girl), to find out if a girl is crushing on you without too much risk.

If a girl really likes you, she’s probably making her interest from a distance pretty clear. Try to see if you catch her glancing at you or smiling at you. If she’s making it clear she’s looking and she likes what she sees, she’s interested.

Step 2: See The Signs a Girl Likes You Up Close

Let’s say you’ve gotten a bit closer, and now you’re speaking to the girl you’re crushing on. How to tell if your crush likes you?

The signs a girl likes you when your more up close are sometimes a little harder to read.

You may still get the stares and smiles, but they’re more likely to show up now in direct eye contact while you’re talking. She might also start laughing more than she really should at your jokes.

She may also try to take up any topic you bring up and ask you to say more, trying to communicate the fact she finds you interesting.

Step 3: See the Signs a Friend Likes You

You don’t always want to know how to know if your crush likes you when your crush is the stranger across the room. Sometimes your crush is already your friend.

Figuring out if your friend likes you as more than a friend is notoriously tricky, but it really just comes down to seeing how she act differently with you than with other friends.

Does she try to spend more time alone with you? Is she always available to hang out with you? Does she seem disappointed when you talk about other girls?

If she’s showing those signs, she’s probably as lovesick as you are.

Step 4: See The Signs a Shy Girl Likes You

Showing your interest in someone takes a lot of boldness, which makes it harder to read the signs a shy girl likes you than it does with other girls.

These signs here are often harder to see unless you’re looking. She may start wearing more makeup anytime she knows you’ll be around. Or, she may do the opposite of bolder girls and avoid eye contact specifically with you.

She may also get more nervous around you or get suddenly bolder and never want to stop chatting once you’re texting and not right in front of her.

Look out for little ways she’s showing interest without advertising it, and you’ll have a decent answer to how to know if your crush likes you when she’s so shy.

Step 5: See The Signs Your Crush Wants You to Chase Her

There’s a fine line between friendly, being a tease, and playing hard to get, and so you really want to pay attention to the signs she wants you to chase her.

Even though you want a way to figure out how to know if your crush likes you, this type of girl may demand you be a bit bolder. She’s likely to play you hot and cold, being very interested and flirty one minute and the next acting like she barely knows you.

She may show she’s eager to hang out and chat, but then suddenly she’ll disappear for a while. Then, she’ll tell you she misses you or start texting you like mad.

In this case, she’s probably asking you to chase her, but be careful, not all girls who want to be chased want to be caught.

Step 6: If You Don’t See It, Be More Direct

Like the girls who want to be chased in Step 5, sometimes you just have to get a little more direct to find out just how a girl feels.

If you can’t answer for certain and you’re still wondering if your crush likes you in your specific situation, get a little more direct.

You don’t have to ask directly, but try to be a little more flirtatious, try to get more time alone with her, and try to get a little closer with little touches and more eye contact.

Putting her on the spot with more direct interest on your part will flush out her feelings very quickly.

How To Tell If Your Crush Likes You Over Text

A lot of relationships are made these days by text, and once you’re chatting with a girl, you may start to wonder how to tell if a girl likes you over text to know if this girl is showing interest or just being friendly.

Use these steps to get the answer, so you know how to approach your texting and future relationship prospects.

Here are 3 ways to know if she likes you over text:

Step 1: Start a Text Conversation With A Girl

There’s really know better way to answer how to know if your crush likes you through text than by starting a great text conversation and seeing where it goes.

Wondering how to start a text conversation with a girl? That’s as easy as using a few text conversation starters to lead her in the direction you want the conversation to go.

Ask her about her ideal boyfriend to see if it matches up to you. Or, ask her to plan her perfect day and then ask if she wants you to make it happen. You can also talk about her favorite movies or activities and tentatively feel out whether she would want you to take her out or not.

Step 2: Know What To Text Your Crush To Tell If She Likes You Over Text

Is the text conversation starter not quite working for you? You just need to settle on what to text a girl. And sometimes, that can mean when to text a girl, as you’ll see in Tips 1 and 2.

Using these text techniques you can easily figure out if your crush likes you.

Tip 1: Send A Good Morning Text for Her

If you want to get a good understanding of how she feels for you, start sending a good morning text for her every morning.

If she doesn’t like you, she won’t respond or she’ll ask you to stop. But if she does, you’ll be the first thing she thinks of when she gets up.

Ask her something simple like how she slept or what she has planned for the day. Or, report on how much you’re looking forward to seeing her later.

Tip 2: Send A Good Night Text For Her

Much like Tip 1, you can also send a good night text for her to see how receptive she is to your interest.

Ask her about the best part of her day, or take a minute to talk about the future she dreams of. You can also send her funny jokes or memes to help her sleep better.

Whatever you send, if she responds well to your messages, she probably likes not just the messages but you too.

Tip 3: Send a Random Text

If you don’t want to go the consistent route, try to surprise her to giving away how she feels. You can send a random text with a random question that gets her laughing and answering honestly.

Ask her if she’d rather be a kid her whole life or never have a childhood, or ask her what really makes her feel loved. Or, just wait for a great random moment and ask her to explain what love means to her.

She may surprise you and herself by telling more than she meant.

Step 3: Flirt With Her Over Text

If you don’t like the options in Step 2, you can always be a little more direct and start sending flirty texts for her.

While some guys get nervous about how to flirt with a girl over text, it really is all about just sending some coy words that let on a little that you’re interested.

Text her that she must be lonely because she’s not been talking to you or ask her how she can stand to get through the day without you.

A few words sent half-jokingly can often leave the door open enough for her to make her feelings clear. Then you don’t have to struggle to understand if your crush likes you. She’ll just lay it out by flirting back.

Signs Your Crush Doesn’t Like You

In an ideal world, once you find out how to know if your crush likes you, you’d discover that they always do. Unfortunately, that’s not the world we’re living in, and so you have to also know the signs a girl doesn’t like you.

These signs can be anything from blunt and obvious to very subtle. You may find that she makes a point of not responding to your comments in a group. She may also not text back or answer her phone when you call.

More subtly, she may not smile or just not brighten up when you’re around, and she just be polite without really being interested in what you’re saying.

More Tips on How To Get The Girl

Once you know that your crush likes you, there’s still some work to be done. Get from crushing to a girlfriend with these articles:

1. Learn how to ask a girl out to ask the question right the first time.
2. If she’s not interested today, find out how to get a girl to like you to earn her interest tomorrow.
3. Have fun getting a girlfriend by discovering how to flirt with a girl. 

When you think about it, the answer to how to know if your crush likes you can be as simple as asking, but most of us don’t want to brave the risk of embarrassment to find out that way.

In Conclusion

A far less potentially painful method is using the steps above so that you can figure out how to tell if a girl likes you quickly and then move on to how to get a girlfriend once you know the answer.

Thankfully, when you’ve mastered how to tell if your crush likes you, you can get a straight answer without any risk. If you’re lucky, and the answer is she’s crushing back, you’ve got a great shot at a happy future together.

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Every guy has been playing ball or poker with his bros and thought quietly to himself, “I need a girlfriend.”

We all crave something softer sometimes. If you’ve ever thought, “I want a girlfriend,” finding her is merely a matter of the right mindset.

Looking for a girlfriend is every man’s rite of massage. It’s not about trying to mold yourself into some 6-foot-3 superhero. To need a girlfriend is not about chasing, luck, or competition.

Looking for a girlfriend is about committing to your values, and connecting authentically. When you begin your quest to find a girlfriend, you’re communicating what you want, and what you’re willing to give.

You might be thinking, “I need a girlfriend” right now.

Keep scrolling for tons of master tips on how to get a girlfriend.

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Why You Don’t Have A Girlfriend: 8 Reasons

Maybe you’ve been thinking “I need a girlfriend” for a while, but you just don’t know where to start.

Getting what you want out of life means looking carefully at the reasons you don’t already have the girl of your dreams, and adjusting your actions accordingly.

Here are 8 reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend yet:

Reason 1: You Don’t Know How To Meet Women

Get in women-meeting-mode when you’re out and about. There are no location restrictions on where to find a girlfriend. Don’t limit yourself to cafes, bars, and clubs as your only options for where to meet women.

You could be looking for a girlfriend at the grocery store. At the bank. In line at the DMV. Sense a spark across the way, and act on a chance encounter!

Join a Meetup in your area. Learning something new always breaks the ice. We recommend:

1. Anything movement-oriented: Physical activity makes you more outgoing. Martial arts classes, swing dance classes, hip-hop dance classes, and yoga classes are where it’s at.
2. Anything conversation-oriented: Make meaningful connection over books, current events or philosophical ideas. This is how to meet women.

You do need to have an authentic interest in the activity for it to work. You are getting out there to grow. When you think you just need a girlfriend, you’re actually answering your own ambition to learn.

Women want a guy who is breaking the mold by pursuing what he is genuinely interested in. Do what you want to do. You bring the masculinity to even traditionally feminine activities just by being you. Women long to see that kind of courage and audacity.

Reason 2: You Don’t Know How To Approach A Girl

When you think, “I want a girlfriend,” planning how to approach a girl can be nerve-wracking, but it doesn’t have to be.

Here are some things to remember:

1. Don’t wait around. It leads to overthinking. Hovering starts to look creepy.
2. You’re alike. We all hate traffic. We’re all looking for the One.
3. Seek out rejection. Seriously. If you haven’t been rejected five times for every yes, you are not trying hard enough. Singular focus gets you too emotionally invested. Free yourself. Talk to everyone interesting. You won’t even notice the rejections.

Reason 3: You Don’t Know How To Correctly Talk To Girls

Each time you think, “I need a girlfriend,” remember to consider how she’s getting your messages. Balancing your emotions is key for how to talk to girls.

Here are some pointers:

1. Appear confident, not competitive. It’s not a job interview. When you’re trying to sell yourself like a product, it’s exhausting and frankly, sounds desperate.
2. Dial back the intensity. Appear present and interested, but not hanging off of her every word. Help her feel engaged, but not pressured or trapped in the conversation.

Describing all the ways she amazes you is the best part of how to talk to a girl you like.

Here are some tips:

Tip 1: Compliment Her

Skip superficial compliments like “I love your hair.” To a girl who’s heard it all, you could sound insincere.

Instead, stand out by complimenting qualities that she has cultivated in herself through diligence and commitment. When you recognize personal growth in her, it shows you value your own.

Here are two examples of high-level compliments for girls:

1. I admired your courage today in what you said to (person x) about (issue y). It takes strength to stand up for what’s right. I’m sure others will benefit from your integrity.
2. Whenever I hear you talk about how much you love (x), it makes me want to learn more about it. I had never thought this way about (x) until I met you.

Tip 2: Say Sweet Things to Her

Sweet things to say to a girl should be on your mind when you think, “I want a girlfriend.”

Here are two options:

1. “You have an infectious laugh. When I heard it, I couldn’t help but come over and say hi:” You’re drawn to her openness and natural joy.
2. “I was drawn to say hello to you.” You don’t need a reason to tell a girl that you find her attractive and fascinating.

Tip 3: Flirt With Her

When you think, “I want a girlfriend,” learning how to flirt with a girl will fling open doors.

Here is one noteworthy caution:

Smiling: Your best attempt at Blue Steel won’t cut it. Don’t look for reassurance in return. Don’t under-commit out of shyness. Have you ever tentatively smiled at someone, and they didn’t notice? What felt like rejection totally wasn’t! Awkward.

An authentic smile comes from gratitude. When you have it, you are magnetic!

Reason 4: You Don’t Know How To Get A Girl’s Number

“When?” you ask. Don’t spend so much time wondering how to get a girl’s number that you miss the chance. CREATE the chance.

Here’s our advice:

Converse. Establish something in common. Wait for signals that she is interested in continuing the exchange. Observe her smile, her eye contact, the vigor of her nod, and how she turns to face you. Look for all of these. If she merely smiles, it might just be out of politeness.

Don’t tell her to call you. Throwing some digits at a girl does not inspire her to chase you.

Prompt her directly by saying “I’ve got to get back to work, but I’d love to talk more about this sometime.” Boom. You’ve just offered your busy schedule as a reason to cut to the chase. If she accepts, offer her your phone so she can enter her number.

Reason 5: You Don’t Know How To Text A Girl

If you’re thinking, “I need a girlfriend,” you’ll want to learn how to text a girl.

Here are some tips to tell her you’re thinking of her when apart:

Tip 4: Ask Questions To A Girl Over Text

Light up her day, and keep the spark while apart with some questions to ask a girl over text.

Here are some things to ask to find out what she cares about:

1. If you were a fruit, what would you be? Does she see herself as cute like a grape or full of health benefits like a coconut?
2. Describe your dream home: Is she an urban woman or a country girl?

Tip 5: Send A Good Morning Text For Her

When you think, “I need a girlfriend,” remember that good morning texts for her let her know she’s always on your mind.

Here are some ideas:

1. Morning! May your boss be kind and may traffic move quickly: You’ve got well wishes for her work day.
2. Rise and shine. Go get ’em tiger: Playfully wish her an energetic morning.
3. Hope your morning is as beautiful as you are: You can’t go wrong comparing her to a beautiful sunrise.

Tip 6: Send A Good night text For Her

For when you say, “I need a girlfriend,” be ready with some good night texts for her to tell her she’s the last person on your mind before you close your eyes.

Here are a few recommendations:

1. You make me so happy. *Heart emoji*: Simple, clear, and so sincere.
2. Here are a strong hug and a gentle kiss: What you would give her if you were right there with her.
3. Sweet dreams, my love: Infinite power, four little words.

Reason 6: You Don’t Know How To Ask A Girl Out

You’ve got her number, and you’ve got a steady text stream going. Learn how to ask a girl out to initiate your first date.

Here are two things to remember:

1. Keep it simple. You don’t need a million bucks. You don’t need to wear a suit. You just need to show her who you really are and be curious about who she really is.
2. You will grow as a man, whether she accepts or rejects. The point here is not to guarantee a go. The point is to cultivate confidence and self-esteem to go after what you want, when you want it. We practically advocate for you to get rejected a few times. It builds character. Can you keep your head held high when you want to crawl into a hole? The real test of manhood is how you bounce back even stronger.

Cute ways to ask a girl out show creativity in your planning.

Here are a couple options:

1. I’m making tacos tonight. Care to join me?: She will be impressed by your cooking and fast vegetable dicing skills.
2. I’ve always been inspired by what the stars tell us. Want to see what they have to say?: Go star gazing. Pack hot cocoa and a couple of blankets. Totally romantic, and totally free.

Reason 7: You Don’t Know How To Get A Girl To Like You

If you’re thinking, “I need a girlfriend,” consider how to get a girl to like you. You don’t need to look like Brad Pitt, but you do need to commit to being the best version of yourself to get results.

Here are some tips:

Tip 7: Know What Women Want In A Man

Feminism has really made dating expectations confusing! We all just want to do the right thing. We want everyone to feel respected, no matter what that looks like.

Here are a couple of modern dating notes about what women want in a man:

1. Adaptability: Honestly, women are just as confused as to what they should expect from men nowadays! She might have been brought up on old-fashioned chivalry, but her friends are feminists. She’s looking for balance too.
2. Communication Skills: You can avoid a lot of confusion by just asking her what makes her happy.

Tip 8: Know What Girls Like

When you’re thinking, “I need a girlfriend,” you also wonder, “What do girls like?”

Here are two truths:

1. She likes a man who’s not afraid to find ways to improve his appearance: Learning about styles that accentuate your unique features does not make you vain.
2. She likes a man who is both strong and soft: The worthiest men know that expressing their vulnerable side only makes them stronger. Pretending to be rough and tough 100% of the time actually shows emotional avoidance.

Reason 8: You Don’t Know How To Tell A Girl You Like Her

Intentional touch can work miracles for how to tell a girl you like her.

Put your hand over hers. Start with a brief squeeze.

The ears are a powerful erogenous zone. Whisper into her ear so she can feel your breath.

More Tips On How To Get A Girlfriend

Understanding her signals is as important as sending her clear signals. Turning a date into a relationship requires a full arsenal of tactics.

Here are some more key items:

1. Ask a Girl Out: Keep your confidence high and your delivery creative when you consider
   how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.
2. Impress Her: Focus on how to impress a girl by maximizing your natural assets.
3. Recognize the signs: Don’t let her signals fall on deaf ears. Guys who need a girlfriend should recognize the signs a girl likes you.
4. Kiss her properly: There are fairytale kisses, and there are wet dog kisses. Learn how to kiss a girl before you find a girlfriend.

In Conclusion

Gentlemen, when you think to yourself, “I need a girlfriend,” reflect on the reasons you don’t have one already, and plan accordingly.

Learning how to talk to women correctly will expand your horizons. Excelling in areas you value will improve your chances. Don’t underestimate the importance of texting a girl intentionally.

Any guy who thinks, “I need a girlfriend” can discover a new side of himself when he approaches women proactively.

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